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[holyhandgrenade]

(I noticed they were archived before I reached them, so either another Kiwi was watching or they're getting very paranoid about censorship over on Reddit...)

That was me. Couldn't resist the troon on pooner violence. It's very obvious that TIMs do not see TIFs as actual men, and still hate them as much as they hate all women.

 

[poggers]

r/trans in a tizzy because a gay man told a woman she was being "bitchy". Reddit is majority men, and they're mostly misogynistic assholes. You'd think this would be fucking obvious to the pooners, but no.

 

[Magic Pickle]

That was me. Couldn't resist the troon on pooner violence. It's very obvious that TIMs do not see TIFs as actual men, and still hate them as much as they hate all women.

Thank you for your efforts! Apologies for swiping your kill if you had been planning to post it.

As an update, tensions continue to boil over as the mods refuse to permit the offending pooner, itsurbo7777, to be considered moderator material because of her frustration with current leadership.
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Editing to add: I am applying to be a moderator for this sub now. I hope something comes of this because I want to see this subreddit move forward in a way where we can all talk about our issues and a space can be made for everyone. Action must be taken.

Second Edit: Here is the mod response to my mod application for this sub. I was hoping there would be more of an apology to come and more discussion about what happened from the mods, so we could be confident of progress being made in the sub. This response does not fill me with hope.

"Your comment on r/ftm 's post 45 minutes ago about this does not give us much confidence in your ability to be a mod on our sub. You said you already unsubbed to trans subs, and you are still looking for another apology from us? You're also looking to be a mod of a sub that actively brigaded us."

Lol. Imagine doubling down this hard instead of trying to move forward and help trans men feel comfortable. Truly a shame. I will not be trying to mod for this community as I believe it is a lost cause.

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This is the moderator who used the term "bitching." I am sorry.​

To be clear, I am not the mod who removed u/itsurbo7777 's original post which initiated this whole discussion, but I am the one who said he was "bitching" in the second post that they made to complain about the original removal. I do not believe that the original post was complaining in any way, just the second post where he complained about the removal. To the entire community, especially the trans men here, I am sorry for my choice of words. I had already privately apologize to u/itsurbo7777, but felt a public apology would go a long way.
I know there is no excuse, but I legitimately did not think about the implications of the use of that term when referring to trans men, and just meant it as a synonym of "complaining." Realizing that leaving the comment in place would not help the situation, I deleted it and the remainder of my comments in that post.
After private discussion with u/itsurbo7777, I now recognize how harmful that term is to use for a portion of the community that has faced misogyny in their lives, and I will not do so going forward.
All I can ask for at this time is your your forgiveness.
As I am currently on a voluntary break from moderating the subreddit, I can't take action on any posts or comments here, nor can I view or respond to Moderator Messages. Please direct any anger about the use of that term here, to me, and not the rest of the team, who I truly believe are doing their best to resolve this situation In the best way possible. I'm not going to comment on the original post removal since I wasn't involved in that decision at all and likely would not have come to the same conclusion.
I absolutely believe that trans men are men and that they are a welcome part of this community, as does the remainder of this moderation team (who isn't entirely trans-fem). This is reflected in our rules which specifically address disparities and should be evidence by the amount of posts that historically exist discussing these issues and the removal of ones by trans-feminine people that try argue that we "have it harder." We absolutely do not.
Thank you for reading all this, and I hope to build back your trust.
-AmyBr216

And the drama continues to spread on to other subs, such as newborn subreddt r/trans4every1, r/AnarchyChess and r/ftm, which even made a gigantic mod post about it.
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Update on what's happening at r/trans (I'm original OP of the "divisive" post)​

I don't have the energy to fully explain everything again, I'm tired, but I wanted to share the message I just received from the mods on r/trans where I offered to be a moderator to try to help the situation and give trans men more representation in the sub. Here's what they said.
"Your comment on r/ftm 's post 45 minutes ago about this does not give us much confidence in your ability to be a mod on our sub. You said you already unsubbed to trans subs, and you are still looking for another apology from us? You're also looking to be a mod of a sub that actively brigaded us."
httpsq://www.reddit.com/r/ftm/comments/1lye09d/comment/n2tet9q/
Sigh. I talked to these mods about what to do. They asked me for advice about what I think they should say to help fix this. I told them to apologize about everything, probably remove the mod who called me a bitch, and make sure that there is a lot of support for trans men going forward (maybe by reinstating my original post, or allowing for trans mascs to just talk about what they go through) Instead, only the mod who made the bitching comment has apologized (which I appreciated). But apparently Im being "unreasonable" in asking for another apology about calling any discussion about trans men divisive. Apparently they really think that's a fine thing to say. Lmao. And now they're offended I said I'd like to be a mod on this sub.
I tried but at this point I think it's unredeemable. So glad we have this new sub here. Also r/ftm has been very supportive this entire time :3 Love you all and so sorry this has dragged on so long.

