Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[often puzzled]

5005 Shoreview Dr, Coloma, MI 49038-8521

Hmm. I thought that what we can see of the yard where Alex and Ari are sitting didn't exactly match what we can see of the lake house area, but I could certainly be wrong. It looks like there are ranch-like houses to the sides of wherever they currently are, and the backyard is shaded, outbuildings. I don't quite see any of that on the aerial view of the lake house:



Zoomed in:



Property details for the lake house, while I'm at it:



New Instagram stories:



She's started Karissa Collins-tier color-correcting photos of Ari (okay, not that bad).

Edit to add a new grid post. It's about her flight home but contains no actual information (but Ari is very cute).

 

[LonesomeDud]

I had a dark and intrusive thought: What's that little demon going to do to make that child mind her?

So much of dealing with a toddler is just controlling them physically. There's no civil discussion of explaining consequences with a two year old. Dog collar when the minder leaves with a little padlock on it? Technically harmless.

I admit, the thought makes me laugh, but I think they might actually need social work intervention. The good news is Noah (no one else, Noah) is in a good position to use resources local to Alex to make sure Ari is growing up safely. That's Noah's job. Not mine. Not a Redditor's. Not a Kiwi's.

I can only imagine a good little seemingly perfectly obedient Ari with a shock collar as a garter belt padlocked to her thigh quietly walking in home from the bus. That's near what was required for me to be a good kid, and both my parents were able of body.

 

[often puzzled]

There's an update from Alex with the "story" behind the flight photos, but there's no "story" at all. She's still not mentioning DV or why she actually left.

Grid post:

Spoiler: text

The story behind this photo:

The other day I flew home to Chicago with Ari. Flying as a disabled person consists of A LOT of moving parts and that’s without bringing along your two year old.

This type of endeavor would probably require two able bodied people to help facilitate. But, this is the second time Salina has helped me fly with Ari by herself! I’d say we have it pretty down pat!

During the flight I need a few minor adjustments and Ari saw Salina push me to my right so I was steady and then Ari put her hand up on my back to help momma

Ari is so incredibly smart and helpful. She was so good on the flight and she’s such a trooper with all the changes she’s been through in her short little time on this Earth.

She makes me laugh on my darkest days. Her funny little personality is developing so much as each day passes. She’s growing up before my eyes.

I’ve never felt a love or bond like the one I have for Ari in my entire life.

And for that, I’m truly blessed she’s my daughter

Instagram stories (featuring smoked salmon, in case you were wondering where your donation dollars are going):



The unnamed source (that's probably Elise) continues to drip-feed information to the Reddit mods, including this:



Noah posted a BPD infographic/meme last night but has been otherwise silent:



Like Alex, Noah has removed his OnlyFans account. Legal action in coming? Custody battle TBD? She left Florida in a big hurry, too.

 

[Cherry Milk]

Once again, poor Ari.

They need to stop posting photos of Ari showing her nappy.
So sad to see her "helping" Alex

 

[LonesomeDud]

Well, whatever. Helping the cripple won't emotionally damage her. As long as someone doesn't push Ari to be independent too early. I don't think all the strangers caring for her really are at risk for that.

 

[often puzzled]

Again, sorry for the more frequent updates. Her posting schedule and frequency have really changed since she got Ari back. Now that she's got a moneymaker in front of her camera, she's posting more content, more frequently.

 

[Octopi]

Remember when Alex said she would no longer be posting photos of Ari on social media? Good times.

 

[often puzzled]

There's a heat wave happening, but Alex and Ari continue to stay outside. Could it be because-- as we have been told-- her parents' house is such a disaster that even the floor is comprimised?

All posts from Instagram stories.

Nothing new from Noah, no new posted activity on his case.

 

[a hapless toad]

Well, whatever. Helping the cripple won't emotionally damage her. As long as someone doesn't push Ari to be independent too early. I don't think all the strangers caring for her really are at risk for that.

Dud, I think you're the best, but come on...

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parentification#Types

 

[LonesomeDud]

Dud, I think you're the best, but come on...

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parentification#Types

It's not great, but honestly, I think compared to the other troubles like having two addict parents who constantly trot out other questionable people, handing Alex things in her wheelchair or brushing her hair is small potatoes.

The fact she has two parents who can't sit down and ask what is best for their girl after almost three years is infuriating. It's not like they're just making different choices, but that Ari is being treated like an object rather than a subject. They use Ari to do things, seemingly mostly to each other. She isn't really someone (at least from what I understand looking through my perspective) that they are making decisions around.

Ari's needs are always going to come secondary to her mom's. That's just her fate being born to a medically complex mom. She's getting parentified. Alex isn't some spunky woman who is making modifications to parent a toddler in a wheelchair. She is armchair mothering. It is all she can do. She can't give her daughter a hug. In 20 years, the best Ari is going to have is, "I was a good daughter to my mother." It's unfair, but it's a reality.

And Noah let it happen. He owes Ari the apology of a lifetime, her lifetime.

 

[Cherry Milk]

The cross necklace has gone so I guess she was only wearing it for Noahs parents.

 

[GenociderSyo]

 

[often puzzled]

Alex is feeling herself today and spammed a bunch of cursed images. A few are duplicated above, but here's everything she posted today-- grid post and stories.

Instagram stories:



Grid post:





Noah's mom puts Ari in cool and comfortable Carter's outfits in sweet prints. Alex puts Ari in-- checks notes-- a "Free Britney" t-shirt.

 

[Goatchoker]

so who’s putting on her mascara?
Because I know damn sure she isn’t.

I hope the best for Ari but it seems bleak as fuck.

 

[often puzzled]

Noah went live and didn't say much, but he did confirm that Alex left Cairo with the Smiths. If only she'd do the same for her daughter.

From Reddit:



Reddit thread -- archive

Alex's Instagram stories:



Instagram grid post:

 

[GenociderSyo]

She addressed the GoFundMe.

 

[Pudgy Bear Claws]

I know kids can be filthy little beasts but it really bugs me that as soon as Ari is with Alex and her family, she looks like she's been rolling in the dirt in cheap, shitty clothes. She's such an adorable nugget.

 

[often puzzled]

This was posted roughly around 8 PM Alex's time. Ari seems to be kept up very, very late when she's with Alex's family.



There was no update, so Ari-- unsurprisingly-- probably didn't like it. Alex doesn't grasp that toddlers prefer bland foods.

 

[Trombonista]

Also, we all know Alex didn't actually make it. At most she found the recipe and paid for the ingredients.

 

[prolific_mango]

She looks fat