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If someone that you know for sure is a woman says that, would you go in?"Oh, it’s nothing, it’s just a bit swollen and inflammation down my pussy”
A weathered old tranny wants to brag about his hot little bod to the gooners and lunatics of Reddit. What say ye, farmers? Do you feel compelled by animalistic lust to leap upon this fair maiden?It’s disgusting how many “allys” still feel that trans people need to earn proper gendering/acknowledgement
I’m just bitching. Justifiable bitching, though.
I was scrolling online earlier today (first mistake) and came across some dumb internet art drama centering a trans man. The person I saw making the most videos about him was also queer and claimed to be a trans ally, but opened one of said videos with,
”[..]I will be using they/them pronouns to refer to this individual as a way to avoid drama while also not giving them the respect that they do not deserve.”
The top roughly 100 comments on this post were either using she/her or they/them referring to this trans man who uses exclusively he/him and is a binary trans man, and were justifying the misgendering of “bad” trans people.
I did see a couple of comments calling out how horrible that type of behavior is and how it’s just poorly disguised transphobia, but I’m sure everyone here knows all of the ins and outs of how damaging and complex those types of arguments are already, so I don’t need to go too far into that.
This isn’t really about that drama specifically though, it’s just what kickstarted this train of thought for me.
Point is, I’m still thinking about it hours later, and it’s just so fucking gross. I cannot get over it, and it’s been so long since I’ve seen those arguments out in the wild. I knew it hadn’t cooled down or anything, but actually hearing that shit after so long threw me off. More than that, though, I don’t understand how people genuinely don’t see how harmful those arguments are.
Truly, I don’t give a fuck about how horrible any individual trans person is. It’s inherently damaging to the community as a whole to deem them unworthy of.. proper addressing?? It’s just such a wild concept to me. It’s not that hard to grasp the idea that harming an individual in that way opens the gates to justify harming the rest of us in the same/similar ways. I don’t think it should be a “hot take” to say that it’s fucked up to start harming a member of an oppressed minority in ways that you wouldn’t if they weren’t part of whatever community, just because they hurt your feelings.
I’ve had plenty of trans people be absolutely horrible to me. A few of them causing damage in me that I don’t think will ever fully heal. Have I, even for a second, thought of disrespecting them like that? No, because I’m a reasonable adult with the knowledge of how the marginalization, oppression and discrimination of communities tends to operate. I’m sure that a lot of them do understand and are just looking for a reason to misgender someone, but I’ve seen this far to often and far too many of the people that it comes from claim to be allies.
I’m tired. It feels fruitless to explain the same shit to people over and over again when, at the end of the day, I think the majority of people just want an excuse to hurt each other and will use any opportunity to do so.
TLDR, my internet intake has been very minimal recently and I think this was my sign to keep it that way. People aren’t typically bold enough to say stupid fucking shit like this in the real world.
(Also.. why do people have entire channels dedicated to “exposing” people? Why do so many people watch and obsess over random little dramas? Maybe I’m just not young and online enough to get it but Jesus fucking Christ, that seems like the #1 way to spiral yourself into a miserable existence.)
Water, air, fire and dirt - fucking magnets, how do they work?: A tranny wants to install actual fucking magnets into his future stinkditch, claiming that it would "give him a sixth sense." This is some weapons-grade troonacy right here!Guys who cruise or do dark rooms, what are your experiences?
Really interested to hear how it is navigating msm places post phallo. Guys hit on me pretty regularly. I never know when to disclose to a guy that I'm a trans or if I should bother even in these spaces. I know not everyone is into it, I can deal with that, but I somewhat feel like I'm letting everyone down at once when I'm post-op and I'm not what they expect when they think "trans mans body". How do you feel about cruising, sex/circuit parties, dark rooms? I'd love to hear from people who are successful cruising from IRL situations give their experiences. I guess I am suffering from lack of confident so I'm really interested in hearing from men who feel confident in these spaces.
A lonesome li'l dood caterwauls to the deafened ears of Reddit about how lonely she is as a pooner who doesn't want to have sex, but she buries the lede here because later in the post she talks about being emotionally unstable. Logic would dictate there's no point in dating if you don't want to have sex and you're too batshit crazy to offer anything else to a partner, but logic abandoned this world in hopes of being appreciated on a different planet a long time ago.My wild but realistic transition goal now that I've had bottom surgery: install a magnet "down there."
