Megathread Trannies posting their L's Online - Heckin valid people posting their funny misfortunes on the internet

[Backinpogform]

PTSD causing them to latch onto maladaptive unhealthy coping via porn? Or brain damage? Those are my guesses. Some of them already are perverted degenerates pre-military and go into the military deliberately to collect benefits for their trooning out, especially back when more insurance companies covered the cost of trooning. I'm unsure if Tricare military health insurance still covers trooning though.

Michael Bailey talks about how common vet troons are in his book. Back in the day the shame of the fetish had crossdressers pursuing stereotypically masculine careers to balance it out.

 

[LaughJoke2.0]

1701 Nice.

Sorry the Star Trek nerd in me had to comment on it.

 

[Apustajan apustaja]

1701 Nice.

Sorry the Star Trek nerd in me had to comment on it.

This thread is full of men going where no men have gone before, the ladies room, so it is tehnically on topic.

 

[Magic Pickle]

Hope American Kiwis are enjoying their Independence Day weekend - for now, enjoy a heavy duty haul involving many accounts from those over on r/mypartneristrans.

A proto-pooner worries that the loser tranny she shacked up with won't like her anymore if she dares to go against as Nature made her just as he did the same. It's a very "bite each other's dicks off" moment when I read posts like these, in all honesty.
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My trans partner’s worst fear is that I’m trans.. and I’m not sure if I am or not.​

Not really a rant, more of a “processing my thoughts by making a post about it,” but I’m not sure I want or need advice at this point in time, so this flair will do.
I have been with my partner for 10 years this year, with her coming out as a trans woman about 4.5 years ago. Our relationship is honestly very happy and healthy and stable. We help each other grow, and any problems we’ve had we have been able to have discussions about and resolve things with relatively few to no hurt feelings.
About me: I’m a recovering people pleaser. I worry a bit too much about hurting the people around me on accident (or on purpose). This means I’ve had times in my life where I stuffed myself deep in the closet or tried to change who I was to please people around me. Over the years, I’ve been slowly peeling away these layers to discover who is actually me inside, vs what is the mask I wear for others. I’ve learned so much about me, and I’ve really loved who I’ve become! Part of that discovery was a journey that took me first to bisexuality, then asexuality, and now queerness.
And over the years I’ve been slowly experimenting with my gender, and allowing myself to present a lot more the way I’m more comfortable with (which is a bit more masculine, with the occasional feminine moments).
But as I explore more, my partner has expressed worry. She is very sapphic. She is pretty revolted by a lot of physical masculine traits, such as hair and their smell. And she’s scared that the more I explore this side, if it turns out I’m trans, then she won’t be attracted to me anymore and it would mean we have to break up.
She’s just expressing her feelings and fears and wants to be reassured I guess? But I can’t really do that at this point in time. And, knowing me and my past and what time like… am I:- not trans, and just over thinking stuff and focusing on it for the wrong reasons?- or actually trans/nonbinary/something, but I am repressing it and in denial hard core because of my partner? (Not to mention my mom as well who’s kinda transphobic).
And I don’t feel like I can really explore that side of me knowing that the cost is losing my life partner.
She knows she’s being a hypocrite btw. It’s just she feels she also needs to express her feelings and talk about them.. but idk.. I guess I wish she didn’t? And I’m just a confused mess about it.
Also, I don’t really want anyone disparaging her. There’s a lot of context I didn’t include. Like I said, I’m just processings. We are also gonna have a convo about it tomorrow, so wish me luck I guess?