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The faked ignorance by the other mods cannot be allowed to work.​

They are just as much to blame for this. Their best defense is scary amounts of incompetence, and I don't even buy it. Noone would so eagerly enforce a decision they either know nothing about or disagree with. They were KNOWINGLY lying to people about the situation, and shutting down any discussion of it.
This isn't a handwave "were sowwy". The 3 mods involved need to go.
Posting this here because Im still banned in the other

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In regards to the current drama on the main trans sub. PLEASE KEEP DISCUSSION TO THIS POST.​

We felt it was best to make a mod post about this, because we have had quite a few people post about this, and now not only are we getting these posts mass reported, causing them to be taken down (Note that this is an automatic process and not something we are doing. We will be doing our best to either reinstate posts or direct users to this post) but we are also being accused of allowing brigading.
r/ftm does not condone nor encourage brigading. But we do understand the importance of discussing inter-community drama, especially as the ftm subreddit, this is relevant to all of us.

For those who are unaware, here are the events that transpired:​

A user posted on both r/trans and r/lgbt talking about how trans men and transmascs are invisible and our struggles and oppression are often downplayed or dismissed.
One mod commented on the post and told OP to "stop bitching". This comment was quickly deleted after receiving backlash.
Shortly after, the entire post was removed, and when asked, a mod responded by claiming that OP was playing oppression olympics and the topic was divisive. Said mod continued by going through each of OP's points of discussion and dismissing them. Saying such things as "That's not unique to trans masc people." in reference to OP talking about trans men and transmascs getting sexually assaulted, and "People are not denied T any more than E through legal means." despite it being a well known fact that Testosterone is a controlled substance in many parts of the world, while Estrogen is not. And nearly all the information on this subjects (Which I will remind the userbase that it is still a banned topic. Please respect that) is written with trans women/fems in mind.
They also called OP's discussion of the transandrophobia we face within the community "Oppression olympics" and OP was givven a 3 day ban.
When a mod made a post about it, they said that "nobody asked us our side of the story", to which the userbase made multiple comments pointing out they DID ask, and they were asking now. Multiple people have since claimed to have had comments removed that explain the situation and banned. These claims as of yet have not been backed up with evidence, so for fairness, we will say that this is allegedly what happened.
The mods then went on to remove many posts that were in support of trans men and of people upset at what had transpired. The user's post in r/lgbt was also removed.
Another comment was made about the situation, and as of writing this post, r/trans is locked to any new posts.
The original OP and several others have since posted here to the subreddit. Many of these posts are being mass reported and automod is removing them after a number of reports. We are aware of this and we are working through the pile of modmail notifications we now have because of this. Some posts may not be reinstated simply because we feel it would be better to have a singular discussion platform here, to reach as many people as possible.
We have since been contacted by the mod who made the post and comment explaining their side, to which we say that we do not agree with them on that trans men/mascs talking about our issues is "oppression olympics", as well as another mod from r/trans (who also moderates an anti-trans subreddit and a conservative subreddit) accusing us of allowing brigading.
Our official position on this matter is that trans men and transmascs deserve an equal seat at the table of transness, and that there is unfortunate amounts of transandrophobia and invisibility within trans and lgbt+ communities.

