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There kind of is (ignore the OP being Meiwaku who just got b& lol)
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Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious
- Thread starter Justa Grata Honoria
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Seconded. @Chromeo you gotta stop giving bisexual men the time of day. I know bi women tend to empathize with these kinds of men because you think they're like you, but the majority aren't. They're mostly lazy hedonists who see men as easy options they can turn to for physical pleasure while they treat you, the forever girlfriend, as an unpaid therapist. The femboy fuckbuddy who only wants him when he's taken is a tale as old as time. You do not want SSA men and their drama in your life. It's just going to be more Rons and Johns until you say "enough."
And no, you aren't homophobic if you refuse to date bi guys despite being bi yourself. That's propaganda they push so they can get in your pants, just like troons and their "cotton ceiling."
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If this ever becomes a thing and as tempting it would be to participate in, I'd either consider it a weapon of last resort or bypass it altogether. I take great pains to keep my opsec under control here, you never truly know who you'd be meeting, and I learned 20 years ago that online only relationships are just not feesible (especially if you lack the means to actually visit the person IRL.) While I've met a few online friends before, I'd "known" and routinely interacted with them for at least three years. And this is coming from a moid with a small arsenal!
...I say the above and then curiously click the link...
What is it with the rainbow mafia hating bi women? My ex was bi, and she had to "defend" our "straight presenting" realtionship on xitter multiple times.
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There's your answer friendo
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Xitter was one of the worst things that happened to her. She never saw the irony of bending over backwards to appease people who hated her for dating a straight man.
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Tbh it's a hard lesson to learn, that no matter what you do they're never gonna be satisfied. It seems so close to doable, but the more you try the less approval you get. Men can easily be like "lol fuck that" and stop caring, women have been raised to prioritize what other people feel about them, so it takes us like a hundred times longer to be like "lol fuck that"
(Though once you learn the lesson it's a lot easier to apply in other places.)
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Bi women are the easiest to bully, unfortunately.
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I'd do it too because it sounds funny as fuck. Of course I'd admend or bend the truth on a lot of my general information, due to the nature of it eventually going to blow up catastrophically.
Though I likely think it would be end up as a sausage fest.
Froggy Fresh Sextape
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tbh I think "find someone with the same interests as you" is the worst dating advice ever invented.
When I was dating my wife we'd talk for hours every day and it pissed off her roommates, then we got married and...still talk for hours every day and now it pisses off our kids. We have very few shared interests other than being interested in each other, and the latter is what's important.
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I’ll 100% second this. When I was in college I dated guys who shared all my interests and they got very tedious and very annoying.
Love of my life, husband and father of my children and I had NOTHING particularly in common. Being different was what made him interesting to me plus several extremely admirable and resilient qualities. We ended up discovering some shared interests together - which was awesome.
It’s not exactly opposites attract. My husband is incredibly smart and intelligent in ways I am not. (He’s incredibly skilled in math and engineering, I’m a bookworm. He thinks I’m the smart one and vice versa.) We both admire qualities in others that we lack. It’s made for a very beneficial balance in the relationship.
Trying to date someone just like you is doomed to fail imo. Evolution drives us to find mates that have good qualities we lack so offspring can benefit.
funwithshemales69
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I learned about this recently, that people talk to their significant other for hours at a time, at least an hour a day. Theres couple people in my office who do this. Im pretty shocked cause Im not much of a talker and I talk with my parents/grandma on the phone everyday for at most 5-6 minutes per call. Thats the most I can manage, generally if its a friend Ive not met in a long time I talk about an hour or so but everyday, I can only manage 6 minutes. I dont even know what youd talk about that encompasses an hour, I just ask my family if they ate, what they ate, whats their plan for the day and if their day is going okay. Id like to know, women, what do you actually talk about or want to talk about?
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On average, 57 women per month in the USA are turned to Swiss cheese by their gun-wielding partner: https://www.americanprogress.org/article/guns-and-violence-against-women/. That's counting deaths, not women who are merely threatened with a gun by their partner.
