Ah the rape debate.
Some feminist statistics:
- most rape is committed by: boyfriends, husbands, "friends", relatives, step parents, friends of the family. They need to have some degree of proximity and know the victim won't fight back, or that they have leverage
- a lot of this isn't recognized as rape because some women believe that if a bf or husband forces himself on his partner that's his right and not rape. Leave him? In a first world country where you have women's shelters, are allowed to pursue an education, work, have your own bank account, drive and be completely independent from a man? What a silly idea! Why do that when you can help him pursue affairs with younger women (sometimes minors) instead and get the attention away from yourself?
- when it comes to incestuous rape, something feminists never mention is the role of the women in the family of enabling and protecting predators. When women get older they realize how much power they have socially by grooming and pimping out girls in their care (and often living vicariously through them which is interesting...)
Regarding rape by relatives and friends of family (here assuming male on female) there's always women enabling it. Always. Predators target single mothers for a reason. They are either too self centered and retarded to notice or they pretend not to until the child starts to talk and they don't want to be seen as an accomplice.
What's interesting here is how women in general (feminists and others) OBCESS over stranger rape, which statistically is the least likely to happen. Another fun fact about stranger rape (and this has been studied by feminists as well, I think Diane Russell wrote a book about it) is how fighting back or even just making noise most of the time is enough to deter predators. Rapists need to know their victim won't fight back.
And who are the loudest against women fighting back? Ironically, it's feminists. Aside from a small portion of them, they are all very much anti-gun, anti self defense of any kind with the excuse of "but he will just take it from you and use it against you!". While at the same time never shutting up about how there's rapists on every corner waiting to jump you (which might one day become a reality with all the 3rd world trash they keep importing).
What they are trying to do here is to scare women while pushing for this idea that the only way they will ever be safe is if the feminist utopia becomes true and big daddy government had big mean (male) cops everywhere and cameras and rapists are all sent to jail. They will get mad if you suggest anything else.
The other type of stranger rape, the Harvey Weinstein type, is actually fairly common. It's the "either fuck me or lose your job". This one is very common specially in the corporate world. No, it's not a myth. Can it be called coercive? Depends, it's not like the guy is going to chase you around his office and threaten you with his corporate ballpoint, but he could ruin your entire career over your refusal, but aside from certain areas of showbiz that isn't really a thing. There will always be other companies. Or other countries. Reputation can be damaged and that's an issue though but depending on the area where you work it may be more or less of an issue. STEM is particularly forgiving if you have the talent and drive.
Now, why is this an issue? Because for every woman who refuses there's a dozen whores who say yes. You get to the workplace and it's pretty easy to clock who the whores are because they won't know how to do jackshit and rely on male colleagues to do everything. They will also be very openly having affairs with superiors and climb the ladder in the horizontal. This is never a secret in the company, everyone knows who they are. In fact this is pretty common.
When it backfires and a whore complains HR swoops in to clean the mess and you get those company wide "Harassment prevention workshops" that the whole company is made to attend.
Now say you didn't spend years in college racking your brains to end up becoming a whore and refuse the "offer". You're quickly brushed aside and when your contract is over they just "let you go". They don't usually wait to corner you on the employees' restroom or spike your coffee. They just ice you out.
There are also the whores who may have college degrees and some talent and in they eyes they aren't really whoring themselves, they are just having "equal" relationships or "some fun just like the boys". Or so they think until they find out videos of themselves circulating the company or when the boys suddenly avoid them when they break up. That's usually when they cry rape. That's also when the other women turn on her and call her a whore too. Women are far worse in this than men are.
The fun part is that no one will actually talk about what's happening because, as usual, the women will show up and protect whoever's cock they are sucking for money and attention. Any place you go to where there's some toxic creepy man, be it a cult or your local sports club, there will always, always be women enabling him. Every single time without fail. If he targets specifically underage girls and even children it's completely certain there's women there who are bringing him those children.
Another odd thing about women is how in travel communities, particularly solo travel, it will always be women encouraging other women to go travel alone to rape central shitholes like India and Morocco. Or even when it comes to solo hiking and such, if you ever mention self defense they will get very upset about it. Idk man, at times it's as if they are trying to be raped.
I don't know much about SA hotlines or women's shelters. I've had one crazy bitch of a housemate walk around the house naked and cause me problems because I avoided her, and I called an hotline preemptively to ask what I should do if she decided to make false allegations because I avoided her. They snubbed me off as soon as I mentioned she was a couple of years younger, said they'd call back but never did. I have also volunteered at a women's crisis center briefly. I left that too because the manager (woman, they were all women) delighted in publicly humiliating interns to the point of tears and liked to leave personal information about the victims just lying around. I distinctly remember a case of a 13yo who was molested by a stepfather and this woman had a sheet with her name, age, address, contacts just casually lying around the office for anyone to see. I left that and never went back.
Women in general straight up lie about rape. They lie about men, places and situations who may be potentially dangerous and put other women in danger. They come out of the woodwork long after actually being assaulted (or having dubious sex) when whatever benefit they were reaping from it dries up.
Girls routinely encourage each other into risk sex and risky acts with risky men and when something happens they all hug each other and tell her "welcome to the club!" because they all have stories like that, but question their bs and trust your gut, and you are a prude and "not one of the girls". Try to warn then or point out the obvious, and you are the problem. How dare you imply some things can be prevented!
There are of course real cases of rape and they are real tragedies but those get swamped by the others and lost in the sea of incompetence and bullshit of the women who are supposed to handle these cases.
