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Good luck putting every gay person on mental ignore.Let's treat gays the way they treat pooners.
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Good luck putting every gay person on mental ignore.Let's treat gays the way they treat pooners.
I don't like pooners in the workplace because there is a mentally ill woman in the room and all social dynamics change.cosplay as men instead of embracing their own identity.
With a pooner you get an effeminate "man" that you can't relax around, because she is not only a girl, she is a mentally ill girl, and she will use social power to fuck your life up if she wants to. She needs to sort her shit out and come back as the tomboy she may have once been.
I support this, tbh. Shove trannies into normies' faces and we'll have 15 Cass reviews here within a monthalso yes I support policies on dating apps that ban trans exclusion
I don't want to force people to be things they aren't. At the same time, you aren't a biological male just because you want to be and you can never be. Is this a hot take? I dunno anymore.
Part of maturity is realising that the opinions of many people are of no value and that their social presence is at best of little worth if not outright detrimental to you.I still don't want to give in because I don't want to commit social suicide in my liberal college town just yet
Did her attempt even make the news? You can't protest from the middle of nowhere. Major lmao at the comment section because she's ignoring the comments calling her a moron and only replying to the comments calling her brave and strong.I can't begin to explain to you what it was like to wake up in the hospital and find out that the war was still ongoing.
This TiF is terrified that she will bypass the window in which she can be mistaken for a twink, but still cannot imagine herself aging into spinterhood either. Short men and old ladies, can you name two more despised creatures upon this mortal plane? She might as well walk into the sea and let the waves take her now!
Role models. Babe Ruth? Clarence Thomas? Joan of Arc?I’ve never seen anyone like me on YouTube couple channels or among influencers, so I’m filled with anxiety, unsure if I can ever live happily without any role models.
Says she is withdrawing from clozapine. Welp. That is one of two medications in all of human history proven to significantly reduce the risk of suicide in a specific population. In this case, schizophrenics.Well... not anymore, anyway. It seems the paranoia and the "voices" have increased suddenly, and so is her depression. She can't sleep too.
There are an abnormal amount of trannies where I live, and while I started out more stressed about male perverts, I have seen at least a hundred elementary/middle school pooners in the last like three years. If we are counting teenagers and early 20's poons, it's several hundred, maybe almost a thousand. It's a drastic social disease. I talk to a lot of these pooners for my job, and a lot of the little ones sound like me as a kid. I've literally had parents of nerdy girls with short hair and pronouns say "See, she's like you but grown up!" in a pleading manner. As a weird woman, I find pooners the worst. It's girls hurting themselves and each other, and parents being too passive because the girls are volatile due to puberty. Pooners upset me the most.I think we should have some kind of top of the page reminder for all stinkditch threads that men are creeped out the most by trans men and women are creeped out the most by trans women, because it's you that they're skinwalking.
Highschool sweethearts no more: A FTM (female-to-mistake in the making) fears that she will lose the husband she's been in love with since high school if she continues chasing down the gender rabbit hole; what she doesn't seem to understand is that by the time you're already questioning things and planning for unnecessary surgeries, he should be filing for divorce already.Dealing with the grief of losing family from being trans
*TW: transphobia, death
I came out to my extended family about 2 months ago. They all had their suspicions since I’ve been on testosterone for 5 years and have been otherwise socially transitioned for over 7 years. I simply confirmed those suspicions.
Most of my family took it well. Almost everyone who didn’t take it well is pretty extended family. I’ve never been close to any family other than my mom and grandma, so those really extended family members’ opinions have no effect on me. I know it sounds cold, but if they don’t want to be my family anymore, I wouldn’t care. Nothing would change. The problem is that one of the people who reacted poorly is my grandma.
My relationship with her has been complicated over the years. I’ve gone from hating her when I was very young to her being the center of my universe to being distant but still loving her—that’s where I was when I came out. I guess it’s where I’m at right now since the anger from her reaction has started to fade, but she’s angry with me now. She thinks I’ve taken home with the devil, but that doesn’t even bother me anymore. She is angry at me, the personal and internal part of me. She doesn’t text. She doesn’t call. She doesn’t even speak about me anymore. She’s expressed that my transness has made everyone see her as the bad guy and that everyone is always mean to her now (she’s referencing my mom correcting her when my grandma refers to me incorrectly). I think she blames me for that, and it’s caused her to hate me.
I live over 1600 miles from any blood-family. I miss being able to call her. I miss getting texts and letters from her. I miss my Grammy.
I don’t know what to do. I refuse to forsake my identity to be able to interact with her. I only know one other trans person, and we’re not super close. I don’t know where else to go to for support.
I don’t know how to cope knowing that if she were to die, I’d be sad that she died. I’d be sad because it would take away any option to contact her; it’d make all my memories with her solidly in the past with no possibility of making new ones. I don’t know how to cope knowing that when she passes, even though we used to be each other’s world, nothing would change. My routine would be the same. Our level of contact would be the same. How am I supposed to deal with that?
I’ve been in therapy for quite a few years, but mourning and death is extremely difficult for me. I am so terrified of the possibility that she won’t want to say goodbye to me when she’s on her deathbed, or that when I’m saying goodbye and crying my heart out at her funeral, I’ll know that she didn’t love who I turned out be.
People who have experienced similar things, how did you deal with it? I’m currently in therapy, it’s just nice to hear from people who know what it feels like for this to happen.
Gender affirming Fight Club: a li'l dood from Eastern Europe gets pummeled into poundcake by a bunch of rowdy homophobes and finds it to be one of the most affirming experiences of her gender identity in her life. Between this and MTFs finding sexual assault and rape to be affirming conceptually, there is something seriously wrong with these people.What Should I Do?