Yes I'm being serious. You can implant magnets in your body. Basically, I'm planning on installing a biocompatible neodynium magnet near my clitoris. This will allow me to feel magnetic fields including electric motors and many other devices. Essentially, the magnet vibrates inside of you when it's near a magnetic field and your brain begins to associate that unique feeling with electromagnetic fields effectively giving you a sixth sense.
One cool bonus for me is that I have synesthesia (the ability to smell colors, taste sounds, etc). I'm hoping for a scenario where some lesbian lumberjack can use a magic wand on me and I'll start smelling an increasingly strong scent of pine needles from the electric motor until orgasm.
I'll keep you all posted on how it goes. I'm going to install one in my finger first.
Being Trans And Asexual Has Ruined My Life. Feel Like I’ll Die Alone.
I hate when I tell people I feel like I’m going to die alone and they say “well you’re so young there’s someone for everyone” is there?
I’m a trans man who’s only 5’5”, never wants to have sex, is awkward with affection, emotional, overthinks everything etc. I don’t blame people for not wanting to put up with that but it still hurts. The only people I’ve dated I was guilted into it , by cishet men who say they’re bisexual but then only date women and pre transition trans men (who are some of my least favorite people in the world btw) . It’s obvious they just like the fact that I was trans, one of them literally told me “you give me both genders!” And only wanted me for my body, they also became very demanding when I said I didn’t want to have sex even though before we started dating I said I was strictly asexual and that I would never want it and that if that would be a problem they’d have to date someone else.
You could say I could date another trans person or LGBTQ person to fix this issue, but of the people I’ve interacted with who are also LGBTQ treat trans men like… trans men, and not just regular men. Maybe I’m being sensitive, you could make the argument “oh but that’s what you are, you are a trans man!” Yeah but those people scream “trans men are men” from the rooftops, so why would you treat me any differently than you would a cis man? I’ve been constantly fetishized, undermined, coddled, treated condescendingly by people who think that they’re somehow being respectful. Just treat me like you would any other man. It’s so aggravating, like honestly at this point, I’d rather you call me a slur then be like “omg uwu trans king!! You’re so valid!” and obviously like I said it’s not just LGBTQ people who infantilize other LGBTQ people, I’ve dealt with this behavior from cishet people as well - but it hurts even more when it comes from my own community because it’s like… why do they treat me this way? Do people genuinely like being treated like this? When I get treated like this it just tells me that they don’t see me as a real man.
I’ve been thought based on personal experiences that I’ve lived through, that men only care about sex and women only care about money (yes I know “not all men” “not all women” I know it’s not ALL but it’s alot of them) and it’s hard to trust anyone now. Why do people have to fuck up my image of myself and say they don’t need sex but then guilt trip me into it ? I feel like I’ll never be enough for anyone.
Again I don’t blame anyone for not wanting to date me, and even if someone did ask me out I would think they’re either A. A chaserB. A fetishizer C. Someone who’s just desperate and doesn’t actually want meD. Someone who can tell I’m a people pleaser E. Someone who will say they don’t want sex and then ask me for it
And on the off chance that I actually do find a genuine person , I would feel bad for making them put up with my emotional instability. I’m so lonely and I crave connection, I want someone to care about me and be cared for but I feel like I’m going to die alone because I can’t trust anyone.
And I don't want to hear about atoms because they are mostly irrelevant in day to day life.And I don’t want to hear about chromosomes because they are mostly irrelevant in day to day life.
Hello again, former nobody that worked at RoosterTeeth turned troon with the ugliest possible Vtuber avatar.View attachment 7669264
How is it "specifically anti-trans women", I foolishly asked myself.
It's pretty obvious why they'd take porn games getting removed as something targeted against them...
And the horcrux is a trans pride flag that can only be destroyed by burning it.If JK makes it to 100, we are just going to make jokes that she made a horcrux and any surviving trannies are just going to try to destroy what they think it is
Bro thought "non-binary" would get him that lesbian puss. What a fucking loser.View attachment 7672788View attachment 7672789View attachment 7672790
“This enormous woman” (x to doubt) has something reasonable to say, can’t have that.
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Are you saying my neoturkey isn’t the same?
Apologies for my wine-mom tier meme in advance.
