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Dylan Hafertepen / Dylan Häs / noodlesandbeef / ekigyuu / beefdumplings / California Cow / dylanhasdesign - Gay BDSM Muscle-Bear with Ball Inflation Fetish Linked to 3 Deaths
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Tigerwatch
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I can see why someone would want to be a slave like that (not because I share those feelings, mind you) but no matter how horny you are or how extreme your sex life is, you can't live as a slave and not actually be a slave. Willfully allowing yourself to be a slave doesn't change that fact and all the psychological problems that come with it. Maybe designate specific days for this stuff. Like maybe you be a slave over the weekend, but when monday comes you're back to your normal life.
It's fucked that the BDSM community as a whole does not reiterate this. I'm sure there are plenty of similar cases (with less involuntary manslaughter) because no one warns people about this. They act like being a slave with someone you trust is the best thing ever, never acknowledging the dangers that are glossed over because it starts consensual.
He should have gotten psychological care for his body dysmorphia instead of being allowed to bodybuild. He was on fucking ABC specifically for his dysmorphia, and yet he had no friends or family tell him that what he's doing is unhealthy and dangerous and he needs to treat his mind and not his body.
Did no one know about it until it was too late? Since he apparently has a positive relationship with his mother, I wonder why she didn't tell her son he's killing himself and needs help.
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So he deleted the tumblr page, huh. I can't say I'm surprised. He probably didn't do it because it made him emotional but he did it because he wanted to scrub everything away clean. As expected from the big-ball loving rory looking proportions man, he's an absolute monster.
Mostly because it shows him for being an exceptionally stupid criminal on top of being a monster of a human being.
Deleting a recently deceased loved one's blog is monstrous in of itself, but this is going to raise eyebrows if this actually ends with someone trying to charge him with something. It seems there are enough people outraged enough with enough evidence of the abuse to go to authorities. Deleting Tank's tumblr shows he has something to hide, and isn't really going to save his ass if people have screencaps or anything saved with archive.is or the wayback.
It has absolutely nothing on the stupidity that was pretending to be his dead boyfriend, but he might be able to lie and blame that on some kind of shock. This is days later and more deliberate.
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I wouldn't be surprised if she does and that's why he bitches about her being "conservative" and that she disapproves of what he's doing. Gotta twist a mother's genuine concern into those sweet victim points.
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I doubt he will get charged or go to prison for this.
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I hope he ends up in another famous place in Folsom.
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doubledigitgendergap
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I wonder if he whipped his balls onto your face if they'd explode like water balloons
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Please don't give me that mental image.
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Found someone who reposted this gem:
"How do I get a butt like yours?" :deviant:
NSFW Spoiler. Also ASS. You've been warned.
[archive: https://archive.is/oAU8K]
"How do I get a butt like yours?" :deviant:
NSFW Spoiler. Also ASS. You've been warned.
I get this question all the time. Usually I just point people to my leg workout, but it seems like it’s time to get into the details of proper rumping.
Nature VS Nurture
Let’s be honest, some people have the right genetics for a big butt. Like my friend Phil, my pup, or every black dude. I’m part Filipino; we are a people known for our horrible food and tremendous lower body strength (necessary to scale coconut trees laden with feral cats, for dinner).
Genetics asside, I think that the physical activities you do in your teens sets the tone for your body as an adult. I rode my bike EVERYWHERE growing up. Mom wouldn’t even give me a ride to my 6AM AP Physics class in the next town because our school didn’t offer it. I didn’t play any sports, I didn’t try in PE, but I did ride my bike everywhere. Now, as an adult, when I ride my bike, my thighs explode with size and I can’t wear pants.
I sincerely believe that the sports and activity level you have as a kid determines your body and metabolism as an adult. Thats not to say you can’t change your body-fate, but it’s much easier when you’ve started with a good baseline.
If you’re in your teens and reading this, do sports that relate to the body you want when you’re older. I wish someone would’ve told me that so I didn’t develop the body of a video gaming anime nerd and spend my adult life hating my body.
Okay, but what can I do about my butt now?
So you weren’t a speed skater growing up or weren’t born with a bubble butt. There is hope. Genetics be damned.
If you don’t already have a leg workout, you can use mine (here is another leg workout). The key movements for building your butt are (in order of you should do this now):
When doing Deadlifts or Squats I try and focus on lifting with my butt. It might take a while to get used to lifting with that muscle group, so try starting with a low weight and try doing the movement with mostly your butt. I am not a personal trainer. This is probably bogus.
Not bogus, however, are Good Girls / Bad Girls. Or, the abductor/adductor machine. This is how you get the ass shelf. I find that rhythm is very important with this machine. I can max the weight out easily, but doing reps in a 3-seconds-out/1-second-in tempo really makes it more effective.
One of the few blogs that I follow that give amah-zing advice that I’ve applied in real life. Keep up the awesomeness Dylan!
Nature VS Nurture
Let’s be honest, some people have the right genetics for a big butt. Like my friend Phil, my pup, or every black dude. I’m part Filipino; we are a people known for our horrible food and tremendous lower body strength (necessary to scale coconut trees laden with feral cats, for dinner).
Genetics asside, I think that the physical activities you do in your teens sets the tone for your body as an adult. I rode my bike EVERYWHERE growing up. Mom wouldn’t even give me a ride to my 6AM AP Physics class in the next town because our school didn’t offer it. I didn’t play any sports, I didn’t try in PE, but I did ride my bike everywhere. Now, as an adult, when I ride my bike, my thighs explode with size and I can’t wear pants.
