Plagued Nice Guys

DrJonesHat said:
Like say, trying to blackmail the guy into breaking up with the girl. This is funny when the blackmail isn't something the guy cares about and the girl knows about already.
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They may possibly do that, but like I said, they probably wouldn't try anything on someone who wasn't in as vulnerable of a position. It wouldn't surprise me if nice guys decided to take measures to blackmail or threaten the boyfriend... Like that kinda out-there email some guy got from a "nice guy" telling him to stay away from his coworker because the "nice guy" was actually under the impression that because she was nice to him and they have lunch together every so often (or some shit) they may as well be together. Fuckin weirdos man.
 
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Eshettar said:
Remember the guy who announced his plan to fly over to Japan and persuade some poor woman not to go through with her wedding because he knew deep in his soul that HE was the man she truly loved? What I wouldn't give to know how that one turned out...
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I don't know if this counts, but this guy should get an Olympic Gold Medal for best cockblock of the year.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=htmSC1azyK8
 
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Vorhtbame said:
This smells like a parody.
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What, you mean that "getting punched in the tomato juice" isn't a common phrase used by nice guys?

Yeah, some of the entries in this thread seem like parody. Like 90% of the roleplaying ones- I think people just make them up because they're becoming a popular form of cringe (not saying it never happens, though, I've gotten roleplaying weirdos myself)
 
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JaneThough said:
What a moron. He just talked himself out of that. She actually seemed interested.
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I think some of them are too autistic to know when women are actually interested. She never said she wasn't interested in meeting him. He asked what she was looking for, and she said so.

IMO he fucked it up when he said "Ok, so just not with me is what you're saying?". It comes across in a sort of just "off", passive way that isn't really a can of worms a lot of people want to open.
 
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LtCucumber said:
I think some of them are too autistic to know when women are actually interested. She never said she wasn't interested in meeting him. He asked what she was looking for, and she said so.

IMO he fucked it up when he said "Ok, so just not with me is what you're saying?". It comes across in a sort of just "off", passive way that isn't really a can of worms a lot of people want to open.
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Exactly. She was clearly interested, as she said she's looking for a relationship. If she wasn't, she would have fluffed off that question by saying she just wanted friends or whatever else.
 
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That was my reaction too. Their conversation starts out with such a promising beginning...which is then thoroughly derailed when the guy starts becoming defensive and accusatory even though she's said nothing whatsoever to prompt this from him. Probably for the best when you stop and think about it. If this is how he acts while introducing himself, I dare not imagine what a volatile boyfriend he'd make for some poor woman.
 
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JaneThough said:
Exactly. She was clearly interested, as she said she's looking for a relationship. If she wasn't, she would have fluffed off that question by saying she just wanted friends or whatever else.
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I don't think we should really be surprised here. I swear for a lot of girls dealing with nice guys (and even some other guys who don't claim to be "nice guys), there's literally no winning. If they decide to proceed with talking to the guy as if it's any other friendship, not really flirting/giving any indication of being interested, she's just a slut that's been leading him on if she dares to say no. Even girls just doing things that any regular, not shit human being would do can count as leading people on to some which is fucking backwards and scary as shit.

But if she says at the start that she has a boyfriend (for reasons like not wanting to lead someone on, or the guy was clearly interested from the get-go), or makes it clear from the start that she's not interested/isn't ready or looking for a relationship/she only sees him as a friend, she's a stuck up bitch. I can see how saying that from the get go can be seen as presumptuous, however half the time I've seen women say it from the start, it's because the guy is clearly being flirty from the very beginning.

No matter what way women come across to "nice guys" it will be inherently wrong- which is why "nice guys" are perpetually single. I'm surprised more girls haven't pointed out to these 'nice guys' who get pissed at them doing one of those two above things, that if they did the opposite, the dude would still be angry for getting the "bad end" and there'd be no pleasing them unless they let the guy get in their pants.

They just want a reason to get pissed off at women for not being interested because of their entitlement through never being told "no" as a kid, and will give any convoluted reason to justify it and patch up their ego, shattered by a woman having the sheer audacity to say "no thank you".
 
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DrJonesHat said:
And this girl wasn't even saying no. She was clearly trying to get a feel for him, and he looked like he was making progress when he decided she wasn't following the script and went off on her.
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Irony, a lot of them could probably have gotten their dick wet if they had just waited for it instead of demanding it.
 
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