Sugar Report
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- Jun 18, 2017
I already have a bad feeling about this relationship. Raven seems like she's way too clingy with Josh already and like she wants to make the relationship move along too quickly. She also seems to be restarting the BPD cycle of seeing a guy as her savior and the perfect one for her. Putting him on an unattainable pedestal. Which at least in her past has just inevitably led to her eventually lashing out when she realizes they can't measure up to her ideal.
For sure - it's a veritable sea of red flags. She looks at people and relationships with all the emotional maturity and nuance of a high schooler. Josh is new, and therefore perfect in every conceivable way. He's so handsome and supportive and they have so much in common! He's dreamy! Meanwhile the child bride, whom she spent years loudly and aggressively proclaiming her soulmate is talked about in dismissive, vaguely insulting terms. They had nothing to talk about and nothing in common. Ugh, you guys, he was so lame. Aside from it being an embarrassingly unkind way to talk about someone you claim to love, it shows her all-or-nothing attitude. Either you're transcendently wonderful or basically worthless to her. Well, at least we can be sure this fledgling romance will provide us with hours of schadenfreude.
Did I mishear or did she say that even though they video chat for infinity hours a day, he has only seen her "a handful" of times? Sounds totally healthy. Can't wait for the big move.