Case in point: this time, the tables turn as a FTM worries that her idyllic relationship with her "queer leaning cis man" partner will wind up with her being tied down to a hulking, dickless Alice instead of a soft, handsome Alan as she wished. The reason for her distress? She describes having an emotional attachment to his penis!
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I’m a trans man. My spouse is beginning their transition, and I’m struggling hard. (Potential TW: sex and genital stuff)​

I’m struggling HARD y’all. So, I (34 FTM) met and married, who I thought was just a queer leaning cis man(also 34). We got married a few years ago. I started my FTM transition 10 years ago. Over the past year or so, my spouse has gotten more and more gender queer/femme leaning. A few months ago, I finally had top surgery. I have no plans on bottom surgery. Now, my spouse who I love so much..wants bottom surgery. I love this person so much. With my entire heart. The thought of being without them crushes me..but also, the thought of them removing a part of themselves that I am so emotionally connected to is so crazy hard for me. It’s not just a body part. And the hardest part is IM TRANS. I GET IT. That would be like them telling me not to get top surgery because they like my chest. It wouldn’t happen. I’m just so full of emotions, and I don’t know what to do.

Though this is an L for OP right now, she will soon see in time that she narrowly avoided becoming a skinsuit: a young lady finds the courage within to break up with a polyamorous tranny who is 22 years her senior who then subsequently goes on to smear her image in public, accusing OP of being a chaser in front of all of their mutuals. Hopefully she's learned an important lesson early on to never trust a troon.
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We broke up​

I (22f) broke up with my girlfriend (44f). Yes, the age gap was bad, and we were also long distance to top it off. There were a couple other factors, she was poly and I figured out I wasn’t. I felt like we were at two separate stages of our lives and I didn’t know how to handle it. But the biggest reason was how she spoke to me. She would snap at me, call me things such as “heinous”, tell me I was a manipulator, just talked to me in general towards the end of our relationship in a way that I couldn’t handle.
When I initiated the breakup, she was very upset. It was her first committed relationship since her transition. She felt like I was the first person to see her as she is. And I do, I think she’s a beautiful woman. But one thing that bothered me, is that she blamed how she spoke to me and treated me on her transness, saying that her being raised as a man under her father causes her to be that way. While I understand, I just don’t think that’s an excuse. It frustrated her, and she told me I don’t understand what being trans is like and how it impacts her on a daily basis. Which is true, I don’t. But I also don’t tolerate anyone in my life speaking to me that way.
Now I’m just venting. After I broke up with her she started posting shit on social media calling me out, saying I love bonded her, and that I am a chaser. It’s just really upsetting to see the 360 and how rude she is being towards me in the ‘public square’ where our mutuals can see. I understand I’m the one that broke up with her, and she has a right to feel how she feels, but the whole situation is just making me sad, frustrated, and sometimes angry. Anyways, I have her blocked pretty much everywhere now, and will no longer be active in this sub.
Y’all rock.

A man so dishonorable, he doesn't deserve the honor of being a father: a woman recounts the miserable rollercoaster her life has undertaken once her retarded husband decided to troon out when she was only 4 months pregnant. Further highlights include that while he agreed not to take hormones until the baby had delivered, he went and turned his back on his word only a month later; refusing to acknowledge himself as the baby's biological father and wanting to take her title of mother instead; and, lastly, choosing to celebrate his version of "Mother's Day" on fucking Star Wars Day of all days.
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Mtf partner doesn't want to be acknowledged as our child's biological father/dad​

