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Has anyone a working theory for the trend of men declaring themselves TIMs when their spouse has given birth? It reminds me of borderline behaviour, but BPD is very rare among men, does the arrival of a child somehow accelerate the male's trans monomania?
BPD is rare among men because it's a "woman's disease," I'd bet my left nut that there's way more borderline men than get reported who are just misdiagnosed as NPD or bipolar.
 
BPD is rare among men because it's a "woman's disease," I'd bet my left nut that there's way more borderline men than get reported who are just misdiagnosed as NPD or bipolar.
IIRC, there's been talk that ASPD (aka sociopathy) is just BPD in men since it has a 3:1 ratio, which is the same as BPD just in favour of women.
 
IIRC, there's been talk that ASPD (aka sociopathy) is just BPD in men since it has a 3:1 ratio, which is the same as BPD just in favour of women.
Not to go off topic, but as a parallel, I've often considered that extreme bodybuilding may be, for some, just an eating disorder manifested in men. Not identified as a disorder because its, on paper, fitness, but many of these people destroy their health just to shave a small % of body fat. Similarly, a lot of women with eating disorders justify it to themselves by pointing out that fasting can be quite healthy. Obviously ignoring that fasting and long term starvation are really different things.
 
Not to go off topic, but as a parallel, I've often considered that extreme bodybuilding may be, for some, just an eating disorder manifested in men. Not identified as a disorder because its, on paper, fitness, but many of these people destroy their health just to shave a small % of body fat. Similarly, a lot of women with eating disorders justify it to themselves by pointing out that fasting can be quite healthy. Obviously ignoring that fasting and long term starvation are really different things.
There is a disorder called orthorexia nervosa where you get preoccupied with eating "pure" and working out a lot, it affects women and men quite equally and I'm sure a lot of body building and fitness people qualify.
 
There is a disorder called orthorexia nervosa where you get preoccupied with eating "pure" and working out a lot, it affects women and men quite equally and I'm sure a lot of body building and fitness people qualify.
That's interesting. I actually know several people in the bodybuilding community that picked up smoking/vaping due to the stimulant and appetite suppressant effects of nicotine, heart health be damned. Starting an unhealthy addiction, fully aware of the potential for damage, purely to lose that extra 1% of bodyfat must be a mental disorder. Most of them are also on steroids or test, so its even more damaging, heart wise.
 
There is a disorder called orthorexia nervosa where you get preoccupied with eating "pure" and working out a lot, it affects women and men quite equally and I'm sure a lot of body building and fitness people qualify.
As a psychologist by trade,

There’s also the more general symptom of body dysmorphia (hello Troons), with obsessive fixations on the individual’s “ideal” body/physical features. It’s the same core concept, but the maladaptive behaviours differ by sex/personality. The patterns are often:

Straight men: body builders, incels obsessed with phrenology, troons
Gay men: anorexics, plastic surgery addicts, occasionally body builders, HSTS
Straight women: anorexics, plastic surgery addicts, extreme body modifications, pooners
Lesbians: anorexics (surprising amount), butch-type ftms

Regardless of the chosen “coping” behaviour, the underlying psychological process is very similar for all of these people. It’s an obsessive idea that the lack of fulfilment/happiness they experience is caused by some perceived physical imperfection. The direction this takes is based on what this perception is, cultural factors, social circles, personality traits, etc.

This is also closely related to OCD. There’s a common overlap known with eating disorders and OCD. In all cases, feeding into the compulsive behaviour - whether it be starving yourself, getting another surgery, cutting off your dick, etc., it will never be enough and never make them happy.
 
It gets worse when you realize behind all this “trans activism” what he’s really doing is wishing death and harassment upon an old lady, old enough to be his mom. :cryblood::lunacy::lunacy::lunacy:
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As a psychologist by trade,

There’s also the more general symptom of body dysmorphia (hello Troons), with obsessive fixations on the individual’s “ideal” body/physical features. It’s the same core concept, but the maladaptive behaviours differ by sex/personality. The patterns are often:

Straight men: body builders, incels obsessed with phrenology, troons
Gay men: anorexics, plastic surgery addicts, occasionally body builders, HSTS
Straight women: anorexics, plastic surgery addicts, extreme body modifications, pooners
Lesbians: anorexics (surprising amount), butch-type ftms

Regardless of the chosen “coping” behaviour, the underlying psychological process is very similar for all of these people. It’s an obsessive idea that the lack of fulfilment/happiness they experience is caused by some perceived physical imperfection. The direction this takes is based on what this perception is, cultural factors, social circles, personality traits, etc.

