lol it made me laugh but your analogy makes no sense. who said anything about being gay?
your arguing something I'm not claiming. you're focusing on what people are thinking, I'm pointing out what they're doing behaviorally. All porn consumption puts you in a physically passive, observational role.
if you're imagining you're actually the chad banging the girl, great, enjoy that, but you're learning to get off while watching another guy perform. over time it can shape what you respond to.
moreover, I'm sure plenty of actual cucks imagine they're the bull, living vicariously through them, not just getting off on bring humiliated or excluded, living real life porn essentially.
and your last example makes the opposite point of what you intend. after all, if all porn has naked women, why is there porn that focuses on asses? all porn involves sex, categories emerge based on emphasis.
there's probably a thread to debate this more, but this isn't really about the merits of porn so I don't want to distract too much, as I'm here to gawk at the human wreckage.