Lolcow Andrew Peter Carlson / Anaiah Carlson / Tamarlover / Xtamarlover - Jewish/Christian Wannabe Cult Leader, Stalker, Ugly af, dogfucker, mayor of spitsville

I tried to get them to break up last year but I felt like I was being too mean and I went pretty horrible last year in insulting them and I did cause them to break up multiple times. I have a video of their most recent break up back in the end of February. When i tried to solidify it, they decided to get back together. That's when I decided I would make youtube videos with the hope that they would break up because of my youtube videos. Then came along our wellbeloved kiwi dwarf and the rest is history.

Tamar responded by nonsensically initiating a lawsuit with me, thereby forcing me to interact with her and contact her. So I decided I would make the most of what she is doing to me and go full extreme on her, which I did. As a result, there is apparently an arrest warrant, but I don't regret it. I said what I needed to say, and it was pretty extreme but it gives me my best chance to win her heart in the end. its my 250 page book i mentioned that i sent her. As long as she reads the whole thing, she'll see how much I truly love her and care for her and how much more extreme I am willing to go to be with her. I laid out everything for her clearly.

But now she is claiming stupidly that she is afraid that I am going to kill her. Either she has an irrational fear based on being stupidly paranoid. Or she is lying and trying to make everyone think I am dangerous when she secretly knows I am not truly dangerous. I wouldn't put it past her to knowingly lie about this. And i have good reason to convince the judges that she is clearly not truly afraid of me hurting her, because if she was, she wouldn't be suing the guy she is afraid of for $80,000. Either that or she is really really stupid. Who would sue the guy they are afraid is going to kill them? It would be the dumbest thing to sue someone for almost 100,000 if you thought he was so dangerous that he might kill you. She clearly is taking advantage of the system and pretending she is afraid of me killing her. But when you analyze it closely it makes no sense and she is clearly trying to prey on me in an attempt to get back at me or something. or as i said if she really is afraid for her life she would have to be really stupid to sue the guy she is more afraid of than anyone else in the world.

This all makes sense to me, so why her? She's greedy (judging from the lawsuit), not very intelligent, sexually promiscuous (4 kids? 9 husbands? What the fuck?), not educated or attractive and apparently a liar. You seem to be doing all this work when she doesn't appreciate it, when all you'd be doing is improving her life. Why not improve some other woman's life?
 
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I hope so but the records don't show it. What authorities should I call?

No need to call any authorities. Right now, Tamar is trying to get them to extradite me. The judge said he doesn't have the authority to order the commonwealth attorney to do that, but that is up to their discretion. I did some research on the extradition process and apparently it goes up all the way to the governor of Virginia. The governor of Virginia has to sign it before they can extradite me. Its a pretty involved process. If there is an arrest warrant, it will take its natural course. I'm ready for whatever happens.
 
No need to call any authorities. Right now, Tamar is trying to get them to extradite me. The judge said he doesn't have the authority to order the commonwealth attorney to do that, but that is up to their discretion. I did some research on the extradition process and apparently it goes up all the way to the governor of Virginia. The governor of Virginia has to sign it before they can extradite me. Its a pretty involved process. If there is an arrest warrant, it will take its natural course. I'm ready for whatever happens.
@AnOminous This sounds like BS.
 
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This all makes sense to me, so why her? She's greedy (judging from the lawsuit), not very intelligent, sexually promiscuous (4 kids? 9 husbands? What the fuck?), not intelligent or attractive and apparently a liar. You seem to be doing all this work when she doesn't appreciate it when all you'd be doing is improving her life. Why not improve some other woman's life?

If i find a woman that captivates me more than her, then I'll do that. I will have to respectfully disagree with you about her not being intelligent (also you said that twice) or attractive. But yes she is greedy and one of the biggest liars I have ever met. She's also full of hate and anger and bitter and unforgiving of almost anything she disagrees with.

