I hope I can explain it in a way that doesn't come off as patronizing or gaslight-y: there frankly is a lot about Kirsche that's sketchy, such as the Shadman stuff, but there’s also a lot that, at least to me, feels too honest to be fake. You'd imagine that if she was a lolicon panderer, she wouldn't directly call out the fact they're obviously basing designs off of children, she'd only beat around the bush or deny it outright. And this has led to some backlash with her audience, but she never went back on her opinion.
She comes off as a lolbertarian, but I think the issue is that you both come from fundamentally different bases.
As I pointed out before, she doesn't even think loli refers only to child-like characters (something I've seen a surprising amount in old 4chan users, even though that's what it's always meant in Japan) and there’s clearly some porn-brain in her (she literally plays Azur Lane for God's sake, it's basically softcore porn).
Meanwhile, I'd say your base, which I agree with, is the one most accurate to reality. Lolis are based on children, traced from children, and the consumption of lolishit leads to the degeneration of a person's psyche and sexuality.
But accepting that is a hard thing to do for someone who's spent a good portion of their time on the Internet on anime imageboards without thinking critically about the status quo.
This is normal for them, from porn "jokes" to out-of-left-field "edginess", and unless something shocks them awake, they'll continue to think "it can’t be that bad".
Don't be fooled, I'm teetering on the edge myself, but I still want to give the benefit of the doubt as someone who knows a fair amount of people enough to trust them despite their similar outlooks.
I'm pretty sure you don't care for the anime people's approval, and honestly, I can understand why and don't wish you to seek it either. But, I personally think having another voice, especially one such as hers that has exposed BRIDGE and other bullshit, speaking out about the Farms in an objective manner would be nice.
Not to mention, and this is pure optimism, could you imagine the sheer butthurt from Gator and TAL when their waifu's stance on lolishit turn 180 degrees and they can’t blame anyone for it but themselves?