Ah yes, this is the reddit user who gave us this gem:
Oh hey cool! Finally someone that wants to stand up and fight fascism! I'm not fascist, more of a libertarian, but my girlfriend is, and since I'm kinda traditional that means it is also my fight!God, zoomers and alpha are so cooked. I know the modern left has 0 to do with any actual socialism or workers' rights, but they've been completely cucked by trannies. They want to seem edgy, but they never left the progressive stack. No left-wing movement (first world anyway) will even consider slightly criticizing troons. It's like lefty kryptonite.
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"People can break up for what ever reason they want"
Lol I wonder what NoHalf2998 would say to people who refuse to date trannies? Something tells me it wouldn't be "for whatever reason they want"
I wish troons would do a dilator shooting contest for our entertainmentAh yes, this is the reddit user who gave us this gem:
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One nice thing I can say about this individual is that they engage in none of the usual histrionics. From their reddit history, all they care about in their life is their motorcycle and their AGP. It just seems refreshingly honest for some reason I'm having a hard time describing. Maybe I'm just a little fond of how old people use social media.
For thread tax, here are some tales of their dilation:
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(Also I think these are thumbnailed correctly, I apologize if I have previously assaulted anyone's eyes with my mobile retard ways.)
If there existed an orientation handbook for transgenderism, I feel that included in it would be "completely torpedo your relationships and upend your life" with how common it is. Take this pooner for example, who decided that after only three months on the tranny train, she's 1) quit her job twice, 2) cut off several friendships including a best friend of 20 years and 3) is trying to move to a new country without having any savings. Yeah, this sounds like someone emotionally stable enough to make major, permanent medical decisions.T4T being shoved down people's throats
I don't need advice, I don't need sorrows prayers, really just need to vent because I'm sick of being told t4t will cure the world of evil.
It really really bugs me that whenever dating cis people comes up in any sort of conversation, t4t people find it so world-endingly necessary to bring up how they're t4t and it's better than cis people in every way imaginable.
Don't get me wrong, I'm happy for you, for all of you. I'm happy you're happy, I'm happy you get to enjoy your relationship and your partner with no qualms, I'm happy you're as comfortable as you are whilst dating someone else who's trans. Truly, I love that for you. But for the love of fucking god, stfu if no one's asking you about it.
I'll be blunt and say I don't want to date trans people. I'm gay so trans women fall out of question, and sexually, natal penises and real sperm are important to me, pretty much non-negotiable - so as much as it sucks, that kicks most trans men out of the question too. My own brain, with the kinks and fetishes that it houses, has forced me to be interested only in cis men. I wish that wasn't the case, believe me, but I'd be lying to myself and my partner if I tried to pretend like those things aren't important to me in a relationship. I'm a sexual person, sex is key in a relationship for me. But I don't talk about it, I don't tell anyone how good or bad it is, because frankly it's not anyone's business, and I don't want to be like those people who have to suffocate people with their relationships.
That said, any time I try to talk about my experience with dating cis men, or try to vent about the rampant transphobia among cis gay guys, instead of even something as stupid as "sucks to be you", I only get t4t people praising t4t like it's the solution to pollution and every other problem ever. "this is exactly why I'm t4t" "this is why dating other trans people is so much better" "used to date cis guys now I'm t4t, never going back" COOL. AWESOME. HAPPY FOR YOU. it's just not for me though so stfu.
And I already know I'm gonna get people saying I'm transphobic and that I don't see trans men as men, when that's so far from the point here. Trans men are men, trans women are women. I however have several sperm kinks that most trans man can't fulfil, and the trans women who can that are comfortable enough to perform it, are unfortunately women that I am not interested in because I'm gay.
A TiF's parents reject her unstable reality and substitute it with their own, but for some reason, OP resents her mother's milder reaction more than the hostility provided by her father. She even states that she is not afraid to threaten her mother to get her way, which is usually a hilarious show of impotence from most pooners - but OP supposedly suffers from Capgras delusion, which even she admits makes her more inclined to be aggressive towards her mother.Did anyone suddenly cut a lot of people out and make major changes to their lives after realising they were trans?
I am very new to the trans experience, I only realised mid April, so I am a proper baby transmasc and everything is really new and scary but its also been really amazing and exciting. In the last 3+ months I have noticed my feelings and attitudes about a lot of things in my life have been changing. I feel a lot stronger mentally and much more comfortable in myself and my identity but I also quickly became really uncomfortable with a lot of people and things in my current life. Due to this i've made some bigish changes recently and now I am scared i'm moving too quickly and I will regret it in the future. I feel like I am rapidly outgrowing so many things that aren't even related to being trans or my gender expression.
