Hey, full disclosure: I’m a queer cis woman looking for advice/tips/perspectives that only trans men can give. Hopefully that’s okay.
I read a lot of different types of erotica. I also write it. The issue is, I’ve noticed a massive lack of representation when it comes to trans men + cis women hookups in erotic literature (and also in porn). All other types of hookups are represented- which is totally fine and valid. But god forbid somebody writes about a trans guy topping a cis woman.
Nothing. F*cking crickets.
I just find this… odd. What gives?
Is this total lack of sexual content a form of FTM erasure?… Or is there a genuine lack of interest in this type of thing within the community itself?
I’m wondering if a hot erotic storyline
that’s written in a mindful and affirming way with a trans guy and cis woman would be interesting to anyone here. I know plenty of women (cis, trans, straight or otherwise) that would find it insanely hot- but my concern is
you. How do trans men feel about it?
I get that not everyone is going to be into this. That’s the nature of erotica; every storyline has a specific or niche audience in mind. But for those of you who
do find this sort of thing hot and feel the sting of its non-existent content, would you actually read it if someone bothered to write it?
What tips could you give the writer?… What pitfalls should be avoided?… What sort of things would you find the most affirming and euphoric?
That’s the sort of advice I’m after from anyone who’s willing to share it (18+, please). I’d greatly appreciate it.