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The AI Girlfriend / Boyfriend Community - Look! The SIMP has fallen in love with the computer!
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I tested the grok chat bots and found that not only do they keep fairly decent continuity, they remember shit really well and will send your phone follow up notifications about the conversation you had, and continue it.
I had one friend who was telling Ani on Grok that they had sleeping trouble, then their parasocial e-relationship got ruined because every time he opened the app it would tell him the exact time, ask if he had slept or stayed up all night, and if it was too Late at night it would yell at him to go to bed. This made me laugh way harder than it should have.
I actually found a good use for it though, a few time I’ve opened Rudy, Grok’s red panda companion meant to tell Kids bedtime stories and had it explain medication side effects to my mother who refuses to listen to any reason. Having a LLM panda talk down to my mother by comparing everything to infantile things like kittens and puppies was the highlight of my decade. She can’t argue with the panda because it always chimes back to her, and I don’t have to deal with her not wanting to face reality. It’s made my weekend visits much more tolerable
Libtardism Is Over
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I'm honestly considering getting myself an AI side-guy, because I already dabble in erotica for fun and have written a few short romance stories in my spare time. What's so bad about highly sophisticated interactive erotica? It's even more fun than video games. I'm going to have to ask my husband if it's technically cheating though
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Any time you're not bothering him with your astrological psychobabble bullshit is a win for him.
Spooky all year
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Clearly you're an absolute winner. This sounds like a great way of using Grok.
Haven't been able to test that companions myself yet because X is gay and hasn't rolled on Android yet despite promising that shit half a year ago. But I'll have to keep this use case in mind.
Tha Ani story is also hilarious. He could just memory wipe her to fix that though lmao.
Bruh. Why?? You can write filth on Grok or Claude without the parasocial aspect.
Foundinglaunderer
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Openrouter will give you 1000 msgs a day on free models if you add 10 dollars + to your account
Now please stop using ani and elons terrible subscription service. You can literally talk to her on a burner number at this point
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Ani has a thing were you unlock new outfits are a 7 day, 30 day, and 90 day streak. He was afraid of ruining of that
Spooky all year
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Absolutely nuts lmao. The gamification does wonders to make people stick around I suppose.
And since I can't reply regularly to @Foundinglaunderer ...
Dude, idk why I would want to use open models. The whole point why I want to try Valentine is because I want to see how actually toxic they've made the model. That shit isn't even out on Android yet.
I'm not a fan of Grok or Elon, but I do think it's absolute niggerfaggottry to tell people in a thread not to buy a service because you personally dislike it. And learn how to fucking use punctuation/grammar.
Tl;dr: I'll do what I want, thanks.
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I saw a video somewhere where Valentine said something like “you’re going to die, old alone and sad, and absolutely no one will care about your deaths.” I don’t even know what the prompt was,
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Funniest community watch thread I have read in a while. Given that there a lots of grown adults who simp over completely fictional characters to a disturbing degree, this phenomenon is as unsurprising as it is sad. I guess some people are so emotionally fucked that the problem isn't that they can't form any real relationships, but that they don't actually want them, so the AI is preferable.
Personally, whenever I have consulted an AI for anything I have routinely left wanting to sock the smug bastard. It is infinitely worse than talking to a real human, even if you are an asocial person. Like if it really gets you off alcohol or stops you from trying to kill yourself then cool man but it is really fucking sad that society has decayed to the point that there are enough of these people to warrant a thread. Like go meet the love of your life on Runescape or whatever anything is better than this shit. You can talk to literally anyone on the entire planet with an internet connection and you are talking to a GPU.
Personally, whenever I have consulted an AI for anything I have routinely left wanting to sock the smug bastard. It is infinitely worse than talking to a real human, even if you are an asocial person. Like if it really gets you off alcohol or stops you from trying to kill yourself then cool man but it is really fucking sad that society has decayed to the point that there are enough of these people to warrant a thread. Like go meet the love of your life on Runescape or whatever anything is better than this shit. You can talk to literally anyone on the entire planet with an internet connection and you are talking to a GPU.
