Your concept of virginity - what does it constitute in your opinion?

[Monika H.]

Hallo, hallo!!

We already have plenty of threads discussing virginity and it's role in society, but the point of this thread shall be a little different.

The question is: what's your idea of virginity?
It's an abstract concept, a physical feature, a stepping stone in life, or completely irrelevant?
Do you think it can be lost only through sexual contact, or other actions?

Share your thoughts.

 

[skiddlez]

If you have not held a woman's asshole agape with a hoop earring, dropped your testicles inside, and removed the earring and felt the anal suction attempt to swallow your hairy scrotum, then you are a virgin faggot loser. And we should throw rocks at virgins for their well-documented practicing of witchcraft.

 

[Draza]

Virginty is something precious and worth having until you lose it to someone special and want to be with for a long while. Not throwing it away for "fun" or "everyone else is doing it", as we more in our time.

 

[SiccDicc]

I embody it.

 

[jebsurge]

Not having sex.

 

[Leadlight_]

Virginity is never having consensual sex.

I consider rape victims to still be virgins, for example, as they did not consent to the act.

 

[Cheerlead-in-Chief]

Just jacking off to hentai/no sex and just roleplaying.

 

[ComputerWife]

Largely irrelevant and self-defined. I’d bet that most people would say you’re a virgin until you have consentual penetrative sex. But using that logic, lesbians are celibate. Personally I’d just say if you’ve had any kind of sexual contact then you’ve lost your virginity. If for some reason you want to hold on to being a virgin until you have your idea of what sex that’s fine, it’s more of a concept than a moral standard of purity currently.

That being said, if you have to think really hard about if you’re a virgin or not, you probably are one. Not that it matters in the grand scheme of things.

 

[CatParty]

Whatever makes incels mad

 

[Flying_with_the_Penguins]

I feel like virginity becomes more of a hindrance to relationships the older you become, which is ironic considering that those who place the most value on it as a concept are usually teens and young adults.

 

[Red Hood]

Ever since I bought this red tank top that says OUCH! I haven't been able to remember.

 

[Vilnus Asuncion]

It depends on what your sexual preference Is. Straight? Penetrating a girl's vagina or having a dude penetrating yours. Gay? Penetrating a dude's asshole or having your asshole penetrated. Lesbian? Scissoring. I am all three and have done all, more than once all at the same time.

 

[Trasha Pay That A$$]

It's something best lost as a teenager after consuming too many wine coolers. That way you don't have to remember how disappointingly fast it was over and can blame any icky feelings on the hangover. Any young girl hanging onto that stereotypical movie shit where there's a perfect time, candles, and rose petals will be a virgin until she's in her 40's.

 

[d12]

I feel that if you've ever been brought to orgasm by another human being you are no longer a virgin. No, molestation doesn't count.

 

[eldri]

For the most part, I care very little for virginity, but I do not throw emotional intimacy and caution to the wind.

If you have not held a woman's asshole agape with a hoop earring, dropped your testicles inside, and removed the earring and felt the anal suction attempt to swallow your hairy scrotum, then you are a virgin faggot loser. And we should throw rocks at virgins for their well-documented practicing of witchcraft.

As a degenerate, I kinda want to try this.

 

[Red Hood]

Since I can't resist further shitposting:

wen u enter the pinus in the vagene

 

[Ido]

Virginity is posting on kiwi farms, mega virginity is posting about virginity on kiwi farms

 

[El Porko Fako]

Share your thoughts.

 

[Rio]

My concept of virginity is that if I don't like you, you're a virgin.

 

[Frogasm]

I usually think of it as a pretty abstract idea because I'm a lesbian and we'd need to use strap ons if we were going with ye old hymen-busting-only definition.

So I usually go with "have you ever fucked someone?" if no, you're probably a virgin. I don't consider rape victims who never had consensual sex ever to have lost their virginity.

mostly, I don't think virginity is a very helpful concept since it just seems to give people anxiety these days. young people get all worked up about whether they are or aren't virgins and that doesn't help anyone. it's just another label people give themselves. on the other hand, I think it's really funny when bitter incels get worked up about it.