TW: depression, marriage issues, transmasc
I (29 ftm?) have been trying to figure out if I am fully a transman, nonbinary, or just faking for years now. I've never felt like a woman, some of my earliest memories are of me in preschool challenging teachers on gender norms. The problem is that I feel like my husband (29M) will fall out of love with me, or worse, feel trapped in this marriage and fall back into some very serious depression that he has done back when we were teenagers and he was unmedicated.
My husband is extremely understanding and supportive of my current nonbinary identity but has stated repeatedly that he misses some of my more fem qualities and features. I want to get top surgery in the future and he has made it clear that he will miss my breasts but would never stop me from pursuing this. My husband was also the first one to ask me if I thought I was a man back in December of 2021, to which my answer was idk, and I haven't stopped thinking about it since.
Is it worth trying to come out? Should I just suck it up and go back to being fem? What if I do all this, lose my husband, and then find out that I'm not a man? I just don't know what to do. Advice needed and wanted. If anyone has similar experiences, please let me know.
Context about my relationship: we've been best friends since kindergarten, started dating in high school, have been married for 4 years, have animals and a house together. No kids but planning for them in the future.
[TW assault] Being b**ten up is affirming?? I've never told this to anyone
So, yes. I live in a very small and conservative town in Eastern Europe. I’m probably one of the first transgender people here, lol, although it’s not very fun to be.
(!) Other triggering things in this post: transphobia, war, phys violence, mental health, alcohol. I'm sorry if it's still triggering for someone. I'm not very familiar with community—although I've tried to educate myself and have acknowledged the rules. I just really need to tell this to someone. Thanks.
Some time ago, I got beaten up by a bunch of homophobic guys who thought I was a cis gay guy who "wanted to have sex with them." I was drunk and didn’t think much—I just wanted to share company with them, as a fellow man; as a friend. I was happy to be among them. It’s a pity that I couldn’t think critically at the moment.
They gathered around me and beat me up for being "gay," stole my phone and backpack. I couldn’t address the police, of course—they wouldn’t be interested and are probably familiar with those guys’ families. They’d think I’m "strange," too.
So I just bought a new phone some time after and now use my brother’s old backpack.
But I can’t stop thinking about it. It was the first time I was addressed as a guy by everyone—yes, they called me slurs and beat me, but they truly thought I was a guy. I’m not "officially on hrt" because of laws and other difficulties, and I’m responsible about it, of course (!DON'T try it without doctor). I got MUCH better mentally after starting HRT, I'm not feeling "critically down" anymore.
Those guys were the first, but now pretty much everyone sees me as a guy on the streets, and it’s become threatening for me. I get called slurs every time I leave my home, and it’s almost absurd—like I’m some kind of mc in those y/n vids. So many people react to me passing by, so many of them comment on me, calling me the f-slur and a freak.
I know I must leave this place, but I don’t have the opportunity right now. I will fight for it, but I can’t yet.
My brother told me he wouldn’t beat me for touching his precious guitar because "I’m a girl," and I got offended. Why wouldn’t he? Those guys beat me—and he won’t?
It’s not a very healthy way of thinking, but I thought it. It pained me deeply. And I have no idea—even if I manage to get out of here, will I ever stop thinking like that? Thinking that I deserve violence? That I must fight physically for myself?
I hate violence. There’s a real war on the other side of my windows. I know death, and I hate it. And still, somehow, I feel like if I was born here, I’m part of this violence. Like I MUST partake in it. If not at the front, then on the streets—being beaten up for being "gay," even though I’m not even gay. I’m me.
I think it’s not fair, and it’s painful. Some people have no choice but to fight for themselves. It’s a battle worth fighting—of course. But I wish it was easier.
I’m sorry if I sound too edgy somewhere—English is not my first language, and it’s not easy to make my words sound the way I want. I want to share my difficulties with somebody. I hope for the support . Thank you .
Does that ever work?I've literally had parents of nerdy girls with short hair and pronouns say "See, she's like you but grown up!" in a pleading manner.
I'm coping that a lot of them are going to grow out of it. A lot of them that I have hope for are just into things like frogs and bugs and love cute stuff. I don't work in social work or anything, just nerd stuff, so I don't have any power besides being an example.Does that ever work?
No because they think it makes them cool and the nerdy woman isn't cool. Speaking as a former one.Does that ever work?
Absolute proof it's a mental illness. Nerdy women are the coolest thing ever.No because they think it makes them cool and the nerdy woman isn't cool. Speaking as a former one.
If Reddit mods actually believed these were men that thread would be shut down faster than you could say "rape apologists" and everyone involved would be banned.This took forever, bitches be typinggg.
I know one who did, she did not go any farther than claiming to be a guy though. She was not like the other girls more or less. 20 years ago she would have been making out with her best friend at parties and fucking every guy in her immediate vicinity. Dunno which is worse tbh.I'm coping that a lot of them are going to grow out of it. A lot of them that I have hope for are just into things like frogs and bugs and love cute stuff. I don't work in social work or anything, just nerd stuff, so I don't have any power besides being an example.
funny, the petshop i took my dog for a bath had a pooner in it and all of the girls address her by male pronouns and name, looking back to i remember cutting myself from addressing her with feminine pronouns when we were going to check how much the dog weighted (17kg which is fine for the size), it might seem i am caving into this retardation but i always have to remind myself you can be sued and arrested for not giving into a mentally ill person's delusions, fucking judges being activists, can't wait for the AI revolution to replace us all.She needs to sort her shit out and come back as the tomboy she may have once been. Deceptors demanding inclusion is absurd, it is illogical and wierd. If you want to be accepted you need to be honest and not rely on social powerstructures.
Holy shit log off. Go outside. Leave this site. Touch some grass. You need to use way less internet if it's doing this to youTLDR retarded ventslop