We ask that you please try to limit discussion of the current drama to this singular page. This will help everyone stay in the loop, and it will also help us avoid mass reporting of multiple posts and defend ourselves against accusations of brigading.​

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I am the original OP of the post that got all of this drama started (the ones the mods of r/trans removed). ​

It's been quite a day, I never expected the post I made to have had such an effect. I got a couple dms saying that people here heard what's going on in the trans subreddit, and a few said they thought I should post my original post. I have never interacted with this subreddit as I don't know shit about chess but you guys seem awesome.
I am a transgender man who has struggled with feeling heard in the trans community. I try to spread awareness on what we go through as much as possible. My original post was about the things we go through that nobody talks about, and how our erasure is not okay, and we need to speak up about it more. Today, that post was for some reason removed. When I made a post asking what happened, a moderator told me to stop bitching about it (she has since apologized).
My original post has been removed from the trans subreddit and the lgbt subreddit unfortunately. But I would absolutely love to share my message here if anyone wants to read my original post. Mods if this is not allowed then no worries, you can remove it (just don't call me a bitch please )
Raising awareness on trans masc/mens issues because nobody talks about it
Long post incoming, and trigger warning for topics including sexual assault and harassment.
I really want to talk about the unique issues and pressures trans men and trans masc people encounter. It's not that trans men face less oppression than trans women; it's that trans men are talked about and cared about so little that many people don't actually know the shit we go through. Please do understand the point of this post isn't to be some oppression olympics thing, it's to bring awareness to a lot of unique issues trans men and trans masc people face that I never see mentioned or discussed!
First let's get into the sexual assault statistics of trans men and trans masc people. I've included a few reputable sources from the past couple years below, and also some quotes if you don't want to sift through the articles. There are many other sources available that say similar things but of course it's impossible to link all of them; I recommend doing your own research.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10110792/

https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2820301

https://journals.lww.com/greenjournal/abstract/2022/05001/sexual_assault_and_homelessness_in_the_transgender.306.aspx

"In this survey study of adults in California, results showed that TGD individuals, especially transgender men, are at higher risk of experiencing all forms of violence relative to cisgender women."
"Past-year physical violence was reported by 22 transgender men (43%), 9 transgender women (24%), and 9 nonbinary respondents (14%). Past-year sexual violence was reported by 23 transgender men (42%), 11 transgender women (14%), and 31 nonbinary respondents (56%)"
"Of those that have been assaulted, 362 (46%) were transmasculine and 72 (34%) were transfeminine"
"Of all transgender people, 47% have ever been sexually assaulted: 362 (50%) of transmasculine individuals, and 72 (37%) of transfeminine individuals."
So as we can see, trans masc people very disproportionately face sexual harassment and assault, with most studies saying almost half of trans mascs/men experience sexual assault at some point in their life. I've also seen multiple studies claim that trans men also face the most violence in general out of everyone in the queer community. I am confused as to why this isn't more common knowledge. This should be very frequently discussed. We should all be angry. We should be supporting and uplifting our trans masc and trans male brothers; it's not only the dolls that need protection. It makes me feel so sad and hopeless that this is happening to us and it's just... never discussed. These numbers are fucking terrifyingly high.
Let's also talk about those bathroom bills. I've noticed also within the trans community that all discussion about trans bathroom bills revolved around how trans women are affected. Trans men are affected too yet again we are largely not discussed, and when we try to bring it up we are often dismissed. Here's a couple stories about how trans mascs and trans men have been affected by these bathroom bills

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2025/05/trans-man-uses-womens-restroom-to-follow-the-law-police-detained-him-for-it-anyway/

https://apnews.com/article/politics-florida-gender-db7c64c110211a867ed4f2d80f702ac5#

I'm sure there are more but unfortunately any discrimination trans men face is largely not reported in the media as the news likes to pretend trans women are the only type of trans people there are. I have personally heard many stories from trans masc friends and folks on social media about how they've been abused and hurt in the men's bathroom. Not including trans men in these conversations is detrimental and leaves us open to more violence.
Another thing that sucks for trans men is that it's so incredibly hard to access testosterone especially if you're trying to DIY. I cannot tell you how many times I have talked about the difficulties in accessing T as a poor person with no healthcare just to get the response "Just DIY it!" Testosterone is a controlled substance, and at least in the USA, it is almost impossible to find, and if you do find it, there's no guarantee it's even safe. That shit sucks and really affects those of us who don't have a lot of money.
There are so many more other things I could discuss but this post is already ridiculously long. The loneliness, the demonization of phalloplasty, the misogyny many of us who aren't passing still face, etc. I'd love to have more conversations about it in the comments and if anyone thinks I've missed something important then please bring it up! It's fucking hard to talk about because it's sad and scary, but these discussions are necessary in spreading awareness and fighting back.
Please do not respond to this post with "Well I think trans men are talked about less because society sees them as confused women" or anything like that. I am not at all talking about how people outside of the queer community view trans men. And quite honestly I'm sick of hearing people try to explain to me why they think trans men are shunned. I promise you that we know the reasons. Continuing to tell us your thoughts on why isn't helping and often just seems patronizing especially when it's the same shit over and over again. The purpose of this post is to raise awareness of the issues trans men face, and point out that the trans community largely completely ignores trans mens struggles, and then says "well trans women have it worse" as a dismissal when issues facing trans men are brought up. Please stop ignoring us. Please educate yourselves on what trans men go through. We absolutely have to talk about all this more and push for change.
And to my trans men and trans masc brothers, I know it fucking sucks and it's hard. Keep pushing and keep fighting, and keep spreading awareness. I know it's hard but we have to fight for ourselves too. Much love to everyone.

