Crazy Luigi: “Okay, so once again, during my conversation with GirlaPH on Discord the other day, she mentioned that she heard from a friend of hers that Rokto wound up committing suicide sometime in March this year (never specified when exactly that was the case (though some research of my own later lead me to think it was actually on the last day of September last year), just that he killed himself). She then told me that someone he used to be in contact with (someone named Ivy, to be more specific) ultimately drove him to suicide and that someone else was also involved with driving him to do so. The details I read up on felt very blurry, but basically, situations relating to him (such as implications of rape) ultimately lead to him killing himself.”
KingofSp4des01: “I was actually predicting that”
Sharkham Asylum: “I welled up reading the captured private messages. Even just the first three messages, with that oh-so-fucking-familiar cheeky, wink-wink oh-if-only-tone, had me absolutely infuriated. If this monster had come right out with it, Bya might have been able to recognize their horror, but the extremely deliberate and constructed nature of that whole act is such a disgusting but popular tactic. You don't make the first move. You hint at it slyly so that the victim wants to ply it out, and by then there's already a dynamic, and the victim either doesn't grasp the gravity of the situation or does but is too afraid or shameful to seek a way out. This has happened to people I admire. This has happened to people I love. By the same fucking strategy. They knew
exactly what they were doing and I am so fucking incensed by these impractical, useless, platitudinous, disrespectful, invalidating "gotta hear the other side" tone-policing moralizing. Even if there wasn't
direct fucking proof posted in this thread, how cruel it is to show more concern for politeness towards the abuser than solidarity with the abused.”
TheBlackWidow: “While I have never been subjected to any kind of sexual abuse, in college I became kind of reckless and lost my you know what to a random guy. Its obviously not abuse but at the same time I regret it deeply and I feel like it was stolen from me.”
Powder: “
The user guy in question was one of the main reasons i'm so uncomfortable with talking about my actual gender on the internet. The stupid bitch did some hamfisted """flirting""" with me and it made my skin crawl. Eh... Even so I still feel real uncomfortable telling strangers my gender online to this day. I really only like telling trustworthy nice friends what my gender is over Discord or a PM so they get a kinda better understanding of me... I guess.
I'm trying to be a bit more open about it so I don't come across as "creepy" to others I guess... Eh... I dunno...
...It's fucked me up real bad.
Eh... whatever. Dwelling on it hurts my head. I try not to think about it...”
Anyone want to see the full image of Dillrod90 x Bya from 2009, here it is. Honestly, that’s all on Bya.