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I watched some vids on Gwens FB. They are longer than others I'd seen before. And watching those creatures and her delusions was horrifying. Claire looks like a broken spider with her legs twisted.
The worst one sleeps with her eyes open and anytime anybody touches her, she rises up for a minute than falls back. Gwen thought cute, I thought that has to be some primitive reflex we don't know.
I know people make the best of tragic things but I can't say I wouldn't put them in a home and just visit. The whole thing is an exercise in futility. They don't k ow anything g, they wouldn't care and they might even be more comfortable.
It's probably a "make sure wolves aren't trying to eat your face off" reflex. No wolves? Then you can go back to sleep. I imagine primitive mammals didn't sleep too deeply. We can lay in our beds all night with our doors locked. They couldn't.
They would absolutely be more comfortable because a medical care facility would give them muscle relaxers and other real drugs to treat their symptoms - not just herbal oil woo bullshit. Some severely disabled children are aware enough to benefit from having their family around them - not the potatoes. They are a rare case where institutional care would be better for them than at home with a mother that would scare Norman Bates.
Gwen’s refusal to use real drugs or get medical insight into their condition for better hospice level care - combined with insisting on putting their lives on constant display for asspats makes a bad situation even worse.
I’d have an abortion if I received a prenatal diagnosis of anacephaly or microcephaly, but if I wasn’t aware of any problem before birth and sadly had a potato baby I would have started hospice like care from day one - keep them comfortable but nothing else, no life prolonging medical interventions whatsoever. It’s different when there is even a slight hope of some quality of life, in this case there is none and the only guarantee is it getting worse.
Well decades ago that's what it was like. Even when abortion was frowned upon doctors wanted you to put the child in a home. Of course that was abused and a lot of kids who weren't that bad off just got dumped at a facility because they were falling back a little too far. So you had kids who could talk, dress and feed themselves devolving into potatoes due to neglect and lack of any useful therapy. However, we're way better at ascertaining ability now. Any doctor would look at the Hartley girls and immediately know it was a lost cause. They'd know things like Eagle Eyes are a waste of money for them and any therapies beyond providing physical comfort are a waste of time.
Gwen doesn't believe in any medicine beyond oils and teething necklaces. Most of this stuff isn't going to do anything as anything other than a supplement. You can take ginger to calm your stomach for instance. But it won't cure a serious stomach ailment. Wearing a charm may provide a placebo effect and make you feel a little better. But it will not treat your condition.
I think muscle relaxers would work wonders. Because if they can feel pain those contractures must be agonizing. And having them untreated for years and years has probably increased the damage they caused. I do think that Lola feels some pain. Because she looks like she's in agony a lot.