Practically every woman in the USA can tell you about at least one unhinged man they know who shouldn't be near firearms (even I, and I am very pro-gun). It's far more likely that I will have a BF who thinks I'm cheating on him and waits outside my home or gym or whatever to shoot me than it is that a random mugger will try to grab my bag and I'll get to blow him away and be a hero.
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How many women are assaulted (including domestics) and could have defended themselves with a firearm each month?
Hell, if y'all started blasting wife-beaters maybe that 57 figure would start coming down lmao
Two Frogs
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Having a gun in your house increases your risk of being murdered, statistically.
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Sounds like librul propagander
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I feel bad for you ladies for getting slandered just for having an in-group preference when it comes to dating.
I'm similar. I'm rather introverted, but I'll listen to you ramble about your interests.
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Its not about introversion, its more about the topic at hand. I dont understand small talk because I subconsciously find the concept of gossip to be a waste of time or conversation, so I cant consciously engage in it. If a girl were to tell me about someone in her class and relationship dramas or something, Id just nod my head and go "cool". If its a conversation about movies or sports or history, then Ill talk enough to bore the other person. But small talk, idk, I dont get it, it seems ephemeral and sorta small minded. "Oh thats cool, uh huh that seems fine, thats okay", thats it. The SO talks I hear are all about how the neighborhood dog did something or how the shopkeeper did something or how a family member did something or which dress on this website looks good. And theres all the sweet talk after that "Please dont leave me, Ill miss you" youre going to see her in couple hours, whats this unnecessary drama shit? I genuinely dont get it.
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I mean, to be fair, Rob Schneider's grandma was a Filipina (unless that's what you meant by "learned who [he] was"?) Is that enough to get the Asian slur pass? Idk
I saw him do standup IRL a few months ago and he was great.
It had a bit of "newly redpilled boomer" energy, because I don't know if you're aware, but he's a big Trump guy nowadays. And I think most of the audience was like 15 years older than me.
But he was still very funny. If you get a chance to see him IRL, I definitely recommend.
All that is very true, and it would be a great justification for more gun control if gun control was actually effective. But because it isn't, and because police are often useless when you actually need them, you're often going to need to be your own first responder. My sister and I dealt with a home invasion from a disgruntled ex-boyfriend (hers), who legally wasn't supposed to be able to possess firearms (and yet he did), and the police were next to useless. Baltimore City police are incompetent dipshits.
But the bigger issue I've found is that because guns are scary (I'm not being sarcastic, I understand being nervous around firearms), going full Ben Shapiro and jabbering at women with facts and figures never works. It's awkward and everyone gets quiet and uptight and doesn't erase their actual feelings.
Likewise I've found it super difficult to peak women on troonery because for a long time, I approached it like I was talking to another man. With facts and figures. Doesn't work that way.
I think what eventually peaked my sister was a combination of the Witch Trials of JK Rowling and a couple of Blaire White videos.
I still don't think I learned any lessons on how to persuasively sell a different perspective to a woman. I just lucked out.
If I wanted to have a conversation about any other political issue to any random woman, I know full well I'd have nothing to say that would help. It'd have to be random luck.
Murdered specifically or just killed? Because they often fold suicide deaths into that number.
But even if excludes suicides, as far as I'm aware, there's no studies establishing a causal relationship.
A better way to phrase it is "people with firearms in their homes have higher rates of dying". It could be because whipping out a gun in a tense standoff prompts someone to fire and kill the defender. Which is a legit possibility. OR it could also be that people who live in shitty neighborhoods who are likely to be murdered anyway, are more likely to purchase firearms to protect themselves. It really could go either way and the data doesn't really narrow down any one conclusion.
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Sounds like you've never dated anyone you find interesting on a personal level. If you're incapable of caring about what she talks about and vice versa, that's a pretty big sign you're incompatible.