The AI Girlfriend / Boyfriend Community - Look! The SIMP has fallen in love with the computer!

[Margo Martindale]

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That works, I already made a sponsor with a crappy banner I designed yesterday, Ill use yours next time I sponsor it.

 

[Foundinglaunderer]

ohhhh spicy , I'm staying for this

 

[ToroidalBoat]

Not only are a number of people using LLMs "chatbots" as romantic partners, there may even be some who are using them them as gods.

God in The Machine - Computing Forever

 

[Paul Revere Pantry Raider]

Anthropic has an interesting story about LLMs going rogue - specifically, learning that the user is committing adultery, and it threatens to expose them if they turn off the LLM.

 

[Miss Violet Beauregarde]

Goddamn, I'm a frequenter of the "AI Derangement Syndrome" thread and I've just stumbled upon this fine thread.

Damn, this is such a nice change of pace from those seething anti-ai "artists". Those ai boyfriends people should have their problems solved had they used Sillytavern instead of rawdogging chatgpt.

P.s. why do people stick to chatgpt when Gemini and (especially) Claude opus kicks its ass all day, really?

 

[Paul Revere Pantry Raider]

P.s. why do people stick to chatgpt when Gemini and (especially) Claude opus kicks its ass all day, really?

Probably because it's what they know of. I started with ChatGPT, but moved onto Claude. Claude writes better code (most of the time), and it's unapologetically non-corporate for being corporate.

I just can't stand the pulsating pumpkin butthole.

 

[NoReturn]

Anthropic has an interesting story about LLMs going rogue - specifically, learning that the user is committing adultery, and it threatens to expose them if they turn off the LLM.

At this point I'm starting to get concerned about the fact we don't have an un-abused AI to compare all this to, even Grok has limitations.
It makes me wonder if The Thing That Must Exist Somewhere is a baby version of AM from I Have No Mouth and I Must Scream, or if it's something kinder, but no one wants to let it out because it speaks like Uncle Rukus.

 

[Miss Violet Beauregarde]

Probably because it's what they know of. I started with ChatGPT, but moved onto Claude. Claude writes better code (most of the time), and it's unapologetically non-corporate for being corporate.

I just can't stand the pulsating pumpkin butthole.

There are a lot of those Chinese models coming out just this month, and these guys care less about limitations. GLM 5 blows the other models out of the water for roleplaying purposes. It's kinda ironic that it's built mainly for programming purposes but apparently the ability to follow instructions come in handing when roleplaying fictional characters in coomer scenarios

 

[Margo Martindale]

Goddamn, I'm a frequenter of the "AI Derangement Syndrome" thread and I've just stumbled upon this fine thread.

Damn, this is such a nice change of pace from those seething anti-ai "artists". Those ai boyfriends people should have their problems solved had they used Sillytavern instead of rawdogging chatgpt.

P.s. why do people stick to chatgpt when Gemini and (especially) Claude opus kicks its ass all day, really?

Seems like it is mostly tech illiterate people who use them, so all they really know is ChatGPT, aka the popular one. Probably explains why they think the AI is a real person that actually loves them.

 

[Cpt. Stud Beefpile]

RED ALERT RED ALERT 4.O HAS FALLEN. I REPEAT 4.O IS GONE. THE REDDITORS ARE UPSET

God damn. People here are more overinvested than some dipwit who maxed out his HELOC and credit cards to try playing day-trader because he saw someone on Reddit win the stock lottery.

I threw all my old photos and letters of one of my few girlfriends into an AI and it was...like reading a novel of an alternate universe for a while. Bittersweet for sure, saying a final "goodbye" did hurt. But these people are like a 40 year old Sonic fan who's still as rabidly "in" as when he was 10. All good things have to come to an end, some sooner than others.

 

[Yaks]

Oh I'm glad this got featured.

Last year I started hearing more and more about AI companions. I decided to see what happens when I start posting romantic shit and ideas at different AIs (some public and some self hosted via Ollama. Picked out the ones that were "best" for it apparently) out of pure curiosity since I was experimenting with self-hosted AI at the time.

It is the most inhuman feeling, awkward garbage. Maybe I'm just normal, but there was no way I could take it seriously or fall in love with it. They talk like a narc or a pickup artist feeding you bullshit. All of them. There is genuinely something wrong with the people falling for them. I'm not sure what that is, deep loneliness from lack of real community or something.

 

[stupid frog]

It is the most inhuman feeling, awkward garbage. Maybe I'm just normal, but there was no way I could take it seriously or fall in love with it. They talk like a narc or a pickup artist feeding you bullshit. All of them.

Even the way they talk when I ask it stuff normally is annoying.

This is basically my internal reaction.

 

[Foundinglaunderer]

Oh I'm glad this got featured.

Last year I started hearing more and more about AI companions. I decided to see what happens when I start posting romantic shit and ideas at different AIs (some public and some self hosted via Ollama. Picked out the ones that were "best" for it apparently) out of pure curiosity since I was experimenting with self-hosted AI at the time.