I'm feeling a lot of feelings today and just need to put it somewhere and maybe get some feedback. Long story short, my partner (29mtf) and I (30cisF) have been together since 2014 and she came out as trans femme about year and a half ago. When I found out I was 4 months pregnant last year, she told me she would wait until after the baby was born so we wouldn't both be in hormonal unpredictability/rollercoaster at the same time but wasn't able to and started HRT when I was a little over 5 months pregnant.
We now have a nearly 4mo and today is father's day and for some reason, it makes me so so sad that my partner doesn't seem to feel proud at all to be our sons biological father. Doesn't even want it to be acknowledged and feels upset when people say it. I know that part of it is that being acknowledged as the dad too often or at all can cause dysphoria so I'm trying to understand that more but I've seen some trans woman who are proud to be the dad/father but just prefer to be called mom and referred to as mom and I sort of anticipated that to be the case in our family but that's not the case and I guess I just didn't expect to have so many feelings about it. Sorry for the run on sentence.
I am working with a therapist to sort out all of my issues with things but this particular one has really been bothering me and I don't know if I'm just being a total asshole or if other people would/do feel similar things in this type of situation too.
I wasn't prepared to share the mom title (I know that perspective is seen as possessive and I've been working on addressing those parts of my brain) and that has been really hard on me but I've been trying to adjust and accept it so my partner feels celebrated and equal as our son's mother. But it has been more difficult for me than I anticipated and I'm struggling to navigate that.
So if any of you have any thoughts or experience to share, I'd really appreciate it. Please be kind if possible, my hormones are all over the place rn and I'm extra sensitive atm
EDIT:Thank you for the feedback everyone, and an extra thank you to those who tried to speak kindly in their responses and recognized that I wasn't coming from a place of malice. I also really appreciate everyone that shared their personal experience
After rereading my post, I realize I didn't articulate my feelings properly because I agree with and already felt a lot of the things that were mentioned in the responses I've gotten.
She goes by mum and we chose to celebrate her on star wars day since it's one of her favorite days, and I think the plan was to just not celebrate father's day at all, but what was throwing me of was the unexpected feelings I was having about it. My post was mostly just me feeling a lot of things I wasn't anticipating feeling and I decided reaching out to gain more perspective from people who had experienced something similar was a way to maybe help me navigate that. To clarify, I did not and do not expect my partner to want to be called dad or father, and I didn't mention father's day at all to her because of that. I only made the post cause a family member messaged me to tell her happy father's day and the emotions that came with that were complicated and I needed to vent them to somewhere that they wouldn't hurt my partner.
Please remember this sub has the potential to really help well-meaning people to understand or seek support to navigate tough situations with their trans partners, and being judgemental or condescending doesn't help teach people, it just hurts them and adds another obstacle in the way of them truly understanding to the best of their ability.
Thanks again everyone. I'm going to try to reply to some of the individual comments when I can but our little one is beginning teething so my spare time is slim atm.

Now, for a palate cleanser, and I'll even be nice and give you a twofer: message to all TiFs - you do not pass nearly as well as you think you do!
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outed​

I was just informed today by my girlfriend that this girl at work somehow found out I was trans and has been going around the store telling everyone and deadnaming me. I barely even know this girl, I met her when I started the job and have barely ever spoken to her so I didn’t do anything to provoke her in any way. I feel stuck. I want to quit right now on the spot but I’ve only been at this job for a month and I’m supposed i be going through a promotion soon I just don’t feel safe there anymore and I’m more upset bc this girl is literally part of the community so why’d she feel the need at allll. I texted my boss that I wasn’t coming in today because I refuse to work with this person and I’m going to HR when I can find out how to contact them. This was supposed to be my fresh start where nobody knew who I was after leaving my job of 5 years. I don’t know what to do besides go to sleep to not think about it

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Got clocked because of my height & voice.​

Feeling like shit. I've never been clocked in person before. I was really happy with my voice even, but I've always been so fucking depressed about my height (5'1"). I feel so overly aware of my incorrect body. I can't help but look at myself and wince at the reflection. I don't want to even hear my own voice. I was getting better. My dysphoria is always present but this just made it so much worse.
It was another trans person too. Why would they do this to me? Don't they feel miserable being reminded of it like I do?? I feel fucking terrible.