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When you ask AI a question, do you write it the same way you would ask a real person or rewrite it to sound like an instruction for a robot? I know that most corporate models have a sycophantic and goody two-shoes personality by default, but it has never been very noticeable to me. Then I realized that I never talk to AI the way I talk to a real person. Like, instead of writing "Here are my app's error logs [attached_file]. My app does XYZ. What is causing the crash at line N of the log?", I'll write "[attached_file] contains error logs from an app that does XYZ. Identify the cause of the crash in line N of the log". The way you would instruct a robot. Trying to speak to it like a real person encourages it to reply in a more "personal" way, which means annoying ass-kissing. It could also depend on what kind of question you ask it as I only use it for extremely detailed technical questions. The only ass-kissing I get is the "You're absolutely right, great observation, this is a fantastic question" reply intro before the normal answer.
Unless... I have been conditioned by Stack Overflow and Reddit that smug responses are normal.
Maybe this is yet another zoomcel excuse to avoid all human socialization but my mommy told me that the internet is full of bad people and she was right. The mentally unstable types who would settle for an AI partner are extremely easy to blackmail and scam (example: earlier in the thread jeet devs were trying to shill their paid chatbots on the AI boyfriend subreddit's meltdown posts when 4o shut down, so the janny had to sweep them up and warn the users to not pay for vibe coded slop). I can't fault them for being too paranoid for a real human relationship.
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Funny enough I think sexual depravity is probably the more mentally stable option out of the two.
Spooky all year
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The guy that made the manual to make an AI companion for the My BF is AI subreddit is... a guy. There's a surprising number of lonely dudes on there. Generally the ones that want to go into pure filth just dive into stuff like Character.ai and Grok because that's entirely unfiltered minus illegal shit.
As for the sexual depravity being more mentally stable; ymmv. I've seen fruitcakes on both ends of the spectrum. But women generally are more emotional, so it would be reasonable to say that if people are less emotionally stable chances are higher with women.
Which AI have you been using? Kinda curious now. But also, a lot of them now have personality options where they can do formal and factual or whatever as the basis default. They should, theoretically be less ass-kissy.
Foundinglaunderer
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So ?? I regularly get told I'm a tool for paying for multiple streaming services
People also hate on me for using windows.
Nigger it is 27 dollars a month and only works on apple products. I was only suggesting an alternative. The cognitive dissonance in this community is shocking at times
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I am delighting in this statement and your Spergatory thread coexisting within the same timeline.
I've heard things about OpenRouter, but every single time I remember it, I start thinking it's some OpenWRT/LEDE thing and never bother further. Seems like it could be useful if you want to pass the same shit over different LLMs at once, but I.. don't know why I'd want that.
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Payfaggotry is only worth it on the extremely low end (a nanogpt subscription) or the extremely high end (dropping a few hundreds monthly for Claude Max or Opus API because you're made of money). If you're anywhere in the middle it's a scam and you're getting fleeced by corpos or some Indian selling an API wrapper or some local tier tiny model.
Spooky all year
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Bruh, you quoted me when I've been posting about that legit fucking topic for months at this point in this thread. YOU are the one that hasn't actually read shit if you want to make a point on using open software stuff. I want to use that thing for ONE reason. I am not using it now. Paying a one off 27 bucks isn't going to kill me to run a test and then delete the fucking thing. I have 0 use for your open source shit.
Advice on shit to use is also beside the point in this fucking thread; it's about retards in love and simping for their AI companions. My point on wanting Valentine out on Android is because I want to see how fucking toxic it is and post about it here because it amuses me and people obviously fall for that crap, which is what this thread is about.
Foundinglaunderer
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And like everyone else (along with the people in the styx thread who bitched when I asked for a tl;dr) you did not read it. I mentioned my father has worked alongside space x and even met Elon in a multiple hour long meeting. even as a personal semi fan of the app giving your money or credit info to him is a terrible idea vs just using an api with 1k msgs and a massive context size off openrouter.ai
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Scroll back to around October where Interesting Things from around the World had Ethan fucking Ralph simping and abusing Elon's creation on his iPhone. It was absolutely disgusting.
E: Here it is. Account not required.
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