For context I am in my mid-20s, AFAB, I live at home with my dad and nb sibling in a really anti-trans, anti-everything place. 2 months ago I realised I could no longer stand my toxic boss and workplace anymore so i've tried to quit twice with no new job lined up. I decided a few of my friends, that I have had some issues with for a while, just weren't right for me anymore (including my childhood best friend of 20 years) and I am now trying to cut them out of my life. I've applied for a visa to move to a new country alone for a bit (I only barely have the savings for this). I haven't even started to figure out transitioning yet but I just have so much impatience running through me and I can't seem to help but give in to it.
I was wondering if anyone else could share their experiences with shifting mentalities after realising they were trans and how they dealt with it? And also if anyone has any advice on what should I do with myself? I feel like I am just blowing everything up without a plan going forward.
Idk there's been a lot on my mind. Thank you for reading my ramble. I'd really appreciate any advice anyone can give me.
A troon speculates as to the origin of female hostility towards male invaders of their spaces and, because your average tranny might be located on lists of "animals without brains," thinks it may have something to do with jealousy. The hilarity here comes from the fact that OP is posting to r/honesttransgender, where the NLOGs of transfolxxx congregate to talk about how posters like these make the rest of them and their ""medical condition"" look bad. This is why you must never trust even the truscum, for they, too, are amoebic and repulsive.Both of my parents are transphobic, but for some reason my Ma's hurts more?
Both of my parents have their personal beliefs against how I am, with my Pa flat out stating I'll never be a "real man" to him, but for some reason my Ma's form of transphobia is more disheartening. She gives excuse after excuse as to why I can't, how unfair it is to her, how I make her feel. I've given her years of time, multiple instances of me coming out to her, and giving her very prominent examples of me not being cis, but apparently I'm "unnecessarily rude" to her and I "threaten" her when I say that her just ignoring my identity will affect our relationship.
Ma, I know it's selfish, but if it takes that threat for you to care, I will do it. Hell, she even said she'd try to respect me, and after a few days she just gave up. She misgendered me, apologized, and used they for me rather than she. Not a single instance of her calling me anything other than her daughter.
I know it sounds awful, but when it comes to people like her, I see less use of staying around them. It also doesn't help that I'm affected by Capgras delusion, which makes me more prone to being aggressive towards her, at least verbally. Neither of us will win.
DAE think cis women are jealous?
This thought occurs to me from time to time. I find that I constantly look at other women and compare myself to them (one of the hallmarks of being trans imo). Wish I had her hair, or her boobs, her waist etc... It always leads to me thinking about the cis women who are NOT allies and I wonder if they're jealous.
You see them every so often, the ones who are VERY anti-trans. The ones who blow a gasket and rant about their bigotry. I notice quite often they're ugly. Like, the kind who probably do the same as us. Compare themselves to other women and hate their features. Wish they didn't have a flat butt, or Wish they're brow wasn't so manly.
So, do they hate trans women because we're like them? Only, we're invading their space and we're kinda like competition? Do they hate trans women because in a lot of cases, mtf women actually look better than them?
Idk, it's food for thought. Probably really rude of me, but I just wonder if anyone thinks the same?![]()
I imagine it goes something like this:I wish troons would do a dilator shooting contest for our entertainment
Lmfao, lol even.Finally, I am not going to bring back the debate of the mod who intended on banning sissy and fetish posting because I believe that is up to your own interpretation but I would like to reiterate that some of the comments that have been made during that situation where outright disgusting and evil towards the individual involved for no reason.
In times like these, we should be banding up together, not fighting each other and limiting access to ressources. Please, I am begging the entire mod team to review their approach to this sub and others like it because this isn't how things should be.
Yeah child welfare laws are obviously just tools of the fucking republican party and nobody else. It's not like crazy homeschool bible-thumpers make this exact argument but in a different font regarding being able to do whatever they want to kids bc they're 'saving' them.Here's why this sets a terrible precedent for the sub and trans spaces online in general. First, everyone on here seems to love screaming about how they hate 4chan and trust me, I do too, I think it's an extremely bad and toxic environement. However, by banning these discussions, you either redirect these peoeple to 4chan or the trans meds subreddit which is terrible either way, limiting access to such important information and labeling it as "dangerous medication" (see the subreddit's rules) is downright bad at best and right wing rhetoric at worst. If it's an issue with the Reddit TOS then just say so but don't hide behind the "it's dangerous and the diy market is evil and will kill you" speech.