And to finish us off strong: a tranny despises having anal sex but feels he has no recourse but to have it anyway. Normal people simply don't have sex they don't care to have (or find shameful to have), so there surely must be a reason for OP's insistence upon performing it... what could it be?
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I hate anal sex but I don't have a choice​

I hate anal sex. I hate the idea of it. I would have never done it if I was a cis woman and I will never do it again after bottom surgery. No matter what a man would ask or do I will never accept anal sex after bottom surgery. The only reason why I do it currently is because I have only that hole and I want to get penerated. It feels good but I hate that I have to do it. I will never do it again after bottom surgery no matter what. I feel like I was forced to do it because I was born as trans. I will most likely hate myself forever for doing it in my past.
My friend (who is also a trans woman) said that many cis women do it and like it. Except I would have never done it if I was a cis woman and I still hate the idea of it. My friend likes it and still does it after bottom surgery. I just don't like it. I feel like my body doesn't really allow me to express my sexuality in any way properly currently and I'm trapped.
In my mind anal sex is one of the least sexiest things. It is so disgusting idea (even if done cleanly). I just have to look away and think I'm doing something else (and have a vagina) to enjoy it. I try to forget what I'm actually doing when I'm doing it.
This isn't hate against people who like it. I just hate it myself but I feel like I don't have other options currently.

Spoiler: You never hate trannies enough!

[–]Tight-Sorbet7750
It feels dirty and discusting. Also a big part of why I don't enjoy it as an idea is because my biggest turn on is an impregnantion kink. I don't really enjoy sex where I can't imagine myself getting pregnant. In sexual scenarios I always imagine myself getting pregnant from it and it is such a huge turn on for me. Without it sex feels nothing. That is why even while doing anal I have to try to imagine myself doing vaginal sex where the man is trying to get me pregnant. I have had this impregnantion kink since I started having sexual thoughts first time as a teen. It is still an essential part of my sexual pleasure as an adult.

 

[AMHOLIO]

Lmao what did the aging tranny expect? He will never be a cute anime girl. It's all downhill from here, sir.

Many troons seem to only want to be fuckable women. This is in their narrow definition of fuckable types, while some do call themselves andust after MILFs, most want to be flawlessly airbrushed 20somethings forever. Part of it is always wanting to be treated as a hot woman who men will wait on hands and knees for (thus not doing anything themselves, lazy fucks), part of it is insecurities with their own age and self worth, part of it is sheer vanity.

PTSD causing them to latch onto maladaptive unhealthy coping via porn? Or brain damage? Those are my guesses. Some of them already are perverted degenerates pre-military and go into the military deliberately to collect benefits for their trooning out, especially back when more insurance companies covered the cost of trooning. I'm unsure if Tricare military health insurance still covers trooning though.

Someone on the farms once explained it as some men who enter the army are looking for any purpose, anything to give them structure, anything to give them value. They're just the perfect type for joining a cult because they bounce between groups to improve themselves.

 

[Athena Save Us!]

It’ll be the same demented sexist shit all nonbinary faggots pull when describing what exactly makes them super special and not quite fully women. They see themselves as unique, fully-fleshed out, complex people (i.e, similar to how they see men), unlike the vapid, hyper-feminine, bimbo stereotype of other women that they all seem to have in their heads.

I’m sure if you asked her she’d say something inane like she doesn’t like skirts or pink, and she plays video games or likes metal instead of pop, or she’s not demure and submissive like those other stinky cis women are, like they all do.

This is how troons operate. On the one hand, they insist they aren't the embodiment of sexist stereotypes - that they're only acting like caricatures because that's how they perform masculinity/femininity. On the other, when you really push them (or look through their post history) you can see that they just assume they're far more enlightened than the average person because they "get" it. The non-binaries and gender-fluids in particular feel like they're above it all because they've fully broken free of the system.

Good for you. You simply saw the way trannies were upholding the system and latched onto their movement by saying you're both part of (they insist they're queer) and outside of the system that gender specials created. Yay, you're a real human being like everyone else who isn't a tranny.

 

[gaysexenjoyer]

Also the OP is a military veteran. Why is this such a common occurrence?

Brain trauma + PTSD aren't a great combo when it comes to avoiding mental disassociation, which is where most trauma trooning comes from.

