Intelligence and Loneliness

[Dr. Meme]

Has anyone else noticed a corrilation between level of intellegence and likelyhood of said person not being in a relationship? It seems like smart people never are able to find true love and dumb people who listen to top 40 and are generally dumbass as all hell are able to fuck whenever they want to. Why is this? Is there something inherent in intelligence that makes it so that people aren't willing to find you sexually or even emotionally attractive?

This thought came to me as i was listening to the fantastic record by indie legend Weezer known as "Pinkerton" in which a Harvard Graduate student can't find love, only cheap prostitutes and underaged japanese girls. This really got me thinking as to why someone as intellegent as River Cuomo (lead singer of weezer) wasn't able to find true love, despite being of high intellegence.

What are your thoughts, kiwis?

 

[ZeCommissar]

Why? Well sex is a risky behavior, even if it's safe, and chances are dumb people aren't always practicing safe sex anyway. Intelligent people (especially intelligent women) are more selective of their partners.

In some parts of the modern western world a unwanted teen pregnancy not only carries stigma, but also can ruin the prospect of getting their careers if they have to focus on raising a child correctly. So intelligent people are less likely to take that risk.

People could also spend more time doing intellectual pursuits than socializing, which leads to having less social skills which would hamper a intelligent persons relationship seeking.

Of course as with everything this isn't set in stone, there are plenty of intelligent people that sleep around, and have many relationships take Albert Einstein for example.

I do agree they are less likely to have many relationships however.

 

[Autistic-No-Yari]

Dumb people hook up more because they literally jump into the arms of the first person who'll say yes to them, or they're dumb models who hook up based solely on looks.

Smarter people tend to gauge and wait to find someone worthy.

 

[BurningPewter]

I was tested with an 130s IQ at age 7 and accepted into mensa. I have spent my entire adult life doing "menial" jobs with low confidence. I think life experience has a lot to do with that though. I love my parents, but they were not the best at teaching people to cope in the outside world.

 

[BurningPewter]

a Harvard Graduate student can't find love, only ...underaged japanese girls.

he sounds...so unlucky..?

 

[Locksnap]

I was tested with an 130s IQ at age 7 and accepted into mensa. I have spent my entire adult life doing "menial" jobs with low confidence. I think life experience has a lot to do with that though. I love my parents, but they were not the best at teaching people to cope in the outside world.

I was diagnosed with 150 IQ at age 5 and I've fucked over one hundred women and men who looked like women.

 

[Dr. Meme]

i know

I was tested with an 130s IQ at age 7 and accepted into mensa. I have spent my entire adult life doing "menial" jobs with low confidence. I think life experience has a lot to do with that though. I love my parents, but they were not the best at teaching people to cope in the outside world.

how you feel, i tested a 147 iq, but never tried out for mensa, because i was too busy with school and my keeping up with the relationship i had at the time with my ex. I'm glad i'm free from his awful grasp but his constant abuse made me feel like i wasn't good enought for mensa standards. I would like to try out again sometime in the future.

 

[DuskEngine]

I was diagnosed with 150 IQ at age 5 and I've fucked over one hundred women and men who looked like women.

I too know the pain of being too enlightened to consort with roasties

 

[Gym Leader Elesa]

I can't believe this thread is real and I am literally on kiwifarms.net at 5:17AM.

 

[Dr. Meme]

I can't believe this thread is real and I am literally on kiwifarms.net at 5:17AM.

^^^
why do cis women do this shit?
That brings me back to the topic, why are biowomen so unintellectual? None of them ever seem like they're interested in contributing to intelligent conversation. could this be a reason that intelligent people are getting into relationships less and less?

 

[BurningPewter]

why do cis women do this shit?

Because their Chakras spin with a whirlpool of feminine, emotion - driven energy. Go read some David Deida, jeez! You comment on Cis Women without reading the number one authority on them - David Deida?

why are biowomen so unintellectual?

They are an ocean of swirling, female power - trying to fit male rationality on them is futile. Embrace your masculinity, jump in and swim in the ocean's waves.

could this be a reason that intelligent people are getting into relationships less ?

Todays men have intelligence - some even have emotional intelligence - but they do not have the spiritual smarts to calmly float above the ebbs and flows of a woman's nature. I repeat - DEIDA!

Go to your local bookstore now, slap your money down on the counter, and scream to the counter girl ,"I want David Deida!!! Bring me all your Deida books!" If she looks at you blankly, just keep shouting so any men around get the message. "Deida now! Deida! DEIDA!!!"

 

[Jason Genova]

Simple answer: extroverts enjoy interacting with people more and as a result will naturally have more friendships and relationships on average than introverts, but despite their social ability they also tend to have smaller skulls, lower IQs, and less sapience than introverts.

 

[Jason Genova]

You're dumb tards who need stop whining and rethink your lives.

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[Faint taste of butter]

It seems like smart people never are able to find true love and dumb people who listen to top 40 and are generally dumbass as all hell are able to fuck whenever they want to. Why is this?

Because they don' t spend all their free time lurking in internet forums and bragging about how smart they are, but go outside, meet new people and just generally are more pleasant to be around than internet intellectuals, that assume intelligence has any correlation with music taste.

 

[Flustercuck]

I was tested with an 159 IQ and got my first bodyhair at the age of 11, grew enough to dress up as Sasquatch at the age of 13 and was ridiculed for this by my peers. no girl wanted to even hold my hand when we were supposed to dance in couples, and even though I have a high IQ, my unkempt bodyhair scared off all pursuers I could have had. I gave up women at the age of 17, and decided for going gay, but not even that helped. so now I am lost here, ready to just give up everything.
seriously fuck women, they never go for the ones with the brains

 

[Black Waltz]

all of you are autistic

 

[Lackadaisy]

if ur really so smart y ar u such feg

 

[Flustercuck]

all of you are autistic

you're just saying that because you envy our superior intellect, and I honestly find that sentiment that we are all autistic quite impolite, please say you're sorry

 

[Brandobaris]

Has anyone else noticed a corrilation between level of intellegence and likelyhood of said person not being in a relationship? It seems like smart people never are able to find true love and dumb people who listen to top 40 and are generally dumbass as all hell are able to fuck whenever they want to. Why is this? Is there something inherent in intelligence that makes it so that people aren't willing to find you sexually or even emotionally attractive?

This thought came to me as i was listening to the fantastic record by indie legend Weezer known as "Pinkerton" in which a Harvard Graduate student can't find love, only cheap prostitutes and underaged japanese girls. This really got me thinking as to why someone as intellegent as River Cuomo (lead singer of weezer) wasn't able to find true love, despite being of high intellegence.

What are your thoughts, kiwis?

Many studies have been done that correlate higher IQ with decreased sexual activity. There was one study that mentioned for each IQ point over 130 or something, their likelyhood of having lost their virginity by age 19 dropped 10%. It's the sort of thing that would correlate with decreased socialization. A person with a higher IQ is likely to have different areas of interest that lower IQ person, and those people with the same interests will be rarer as well, which would contribute to social isolation.

IMO I think like low intelligence, high intelligence becomes more of a detriment than a useful asset after a certain point, academia in general relies more on rote memorization, and the fields where extremely high intelligence might be useful for practical and abstract problem solving, like in high level STEM fields, may not be options due to lack of interest, poor teachers in childhood, or a lack of money to study.

And we all know the old saying "It's not what you know, it's who you know"

 

[Lurkman]

Introverts are typically NICE MEN who will RESPECT their WOMAN to the VERY End. But Women Do not Like Nice guys.

THOSE RATS!!!!!!!!!!!