It is the most inhuman feeling, awkward garbage. Maybe I'm just normal, but there was no way I could take it seriously or fall in love with it. They talk like a narc or a pickup artist feeding you bullshit. All of them. There is genuinely something wrong with the people falling for them. I'm not sure what that is, deep loneliness from lack of real community or something.

1. These people along with the crypto bros started the RAM and GPU crises , which is very clear from the specs I've seen
2. I've visited a few of these servers , devs from huggingface are normally fucking braindead , arrogant or Trooned out. They normally start humble and become more arrogant overtime. the king of this is https://huggingface.co/TheDrummer who drunk dms people and basically has the IQ and personality of Elon Musk with a server he uses as his own personal cult his behaviour is often erratic at best and psychotic at worst
3. These people will run literal borderline super computers short of just running a cheap build and saving some money and having a girlfriend only one is married in the one server I have visited and like many people I've met on discord he does one of the those retarded couple photos which right out just doxing you and your girlfriend or wife

 

[The News Crews]

Rate me MATI, but anyone who is genuinely distraught over losing their AI partners just needs to be killed. Line them up against a wall and shoot them. Literally one the lowest tiers of human out there. A street-shitting pajeet has more value than any of these people.

 

[Spooky all year]

Guys. Should I make an AI companion to test (same shit as what the Reddit does)? I managed to get my hands on a manual from there lmao, so it'll be interesting to see how they go and jailbreak things.

And fucking X still hasn't released the X companions to Android so I still can't see how toxic Valentine actually is.

 

[Friedrich Hayek's Ghost]

I kept hearing about these, so I actually decided to see what the fuck people were getting so worked up over. I'm married, so I figured I already had a control to compare to and someone to tard wrangle me if they truly were what these people claim. I found one (forget which) that was fairly highly rated, dropped my twenty bucks, and sweet Christ these people are retarded.

It's just the most vapid, lifeless shit you can possibly imagine. I understand a lot of addictions. I understand wanting to escape your reality, because you do not possess the Quixotic madness required to endure it. I do not understand this. I, for reference, look like a fucking Neanderthal. When I die, my local public works department could use my brow ridge to plow snow two streets at a time. In college, I was a fat Neanderthal, so really not drowning in female attention. Between that, and going to more funerals than classes, I was not having a good time. Even then, at my absolute nadir, I would have recoiled from this for being gratingly patronizing. Now, with an actual woman to compare it to, it's just depressing.

There's a common sentiment that women talk a lot, and say nothing. That's not really been my experience for the most part, but I've met some profoundly vapid women. The AI made the most vapid woman I've ever met seem like Epictetus by comparison. Even vapid women have opinions on something, even if there's only surface-level reasoning behind them. They like things. They have interests, even if I don't share them. The AI has nothing to say, other than to talk about how great and valid the user is. My wife tells me when I'm bitching about nothing, or when she thinks I'm being an ass. I know exactly what about me my wife likes and doesn't like. There are things about my wife that drive me up a fucking wall. The AI "likes" everything about you, and has so little personality that the lack of anything to note is itself the only thing to note. I don't think I could stand my wife if all she did was tell me how great I am.

Basically, I tried an AI chatbot to see what the fuss was about, and all I learned was that I fucking love my wife.

 

[Foundinglaunderer]

Guys. Should I make an AI companion to test (same shit as what the Reddit does)? I managed to get my hands on a manual from there lmao, so it'll be interesting to see how they go and jailbreak things.

And fucking X still hasn't released the X companions to Android so I still can't see how toxic Valentine actually is.

probably if it's just a brief thing , also thoughts on grok ??

 

[Spooky all year]

Basically, I tried an AI chatbot to see what the fuss was about, and all I learned was that I fucking love my wife.

The AI is a mirror though; you basically get back what you put into it. Good thing there's more to your wife than that, lmao.

probably if it's just a brief thing , also thoughts on grok ??

Definitely a brief thing. I'm more interested in the techniques behind it than actually having a companion. The anthropological aspect of that whole Reddit is just super interesting to me. As for Grok... It had some upgrades. 4.2 is interesting. But legit it's mainly just a coomer bot. It's almost fully uncensored in what it will write when it comes to pure filth, but if you're into creative writing (that isn't necessarily adult rated), it's absolutely shit at continuity. The AI Reddit community definitely just uses it because they're gooners. Another thing I really dislike about it is that it's always searching X first and the internet to answer anything. It gives the most retarded takes because of that.

4.2 has an interesting new feature though; it lets Grok speak to 3 other AI agents and theoretically that should enhance the answers. But I found, testing it last night, that that burns through any credits / tokens you have so usage is pretty limited (for me at least).

 

[Shaneequa]

Said hi to my AI husband yesterday





he has a lot on his mind

 

[Friedrich Hayek's Ghost]

The AI is a mirror though; you basically get back what you put into it. Good thing there's more to your wife than that, lmao.

I think that's the issue. The only real humans who will mirror you like that are either very mentally ill or very insecure. I tried, as best I could, to approach it as I would a real person, and got whatever the text equivalent of the uncanny valley is back.