 

[Congress Tart]

This is how troons operate. On the one hand, they insist they aren't the embodiment of sexist stereotypes...

This is what really gets me on the mindfuckery that transgenderism is.

They always argue that they "feel like a woman, so they are a woman." Wtf does that even mean?

From what I gather, "feeling" like a woman = a doing stereotypical "woman" things, (dresses, high heels, makeup, the most stereotypical shit possible).

Then what about actual women who don't adhere to any of it? Does that make them not real women? Is that what "non-binary" is supposed to be? Someone who doesn't follow every single societal stereotype? At that point 90 percent of human beings are non-binary. Kind of retarded, isn't it.

I had an acquaintance who went from being a straight woman to a "gay man" because she cut her hair short, used men's deodorant, and didn't shave (aka she didn't follow the stereotypes of a woman, so she must be male!). She was allowed by her friends to say faggot because "ohemgee!!! you are a gay guy now!!!!!" How many stereotypes do you need to perform to finally get labeled as the opposite gender?

You go out to eat at Popeyes once a week? Big deal. You go out to eat at Popeyes three times a week, and you wear a durag to bed? You must be a 100% true and honest African American! You definitely need to get some melanin injections done, because I bet you are feeling so dysphoric rn with your pale skin :'[

 

[gaysexenjoyer]

This thread is full of men going where no men have gone before, the ladies room, so it is technically on topic.

 

[triscketandatrasket]

You are perfect god damn.

well this is awkward Kyle is in my home town lol

 

[SnergenFlergen]

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Pooner cries (in a very manly way) about missing out on the many unique aspects of male life and childhood and lists a bunch of daft and oddly specific stereotypes (that probably have their genesis in some movie or anime she watched).

What is the earthly point of getting worked up and complaining about something that can never be changed/fixed in any way whatsoever? Word of advice for all pooners- men don't tend to do that. We usually expend our mental energy on more pragmatic matters that we are actually capable of influencing in some way, and file shit like this under 'pointless flights of fancy'. If you're going to claim to be a man, the very least you could do is attempt to act like one.

*Edit* Along comes a troon to prove my point for me:


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See, lil dood? That's how a man approaches this issue.

 

[Paper Machete]

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Pooner cries (in a very manly way) about missing out on the many unique aspects of male life and childhood by listing a bunch of daft and oddly specific stereotypes (that probably have their genesis in some movie or anime).

What is the earthly point in getting worked up and complaining about something that can never be changed/fixed in any way whatsoever? Word of advice for all pooners- men don't tend to do that. We usually expend our mental energy on more pragmatic matters that we are actually capable of influencing in some way, and file shit like this under 'pointless flights of fancy'. If you're going to claim to be a man, the least you could do is attempt to act like one.

It's funny too because a lot of these you can do as a woman. The perspective is gonna be different and all but...if you had male family members to chat with and you're a girl you could've still talked about bf/gfs and embarrassed each other, you can drink beer with a group of friends that are mixed company, you can have a girlfriend, you could've had male friends to be a tomboy with, you can play video games with guys, you can go to a barber and get a male cut if you wish, etc. There is no special thing physically keeping women from doing a lot of stuff, it's just that it doesn't appeal to them or they happen to have mostly other women as friends. And to be honest it's her idea that she wants to be a guy that probably started her in on these fantasies and not the other way around, which is why her ideas about them are so skewed odd. It's like a bunch of people that watched a bunch of movies made in the 80s that were set in high school and because that's what their idea of high school is based on they keep complaining about not getting to experience tropes made for the TV.

 

[msd]

Sperging out, insulting, and subsequently ruining someone's life by taking away their job by crying "TRANSPHOBIA!!!" is the best way to look like the good guy in this situation, as every tranny knows. Also this person is comparing the act of not giving a man with serious porn addiction and depression some estrogen to fulfill his sick fetish, with the act of refusing to treat a child in pain. And the elderly. Are you fucking kidding me? I hate this faggot site so much.

ah yes, prove you are mentally sane by sperging the fuck out, that'll surely look good in the medical file that goes to other fucking doctors, sad!

