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- Oct 31, 2017
I'm gonna push the boat out and say this is a long, long term thing. Probably years. My reasoning is that Phil has spent the last few months gaslighting to fuck to get her under control. I've posted this before but it really is textbook, and Phil is damn good at it. Without being too powerlevelly I have some professional knowledge of this stuff, and Phil is using a tactic called lovebombing, where you publicly and privately tell someone you love them, that they're the one, that nobody else has ever made you feel this way. You shower them with gifts and kindness and want to spend all your time with them. Basically you hit the TRUE LOVE button hard.
TL;DR Phil has his hooks well into her now and it'll take her years to break the psychological bind she's in. Seen it happen many times, pretty much exactly like this.
Saying this is accurate, would your opinion be that Phil is aware he's doing this to her?