There's a bunch of pathetic people who have become that way. I don't know where people find all these awful women, but, you know, it's very easy to avoid those women. I've never had a girlfriend who was like that most. of my relationships grew up so completely my fault. It's almost like self responsibility is something that no one practices these days. Then again, the boomers didn't neither. So they really can't judge other people.
But to quote Friedrich Nietzsche, you need to take control of the life you are given.