 

[poggers]

The problem is that this clueless woman wants to make trans spaces some equality haven where everyone can have serious long winded discussions, when everyone knows trans spaces are for perverted men to live out their humiliation fetish.

"The purpose of this post is to raise awareness of the issues trans men face, and point out that the trans community largely completely ignores trans mens struggles, and then says "well trans women have it worse" as a dismissal when issues facing trans men are brought up. Please stop ignoring us. Please educate yourselves on what trans men go through. We absolutely have to talk about all this more and push for change."

If you read her whole boring lecture and substitute the word women for "trans men" and men for "trans women",, its just the same old shit any women's centred space always says, including radfem spaces. Wow, women face a lot of sexual harassment and violence? Men are dismissive? Ya don't say. Pooners are ridiculous.

 

[King Koopa]

This is the moderator who used the term "bitching." I am sorry.​

Saying that sex is real and matters? And that they're being treated this way because they're female? To a gaggle of troon mods? Uh oh.

Another chain about how troons only think of themselves:

 

[Frofo Baggis]

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Saying that sex is real and matters? And that they're being treated this way because they're female? To a gaggle of troon mods? Uh oh.

Another chain about how troons only think of themselves:
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These pooners are so close to getting it but still want to delusionally believe they're men while troons are women.

 

[MaximKnight76]

New HRT lore just dropped (archive)

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It's so funny that to them genitals, chromosomes, physiognomic differences don't determine gender but the amount of hormones that's in you as if having lower or higher sex hormones than normal will make me less of a man.

 

[Timothy Troon]

Any sauce on this trans adjacent fellow ?

https://twitter.com/SmilerTurner

Started off with a seemingly reasonable take on trannies in sport but is now full on twaw. Ironically is a ex sportsman and a genuine expert in head injuries in contact sport whilst campaigning for men in women’s sports , make it make sense?

1. Troon family member.
2. AGP.
3. Tim chaser.

He has a unhealthy interest in kirsti miller, a gigantic-hon aussie laydee

 

[DreinMeinVein]

However, I doub tha the ones who are using and maintaining these documents are actually caring about children, but rather are just saying 'NO YOU'. After all, though they frequently insis tha there are no drag queens who predate on children

I'd say you're exactly correct about their motivations.
Kiwis, TERFs & others have compiled huge archives of the sexual crimes of TiMs. I think we've successfully proven that trannies are perverts who shouldn't be trusted.
Some troons and their allies think that a list of Republican sex-offending men is proof that conservatives are the real wrong'uns in society – as if per-capita isn't a thing.
But this list is fail and wrongheaded for a couple of other reasons.

1) They say "this never happens" but we have proof that it does happen. Frequently. Troons harm women and children. For many, their "transition" is fueled by fetish, and we have the receipts. These are the reasons we don't want TiMs in women's spaces. But mainly...

2) I DON'T WANT ANY REPUBLICAN MEN WATCHING MY WIFE IN THE SHOWER EITHER! Nor Democrat men, fat men, tall or short men, White or Black men or any men at all. Especially not trans-identified men (the sickest men in the world).

Well done troons. You made a list of [Republican] MEN who are sex offenders. Probably a reason why males should be kept out of female spaces, yourselves included.

I hate it when they make me sound like some kind of angry feminist. But this is just obvious, isn't it?

