Funnily though, female looksmaxxing seems to have a much less pronounced effect. Or perhaps it's that modern females don't actually know how to looksmax. After all, they're not as autistic or analytical as men.
A toned lower half is attractive to most men and probably the most effective form of female looksmaxxing. Heavy make up, plastic tits and dyed hair though... I'm not so sure.
God, this is autistic.
If your goal is the occasional ONS then sure, but I guarantee you you'll pick up chicks at a bar if you're moderately well built and funny, women rate looks as the least important part of physical attraction funnily enough
A critical part of looksmaxxing some seem to ignore is "And then what?"
Alright, you attracted the girl. How will you keep her once she's attracted? Do you have hobbies you both share? Do you have shared goals and interests? Do you like to go out and do similar stuff as each other on dates? Can both of you make each other laugh? Can you at least try hers and see what happens? Did you just get to looks and now all you have is a lot of facts about looksmaxing and not much else in that brain?
Lookmaxxing isn't the best route for all men: I say this as someone who's seen several gen X & Zs get married. Sometimes, just taking care of yourself by washing yourself regularly, figuring out which hairstyles suit your face properly, having clothes that fit properly and complement you, and keeping up basic exercise can go a long way. Girls love a guy who doesn't smell like mega ass.
Lookmaxxing is also best done in moderation, and should have a stop point. We talked about how Braden can't stop getting surgeries because he's insecure and got into steroids because he was terribly insecure. If you need to looksmax to feel better or your problems are that dire, go with gentle, sublte changes instead of extreme ones. Find a surgeon who actually specializes in naturalness, have a surgery or two, and if you still feel inadequate -
go to therapy. I don't mean that in a mean way, I mean that in make sure you don't have a case of body dysmorphia that makes your problem worse, and worse, and worse. When you get rid of a big insecurity, your brain can feel trained to obsess over something, and is compelled to find something elsd to ruminate over thanks to it being trained into normalcy for the brain and it wants to keep "normal". Obsessive Compulsive thoughts can lead into a downwards spiral, and being able to train your brain like you can train your muscles is important. It will help make you more confident which is highly attractive to potential friends and partners.
There are some people with noticeably awkard faces, like receded chins or very bulbous noses, but confidence and actually being fun to hang out with tends to be the problem most men who have a hard time getting dates face. Learning to socalize, getting a better attitude towards life if you're a doomer, and focusing on yourself helps get chicks more. Find tutors who help with that aspect.
The other problem is what some men value. Chasing after an ideal 10/10 well bred rich girl as a status symbol instead of looking for a woman who actually complements your interests, enjoys a decent portion of what you enjoy, and can work well with you will hurt you in the long run. What, are you going to marry a woman, then keep hinting she needs surgeries as she ages/has kids like Nick Rekeita did, and then look for a younger model to fuck anyway because she's not what she was? If your goal is to always have a hot trophy wife, you're going to be cycling through wives like rich guys do because your brain says "I need to show my worth with something shiny and new", not "I'm building a long relationship and those require work to occasionally fall back in love after you lost the spark."
That doesn't include things like her getting into a horrible drug problem, definitely leave. And sometimes things just don't work out either for whatever reason.
Constantly having one night stands in your twenties can be fun, but you have to figure out if you're the type of guy who wants to commit or the type who wants to hoe around as long as possible. And you have to figure out if you actually want to be a hoe, or if it covers up your insecurities by adding 1 point with every woman you get so you can gloat about it to people because your brain tells you you're a failure if you don't.
That's my long autistic rant for the day done, please enjoy my own autism.
And yeah, you could say groomer is synonymous with pedo at this point (which we have evidence of Clav being),
Oh god, I'm going to have to dig back through the thread to remember this.