Here's how it happened with the men. She was married to a man legally from 2003-2010 and had two sons from hm. Then she divorced him. She was in a difficult bind, so apparently she entered a sexual relationship with one of her landlords to avoid paying rent. She didn't want to keep doing that. so she got out as soon as she was able. She was taken in by her mother's cousin. She decided to have sex with him and they were together for many months. They broke up. Then she had met a guy who she thought was the one for her. She was with him for about 1 year. She had a daughter with him. She didn't like some of his religious beliefs, and they broke up as a result of their religious disagreements. When she was 8 months pregnant with their daughter, she met me. He wanted to get back together. She asked me my advice and I advised her not to reconcile with him. a few months later she went with another guy who she thought could be the one. i was happy for her. When they broke up, I interrogated him and demanded to know what happened. I helped her not get back together with this guy either. Then she and I had a very close friendship and we almost decided to marry each other, but instead she decided to be with another guy instead. I was jealous i tried to warn him about her but it didn't work. Shortly after being together, she broke up with him because he had not told that he had a legal issue involving drugs. She felt he was being deceptive and couldn't trust him so she ended it. I encouraged her not to reconcile with him either. Then she used me a little bit to get to another guy and i was pretty upset about that. i tried to warn the guy but it was too late. shortly after they broke up because she was being too bossy and the guy couldn't handle it. i talked with the guy and they tried to reconcile but i convinced him not to reconcile with her and it worked they didn't reconcile. i knew it wouldn't have worked anyways so i was saving them the grief. That's when the guy showed me screenshots of her confessing to him that she once had to live as a prostitute. When she stopped being my friend for stupid piddly reasons, I got offended and decided to get back at her by showign everything that she said she was a prostitute. that was my biggest mistake. She got engaged to a guy around this time she barely even knew and was clearly not good for her. That's when i began to be suspicious of her intentions. So i didn't want her to break another guy's heart so I warned the guy she got engaged with and showed him the screenshots of her saying she was a prostitute. that effectively ended their engagement. she briefly resumed a sexual relationship at this time with her mother's cousin, but she broke up soon after with him again. the following year she decided to give me another chance for friendship while she was having sex with another guy she was with, and she ended up conceiving her fourth child with him. I had no knowledge of this fourth child's existence until I received the protective order. I was shocked. The guy she conceived the 4th child with she broke up with him around the time she ended friendship with me again. She ended it because she was still hurt by me having shown the prostitute conversation to people. She found out i had sent those conversations to some of her exes and that made her really angry with me. Ever since then she hadn't been with another man except Marshall late last year as far as I know. She considers eight of those men she has had sex with to have been her husbands though only one of them was legally her husband. She has had sex with at least one other guy that she does not think was her husband. So its been at least 9 guys.

She thinks she is justified because she thinks the guys deserve to be divorced and if they are divorced she has the right to be with someone else and try to make it work with them. I think she is wrong about this but she views herself as very pure and sexually righteous person and not promiscuous in any way. Clearly she is wrong, but in her heart she feels like she is very pure sexually and not promiscuous at all.

This all makes sense to me, so why her? She's greedy (judging from the lawsuit), not very intelligent, sexually promiscuous (4 kids? 9 husbands? What the fuck?), not educated or attractive and apparently a liar. You seem to be doing all this work when she doesn't appreciate it, when all you'd be doing is improving her life. Why not improve some other woman's life?

This is why I have picked her: because she needs me and no one else is willing to put up with her shit and help her. But I am. I love her and I'll never give up on her, and someone like me is her only chance to be rescued. She told me she needs to be rescued and that's why she keeps being with men below par because its hard for her to wait for the right guy when she is in desperate need of help all the time. As you can see below in the attached file
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If i find a woman that captivates me more than her, then I'll do that. I will have to respectfully disagree with you about her not being intelligent (also you said that twice) or attractive. But yes she is greedy and one of the biggest liars I have ever met. She's also full of hate and anger and bitter and unforgiving of almost anything she disagrees with.

Here's how it happened with the men. She was married to a man legally from 2003-2010 and had two sons from hm. Then she divorced him. She was in a difficult bind, so apparently she entered a sexual relationship with one of her landlords to avoid paying rent. She didn't want to keep doing that. so she got out as soon as she was able. She was taken in by her mother's cousin. She decided to have sex with him and they were together for many months. They broke up. Then she had met a guy who she thought was the one for her. She was with him for about 1 year. She had a daughter with him. She didn't like some of his religious beliefs, and they broke up as a result of their religious disagreements. When she was 8 months pregnant with their daughter, she met me. He wanted to get back together. She asked me my advice and I advised her not to reconcile with him. a few months later she went with another guy who she thought could be the one. i was happy for her. When they broke up, I interrogated him and demanded to know what happened. I helped her not get back together with this guy either. Then she and I had a very close friendship and we almost decided to marry each other, but instead she decided to be with another guy instead. I was jealous i tried to warn him about her but it didn't work. Shortly after being together, she broke up with him because he had not told that he had a legal issue involving drugs. She felt he was being deceptive and couldn't trust him so she ended it. I encouraged her not to reconcile with him either. Then she used me a little bit to get to another guy and i was pretty upset about that. i tried to warn the guy but it was too late. shortly after they broke up because she was being too bossy and the guy couldn't handle it. i talked with the guy and they tried to reconcile but i convinced him not to reconcile with her and it worked they didn't reconcile. i knew it wouldn't have worked anyways so i was saving them the grief. That's when the guy showed me screenshots of her confessing to him that she once had to live as a prostitute. When she stopped being my friend for stupid piddly reasons, I got offended and decided to get back at her by showign everything that she said she was a prostitute. that was my biggest mistake. She got engaged to a guy around this time she barely even knew and was clearly not good for her. That's when i began to be suspicious of her intentions. So i didn't want her to break another guy's heart so I warned the guy she got engaged with and showed him the screenshots of her saying she was a prostitute. that effectively ended their engagement. she briefly resumed a sexual relationship at this time with her mother's cousin, but she broke up soon after with him again. the following year she decided to give me another chance for friendship while she was having sex with another guy she was with, and she ended up conceiving her fourth child with him. I had no knowledge of this fourth child's existence until I received the protective order. I was shocked. The guy she conceived the 4th child with she broke up with him around the time she ended friendship with me again. She ended it because she was still hurt by me having shown the prostitute conversation to people. She found out i had sent those conversations to some of her exes and that made her really angry with me. Ever since then she hadn't been with another man except Marshall late last year as far as I know. She considers eight of those men she has had sex with to have been her husbands though only one of them was legally her husband. She has had sex with at least one other guy that she does not think was her husband. So its been at least 9 guys.

