Recently while watching a detractor video, something Phil said stuck out like a sore thumb to me. He was talking about his "girlfriend" and had said something along the lines of "so she can contribute her income towards the bills".
That right there tells me that he doesn't date these girls for love/sex. He wants a girl who can be like a 2nd mother to him, that will chip in towards the bills he owes. All so he can continue to sit on his ass day in and day out, getting fatter and fatter by the day, playing video games.
Phil will never be able to be considered a "man" until he gets his shit together, gets a god damn job and starts supporting himself instead of relying on his audience of preteens to support him with tips, bits, cheers, subs, Paymetons and Teeshit.