 

[Apustajan apustaja]

ah yes, prove you are mentally sane by sperging the fuck out, that'll surely look good in the medical file that goes to other fucking doctors, sad!

I've seen troons recommend each other to make their medical files private (you can do that in some European countries at least), to hide long histories of mental issues when transitioning, but doing that screams "drugseeker" to most doctors, so I don't really see their point.

 

[msd]

I've seen troons recommend each other to make their medical files private (you can do that in some European countries at least), to hide long histories of mental issues when transitioning, but doing that screams "drugseeker" to most doctors, so I don't really see their point.

And they wonder why support for them is just tanking.

 

[Waffle Iron]

a tranny despises having anal sex but feels he has no recourse but to have it anyway

I was wondering. Wouldn't anal sex be your best option anyway? If you, gun on head, had to have sex with a tranny, would you really brave the frankstein hole? The ass at least has proven itself through the millennia, and prisons worldwide.

And to be honest it's her idea that she wants to be a guy that probably started her in on these fantasies and not the other way around

There could be different kinds of pooners. Some of them hate becoming a woman during puberty and poon out, they just take on "male" fantasies to complete the illusion. Others are just girls with male interests, and instead of just enjoying their trains and videogames, they get convinced they're men.

 

[Hassou Tobi]

Someone on the farms once explained it as some men who enter the army are looking for any purpose, anything to give them structure, anything to give them value. They're just the perfect type for joining a cult because they bounce between groups to improve themselves.

Yes, I think the military has always attracted loser, NEET type men. Same demographic as troons.

 

[batteredpancakes]

Wouldn't anal sex be your best option anyway? If you, gun on head, had to have sex with a tranny, would you really brave the frankstein hole? The ass at least has proven itself through the millennia, and prisons worldwide.

I remember I saw a post way back where a HSTS was complaining that all his sex partners wanted fuck him in the ass instead of his new fauxgina. Makes sense as all his partners are going to be gay men.

 

[Apustajan apustaja]

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Pooner cries (in a very manly way) about missing out on the many unique aspects of male life and childhood by listing a bunch of daft and oddly specific stereotypes (that probably have their genesis in some movie or anime she watched).

What is the earthly point of getting worked up and complaining about something that can never be changed/fixed in any way whatsoever? Word of advice for all pooners- men don't tend to do that. We usually expend our mental energy on more pragmatic matters that we are actually capable of influencing in some way, and file shit like this under 'pointless flights of fancy'. If you're going to claim to be a man, the very least you could do is attempt to act like one.

*Edit* Along comes a troon to prove my point for me:

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See, lil dood? That's how a man approaches this issue.

They have such dumb idealised ideas of childhood, it sounds like an animated Norman Rockwell-painting. They probably missed their own childhood and experienced it through media and fiction already.
I would never have gone to the barber with my mum, that is super cringe, and since she is a boomer she never got the whole "every two weeks to look sharp and tight", I had to scrape together money by collecting bottles to get harcuts as often as I wanted. And older men don't call you "buddy" or similar, older men talk to you only when you fuck up, unless you are family. They call you "idiot" and "dumbass" more often. Your little friendgroup was mostly trying to keep you from getting beat up again by your little older little enemy group.
Same thing with troons, they idealise girhood to being about getting exited over new dresses and being boy-crazy and practicing kissing with your friends at sleepovers mid pillow-fight, but at least to me it seems much more cruel than that.

 

[Lovely Kin]

Yes, I think the military has always attracted loser, NEET type men. Same demographic as troons.

There has certainly been an increase in them as well. You have some bragging about they were in the military and how hard it was, but in reality, they were just doing basic IT shit and never doing anything worthwhile. It's also a gibs program so many troons would try to use it for subsidizing their dick/tit chop