She thinks she is justified because she thinks the guys deserve to be divorced and if they are divorced she has the right to be with someone else and try to make it work with them. I think she is wrong about this but she views herself as very pure and sexually righteous person and not promiscuous in any way. Clearly she is wrong, but in her heart she feels like she is very pure sexually and not promiscuous at all.
Wait, she had sex with her mother's cousin? Wouldn't that be incest?
 
You said earlier that you paid off her parking tickets.

Have you given her any other money over the years?
 
Cuck's recommendations are something i'd consider. I would NEVER ever consider taking any meds. I will die before I take meds. Even if its a medical emergency.
You wouldn't take any medicine at all, not even if you needed them to live? If you got married to Tamar, would you let her or her children take medication?
 
Wait, she had sex with her mother's cousin? Wouldn't that be incest?

Technically no its not. Even sex with your own cousin is not incest. But it sounds weird because of our culture. The precise definition of incest is not universally agreed upon, but everyone agrees that sex with your own descendants or ancestors is incest. Everything else is up for debate.

You wouldn't take any medicine at all, not even if you needed them to live? If you got married to Tamar, would you let her or her children take medication?

If the children are more than five years old, it will be their decision. For Tamar, she can do whatever she wants as long as she doesn't do anything super evil.

You wouldn't take any medicine at all, not even if you needed them to live? If you got married to Tamar, would you let her or her children take medication?

I say i wouldn't. I also say i wouldn't eat pork to save my life either even if i'm starving. but its one thing to say it, another thing to follow through. if i'm starving and actually experiencing starvation, i might not think clearly and might give in. But in my right mind I can say what i wouldn't do or rather what I shouldnt' do according to my morals. whether i follow through with those specific morals in a difficult time is unclear to me when it comes to saving my life by eating or consuming something unhealthy.
 
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If i find a woman that captivates me more than her, then I'll do that. I will have to respectfully disagree with you about her not being intelligent (also you said that twice) or attractive. But yes she is greedy and one of the biggest liars I have ever met. She's also full of hate and anger and bitter and unforgiving of almost anything she disagrees with.

