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Well, tbf, one of the symptoms of BED is not eating all day and then going crazy eating at night. (I don't know any of the the other symptoms) That might be why she thinks she has it.
I do agree though that I think this whole video was just an excuse to overeat, especially with her saying that this whole video is just her being "real" and "raw".
 
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Doesn’t everyone get really hungry after eating Chinese food? And that wasn’t all that she ate there. It was a buffet. No restaurant sells just 2 crab rangoon. Bitch please. This was probably just your warm up- which is fine, but stop lying and misleading! It’s not “raw and real” if you aren’t being real.
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I read something recently about how Asian (I think it focused on Chinese for the most part) people have to eat multiple small meals throughout the day or they get painfully hungry, mostly due to the fact that they eat so much rice with their meals. Rice is great and it's filling but definitely won't satisfy you long-term.

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Could she even get up if she were sitting on the floor?
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She was sitting on the floor in the vlog from what I could see. I have so many follow-up questions now.
 
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Malibougie said:
Doesn’t everyone get really hungry after eating Chinese food? And that wasn’t all that she ate there. It was a buffet. No restaurant sells just 2 crab rangoon. Bitch please. This was probably just your warm up- which is fine, but stop lying and misleading! It’s not “raw and real” if you aren’t being real.

That wasn’t a binge that she had. That was a well thought out plan to over eat. She says that she blacks out in binge. She had the forethought to tape before hand and describe exactly how she feels. She blames the “binge” so that she is the victim. No one but her could understand what it is like.

I don’t think she has BED at all. I think she is a food addict. It’s like someone who got hooked on pain pills due to an injury and they stay on them well past the point of where they need them and they blame the pain as to why they have to refill. She has to eat because “binge”.
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Well, tbf, one of the symptoms of BED is not eating all day and then going crazy eating at night. (I don't know any of the the other symptoms) That might be why she thinks she has it.
I do agree though that I think this whole video was just an excuse to overeat.
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She doesn't have BED at all. Plenty of people, despite others being a little salty about it, have mentioned how she doesn't match up with the BED criteria.

She's bragged time and time again about how she will go weeks/months without binging, which is a clear sign of someone who doesn't have BED. A critical sign is the binging, which she has claimed to be proud of stopping. We all know she reads KF, so now she's saying she does it every day despite never mentioning it and denying it.

She meets up with the criteria for a compulsive overeater. She knows what she's doing, but because food is a drug to her, she continues to eat.

BED and Compulsive Overeating Disorder are both extremely similar, but also different.

Common factors of COD, which Amber has:
  • Most but not all begin to eat compulsively after a period of dieting
  • Most, but not all would describe themselves as kind
  • Most put others first and attend to the needs of other people and not themselves
  • Most, but not all have some difficulty knowing or expressing their needs
  • Many, but not all lack clarity about how they feel and cannot manage their feelings properly
  • Most, but not all have low self worth
  • Most , but not all need to be liked
She falls under most of those.
 
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She was sitting on the floor in the vlog from what I could see. I have so many follow-up questions now.
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"Texas Roadhouse was jammed-packed."

I have so many questions about this story she's writing and the curious side of me wants to see it. What do they say? Write what you know. You use life experience to build a story and incorporate the things you've learned as a medium to create. Your words are your toolbox. You dont have to be really smart to write well but those are the bare fundamentals of writing. How can you write anything if you have virtually no life experience and your toolbox is empty.

I didn't think it was possible but these videos are getting worse as they go on.
 
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angelicbitch said:
Common factors of COD, which Amber has:
  • Most but not all begin to eat compulsively after a period of dieting
  • Most, but not all would describe themselves as kind
  • Most put others first and attend to the needs of other people and not themselves
  • Most, but not all have some difficulty knowing or expressing their needs
  • Many, but not all lack clarity about how they feel and cannot manage their feelings properly
  • Most, but not all have low self worth
  • Most , but not all need to be liked
She falls under most of those.
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Damn, she really does! Hope she reads this! Who am I kidding, of course she will. Yet she will continue to say she has BED, despite the fact.
 
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She may be completely enabling, excusing and misdiagnosing herself, but this vid was at least moving a little closer to her actual (@angelicbitch COD) reality.

If she tried to keep an honest video food diary of her binges, even if she didn't post them, it would hold her to some sort of accountability. Hey, Amber; Push yourself harder to be honest. The "realer" you are with yourself, the closer you will be to figuring yourself out and getting your life/mental health/weight on track.
 
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Please continue to try to be honest and accountable
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If you believe that is all she ate that day, I have a bridge to sell you.

Amber wasn't being honest, she made that video for pity points. Also there is no accountability in what she did - she knows it was wrong and she shouldn't do it, yet she said she would do it anyway. All the while claiming she can't help herself because it isn't her fault, it's the binge doing it for her.
 
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Not going to lie, I liked that she documented a binge for once. I feel like she's still lying about the amounts though, "I only eat half a bag of these chips" and "I only eat like 3 cookies...or all of them". It just proves that she's lying in her grocery store vlogs though, because she definitely doesn't get a bunch of junk food like chips and cookies in them. But what if she's making Becky drive her to the store other times to get her binge food, like when they go out to eat? I can easily imagine her slamming her fists against the kitchen table, screaming at Becky to go buy her a bunch of junk food during the night or a few hours after they wake up ("I haven't eeun all day").

And does Eric not drive either? Why did she make such a big deal about pointing out him driving? I actually don't think I've seen him drive in his vlogs, just Rickie.
 
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