This is also closely related to OCD. There’s a common overlap known with eating disorders and OCD. In all cases, feeding into the compulsive behaviour - whether it be starving yourself, getting another surgery, cutting off your dick, etc., it will never be enough and never make them happy.
Thanks for this because it maps exactly with my own (amateur) reading into this, because I am strongly of the opinion that transgenderism is just a manifestation of underlying OCD tendencies. Whatever the original dissatisfaction or alienation that gets the person fixated on something, the loop that occurs is the same: The person identifies a problem and starts seeking out behaviors they conceive of as a solution, and that produces a subject sense of relief because the dopamine spike alters the salience landscape and reduces stress as anticipation and positive modeling build, because the whole point of that neural circuit is to compel action towards something. But once the loop starts, it doesn't teach the brain to be satisfied at the end of a journey, it teaches the brain that the seeking behavior itself is the way to sooth stress. Neurochemically, the brain is learning dissatisfaction-as-default because the reward system is trained on chasing, not attaining. With OCD, one thing involved seems to be reductions in inhibitory control functions in the CSTS loop, so it even explains why you can see a variability in the outcomes of BDD and trooning and the like, it's not a binary state of either/or, it's how much inhibitory deficits and reward sensitivity differs across individuals that determines whether or not a stable state of "enough" is ever reachable.

Again, this makes clear what we all know, that trans healthcare is literally just enabling obsessive tendencies and encouraging them to develop over time, and probably driving them further down the line then they would otherwise have gone.
 
Site will not for the life of me let me reply, but the previous post about Ethel Cain and Del Rey has me seriously wondering if he’s trying to skinwalk her. In addition to all the weird pedo shit he and Christian fundamentalism fetishization he does
I don't know much about Ethel Cain or Lana Del Rey, but aren't they both going for a "poppy but also really dark" vibe with their music? I would not be surprised if it were a case of jealousy and skinwalking. Being so fixated on the appearance of a stranger is psychotic in any case.
 
Site will not for the life of me let me reply, but the previous post about Ethel Cain and Del Rey has me seriously wondering if he’s trying to skinwalk her. In addition to all the weird pedo shit he and Christian fundamentalism fetishization he does
Yeah I'd bet on it. Lana Del Rey, especially in her early career, put out music with a clear theme, a "it's 1950s America and I'm a hot bimbo dating a rebel drug dealer with a motor cycle, we're living and drinking hard and dying young, ride or die" aesthetic. Think what you will about that, but it's clearly a persona and an aesthetic tapping into a very specific, culturally American, thing.

Of course porn sick troons love that shit, but of course they only interpret it in the most misogynist manner, and they can never achieve it in any way shape or form, because it doesn't get much more hyperfeminine and heteronormative than that. Eddie Cain needs to stop appropriating hetero culture lol.

Edit: Not surprised to find out he made fun of her weight. That's all they ever have, "ur fat". Ok bro, you look like this.
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Edit: Not surprised to find out he made fun of her weight. That's all they ever have, "ur fat". Ok bro, you look like this.
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Holy jawline Batman. It always baffles me when you see all the carefully curated, photoshopped, filtered pics of troons online that make them out to be as delicate and feminine as any normal woman, only for reality to smack them in the shovel chinned faces as soon as they’re exposed to any kind of real world environment. Did he get a nose job, or is his snout really just that weirdly disproportionate to the rest of his cro-magnon phenotype?
 
Goodwill Hunter: a troon lurks around a thrift store watching as a mother and son argue over aesthetic accouterements, noting that the son seems drawn towards effeminate apparel; in his mind, he already decides this little boy should be addressed by gender neutral pronouns and wonders if he should've gone over to say something. The reason he didn't? Even he realizes he didn't want her to say he was trying to "groom her kid." Hopefully the young lad just grows up to be a bog-standard gay kid, or even - rarest of them all - what once was known as a metrosexual.
In all likelihood the kid was just bored with her shopping and trying to get mom's attention. Some kids have tantrums but others have picked up that entertaining themselves with whatever is around is a better tactic. So he might have just been looking around and try to get his mom buy him things because that's kinda fun and can result in new stuff. Only reason it was feminine because where they were and not because he is as campy as they come.

As a little girl I asked so many unnecessary tools, bolts, paints, lamps and whatever from my dad when he took me with to the home improvement stores. I actually did enjoy those trips but I usually got bored way faster than him.
 
In all likelihood the kid was just bored with her shopping and trying to get mom's attention. Some kids have tantrums but others have picked up that entertaining themselves with whatever is around is a better tactic. So he might have just been looking around and try to get his mom buy him things because that's kinda fun and can result in new stuff. Only reason it was feminine because where they were and not because he is as campy as they come.

As a little girl I asked so many unnecessary tools, bolts, paints, lamps and whatever from my dad when he took me with to the home improvement stores. I actually did enjoy those trips but I usually got bored way faster than him.
There's also the fact that kids are just curious by nature, their interests and fixations are ever shifting. A passing interest in something effeminate as a boy or vice versa is pretty normal and isn't a sign of some deep discontent with their gender.
 
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