Here's how it happened with the men. She was married to a man legally from 2003-2010 and had two sons from hm. Then she divorced him. She was in a difficult bind, so apparently she entered a sexual relationship with one of her landlords to avoid paying rent. She didn't want to keep doing that. so she got out as soon as she was able. She was taken in by her mother's cousin. She decided to have sex with him and they were together for many months. They broke up. Then she had met a guy who she thought was the one for her. She was with him for about 1 year. She had a daughter with him. She didn't like some of his religious beliefs, and they broke up as a result of their religious disagreements. When she was 8 months pregnant with their daughter, she met me. He wanted to get back together. She asked me my advice and I advised her not to reconcile with him. a few months later she went with another guy who she thought could be the one. i was happy for her. When they broke up, I interrogated him and demanded to know what happened. I helped her not get back together with this guy either. Then she and I had a very close friendship and we almost decided to marry each other, but instead she decided to be with another guy instead. I was jealous i tried to warn him about her but it didn't work. Shortly after being together, she broke up with him because he had not told that he had a legal issue involving drugs. She felt he was being deceptive and couldn't trust him so she ended it. I encouraged her not to reconcile with him either. Then she used me a little bit to get to another guy and i was pretty upset about that. i tried to warn the guy but it was too late. shortly after they broke up because she was being too bossy and the guy couldn't handle it. i talked with the guy and they tried to reconcile but i convinced him not to reconcile with her and it worked they didn't reconcile. i knew it wouldn't have worked anyways so i was saving them the grief. That's when the guy showed me screenshots of her confessing to him that she once had to live as a prostitute. When she stopped being my friend for stupid piddly reasons, I got offended and decided to get back at her by showign everything that she said she was a prostitute. that was my biggest mistake. She got engaged to a guy around this time she barely even knew and was clearly not good for her. That's when i began to be suspicious of her intentions. So i didn't want her to break another guy's heart so I warned the guy she got engaged with and showed him the screenshots of her saying she was a prostitute. that effectively ended their engagement. she briefly resumed a sexual relationship at this time with her mother's cousin, but she broke up soon after with him again. the following year she decided to give me another chance for friendship while she was having sex with another guy she was with, and she ended up conceiving her fourth child with him. I had no knowledge of this fourth child's existence until I received the protective order. I was shocked. The guy she conceived the 4th child with she broke up with him around the time she ended friendship with me again. She ended it because she was still hurt by me having shown the prostitute conversation to people. She found out i had sent those conversations to some of her exes and that made her really angry with me. Ever since then she hadn't been with another man except Marshall late last year as far as I know. She considers eight of those men she has had sex with to have been her husbands though only one of them was legally her husband. She has had sex with at least one other guy that she does not think was her husband. So its been at least 9 guys.

She thinks she is justified because she thinks the guys deserve to be divorced and if they are divorced she has the right to be with someone else and try to make it work with them. I think she is wrong about this but she views herself as very pure and sexually righteous person and not promiscuous in any way. Clearly she is wrong, but in her heart she feels like she is very pure sexually and not promiscuous at all.
Isn't this just a really convoluted and wordy way to say "she can't keep her legs shut for even a short amount of time and seems to have barely any standards"?
I guess I could understand you better if one of the guys that she played tiddlywinks with would have been you, but instead she gave you the shaft. This way, it seems you are wasting an enormous amount of time and energy on a woman that will never fell anything positive for you.

But what would happen if she one day said "You know what, Anaiah? You were right about everything, let's live together from now on.", what would you imagine your day-to-day lives be like?
Wait, she had sex with her mother's cousin? Wouldn't that be incest?
I'm getting Shelbyville vibes here.

The precise definition of incest is not universally agreed upon, but everyone agrees that sex with your own descendants or ancestors is incest. Everything else is up for debate.
What about your own siblings?
 
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You said earlier that you paid off her parking tickets.

Have you given her any other money over the years?

The only other time is I sent her $100 in the mail via walmart transfer for a birthday present in 2015. Shortly after she stopped being friends with me and since that time we haven't been friends. So in total i've only sent her $300. i did however let her use me as a fake reference to help her get approved for rent in various places, and I posted advertisements on craigslist for her. And she had me pretend to be her secretary and I made calls on her behalf as "my client" to get her a plot of land on indian acres. She also had me write a letter of recommendation she could submit to help her get approval to homeschool her children. She asked me once for directions to a train station (since she didn't have internet access) and i gave her the directions. unbeknownst to me, she was going to the train station to move in with a guy so i was pretty upset when I found out she used me for that purpose.

What's super evil?

murder and sex crimes primarily
 
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The only other time is I sent her $100 in the mail via walmart transfer for a birthday present in 2015. Shortly after she stopped being friends with me and since that time we haven't been friends. So in total i've only sent her $300. i did however let her use me as a fake reference to help her get approved for rent in various places, and I posted advertisements on craigslist for her. And she had me pretend to be her secretary and I made calls on her behalf as "my client" to get her a plot of land on indian acres. She also had me write a letter of recommendation she could submit to help her get approval to homeschool her children. She asked me once for directions to a train station (since she didn't have internet access) and i gave her the directions. unbeknownst to me, she was going to the train station to move in with a guy so i was pretty upset when I found out she used me for that purpose.
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I believe sex is primarily for procreation. With that being said, I only think its wrong because children born to siblings are unhealthy genetically. It wasn't always unhealthy but its unhealthy for the last 3000+ years so it shouldn't be done for that reason. Otherwise it would be completely fine. If sex was not primarily for procreation, then siblings could be together as long as they didn't have children.

My sister is married and I believe being with my own sister is a sin. But I do not think it is gross for people to be with their own siblings. I think its immoral, but not gross. I think its gross and utterly disturbing to be with your parent or child. Not gross to be with a sibling. Its unhealthy relationship but not particularly disgusting or disturbing to me.
 
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