 

[Dolly Brooks]

She’s VERY close to getting it, I’ll pray for her.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

EWW. Why are they so obsessed with lactation? Do they not know that only occurs when women have a baby? Because it seems like they have this notion that women are just out here lactating all the goddamn time.

If they can't make the wife be their mommy, they become the mommy.

Nasty.

 

[Internet Wizard]

Just because I haven't personally seen 15 transgender people per day in my conservative state doesn't mean all of this hubbaloo isn't happening.

I agree with many points you said, but I feel like Cordion has somewhat of a point for those of us who deal with trannies frequently (or are even friends with them IRL)
I like to remember @AMHOLIO's advice

Note: if your friend or loved one transitioned and stayed the same cool person and are chill with themselves and you, more power to both you and them. This is for coping with people who destructively transitioned.

It's important to remember that these are online phenomena and cows. If they act like this IRL, then avoid them at all costs as you would with anyone else you dislike. Cordion's right that tranny hate shouldn't take up any more headspace than anything else, even if you think it's deserved. They do it to themselves, after all, like every post here shows

 

[Jacques1194]

Funny thread full of men pretending to be women complaining about men pretending to men pretending to be women.

 

[RealMuthaForYa]

Manchester in the UK has a rancid colony of troons. On Saturdays they are in the city centre with the Pally flag shaggers shouting the usual slogans about the Chosen People and making a nuisance of themselves.

Demented YouTuber Charlie Vietch chronicles these and other happenings in what is the craziest city in the UK.

He makes a living from YouTube and such is his notoriety he has to employ two bodyguards to accompany him when he’s filming.

His main CPO is Fred, who is very good at his job. In this video Fred is seen taking down a mouthy ginger tranny, who first accuses CV of touching his “breasts”, then attempts to attack Charlie and his crew. The Troon comes off second best at 1:25:17

Glorious stuff

 

[Turkey Beef]

Neoliberalism is perversion. This applies not only to sexuality but to the application of justice. Sometimes it applies to both.

From The Telegraph, via Mick Hartley:

A divorcee has been forced by a judge to pay half for her ex-husband’s trans surgery.

The mother argued that it was unfair that she had to stump up £80,000 for the procedure when the decision to transition had led to the breakdown of her marriage.

But in what is believed to be the first case of its kind, the judge said that the surgery was a “need”, not a “whim”, and therefore it was “reasonable” for the cost to be met out of their joint funds.

Even now, shitlibs manage to break new ground in pursuit of their objective: absolute depravity.

Since obscene sex change disfigurements are now a “need,” it stands to reason that other people must be forced to pay for them.

The husband had surgery in 2024 after they had been separated for almost two years and the £160,000 bill was paid out of their joint cash.

During their separation, the husband, who has retrained as a massage therapist and Reiki practitioner, claimed he could not afford to pay the court-ordered maintenance to his wife and children but splashed £14,000 on an Amex card in one month “mainly on clothing, nails, jewellery and restaurants”, got £13,000 worth of tattoos in six months and racked up a £1,000 Milan restaurant bill.

Budgets are all about priorities.

Someone made out even better than the pervert who betrayed his family — namely lawyers, who collected nearly £1 million in legal fees.

Judge Stuart Farquhar, who issued the deranged ruling, added insult to injury by denouncing the victimized ex-wife for her “the lack of empathy” for the creep on whose behalf the court stole her money.

 

[pooterino]

You can simply stop. Hide the lolcow/community sections of KF. Delete social media. Stop playing multiplayer games. Remove all those friends you hang onto despite adding nothing to your life. Replace your smartphone. Look up at the sky instead of your palm. Nobody is holding you hostage here.

Hah, I'd rather die.

 

[sheepworldvizor]

the husband, who has retrained as a massage therapist and Reiki practitioner

This pervert is brushing his throbbing gock on every woman he coerces into vulnerable nudity, just know it.

 

[Shakira Flabbergasted]

I just wanted to express appreciation for @Magic Pickle and every other Farmer who trawls Reddit and archives their drama. I hate that site and try to avoid using it, so I sincerely appreciate your efforts to bring us the freshest predditor lunacy so I don't have to go to the source.

 

[LaughJoke2.0]

That divorce settlement is why some spouses end up dead.

 

[Screamer_2]

She could be a glass half full person, funding to get her ex to cut his dick off.