Ahhhhh, now it is clear. You're a sociopath! Sociopaths see other people as tools, and there is a type of sociopath who views work as beneath them and tries to manipulate others to support them. You have a dash of narcissism too since everything is about you, and how it affects/benefits you. You are incapable of considering other's thoughts and feelings. Good to know. Tamar is obviously a broken person, but I'm glad she cut ties with you. You are truly dangerous. I hope she meets someone who truly cares for her and persuades her to get the help she needs. I also hope you stay far, far away. Prison would be a good place for you.