I sincerely believe that the sports and activity level you have as a kid determines your body and metabolism as an adult. Thats not to say you can’t change your body-fate, but it’s much easier when you’ve started with a good baseline.
If you’re in your teens and reading this, do sports that relate to the body you want when you’re older. I wish someone would’ve told me that so I didn’t develop the body of a video gaming anime nerd and spend my adult life hating my body.
Okay, but what can I do about my butt now?
So you weren’t a speed skater growing up or weren’t born with a bubble butt. There is hope. Genetics be damned.
If you don’t already have a leg workout, you can use mine (here is another leg workout). The key movements for building your butt are (in order of you should do this now):
- Squats
- Good Girls / Bad Girls
- Deadlifts
When doing Deadlifts or Squats I try and focus on lifting with my butt. It might take a while to get used to lifting with that muscle group, so try starting with a low weight and try doing the movement with mostly your butt. I am not a personal trainer. This is probably bogus.
Not bogus, however, are Good Girls / Bad Girls. Or, the abductor/adductor machine. This is how you get the ass shelf. I find that rhythm is very important with this machine. I can max the weight out easily, but doing reps in a 3-seconds-out/1-second-in tempo really makes it more effective.
One of the few blogs that I follow that give amah-zing advice that I’ve applied in real life. Keep up the awesomeness Dylan!
[archive: https://archive.is/oAU8K]
Farmhand Luke
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I'm far from a BDSM advocate or anything, but dude, they reiterate this all the time. If you look at the angry tumblr posts from friends and acquaintances of Tank in this thread, most of those are from people in the BDSM scene, and right alongside all the posts with all the juicy details and screenshots, most of them have long screeds about the importance of consent and boundaries and all that shit. Even when it's not in response to specific cases of abuse, BDSM people are fucking heavy about reiterating responsibility and being aware of the dangers. Here's an example from one of the people who's been heavily featured in this thread—Tank himself:
This situation isn't the fault of BDSM as a whole, or dudes gathering at Folsom to eat ass and wear leather and pup masks (do people in this thread realize that, despite calling his slaves pups, Dylan had next to nothing to do with pup play?) or there being too many gay people in SF. The whole reason Dylan had to uproot and move to Seattle is cuz SF was apparently because the gay and BDSM scenes of SF saw he was abusing his pups and chased his roided ass out of there. He even got chased out of the furry fandom nearly a decade ago, so it's kinda silly to blame them too.
There's certainly a case to be made that Dylan's thirsty internet cult of personality aided him in his ability to recruit all these pups, but abuse is not a quality specific to gay people, or BDSM people, or SF, or goddamn furries, it exists everywhere, and primary fault for this situation lies on a piece of shit abuser named Dylan Hafertepen.
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wow, he could ride a bike with hugeass balls and yet phil never could with his departed balls
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I hope he goes to Portland next.
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You may not be best placed to answer this, but why? I mean, leaving aside the very important fact that his personality is about as fucked up as you can get, the guy is physically a freak. He’s something out of the uncanny valley. What’s the attraction? What is it about him that makes anyone outside his harem want to defend him?
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It's no different than people who white knight celebrities they've never met. It's honestly wish fulfillment that if you're nice about people like Dylan that somehow you run a chance of hooking up with them, or people like him. It's sad but gay guys build people like Dylan up on Tumblr and make them the faces of some subcultures, in fact gay men refer to people like him as a, and I kid you not... "bearlibrity". It's even more sad when you realize that people like Dylan co-opted the fuck out of the term "bear" to be equivalent of hyper masculine muscle dudes with beards when it was originally a term for guys with some extra or a lot of weight that had body hair or beards in a time when being a bleach-blond-haired fuck boi in pastel colors on Miami Beach was the hottest attraction level. Guys like Dylan and their admirers are usually shallow fucking trash.
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Yikes... This fucking thread. I'd say I hope this guy sucks cocks in hell, but he'd probably enjoy it.
Strip away the bizarre body modification stuff, however, and this guy is basically just a run of the mill cult leader. Sexual manipulation, financial manipulation, social isolation, cult of personality, all the classic shit. Except he is apparently not very good at it, as he has so few followers. Even that obviously batshit insane Heaven's Gate guy got like 40 people to an hero so they could join up with an alien piloted comet. This dude has, what, like 3 guys in his cult? That's pussy numbers fam
Dylan even is pathetic as a cult leader.
Strip away the bizarre body modification stuff, however, and this guy is basically just a run of the mill cult leader. Sexual manipulation, financial manipulation, social isolation, cult of personality, all the classic shit. Except he is apparently not very good at it, as he has so few followers. Even that obviously batshit insane Heaven's Gate guy got like 40 people to an hero so they could join up with an alien piloted comet. This dude has, what, like 3 guys in his cult? That's pussy numbers fam
Dylan even is pathetic as a cult leader.
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Honestly, I'm mystified by his cult of personality as well. My theory is that Dylan roped in one or two guys with his head games, then between his deliberate work to curate his image of a guy who lives the high-life with his very own harem, people just started eating up the tripe he was serving. I'm sure many of Dylan's sycophants would fall on their swords for him because they think it'll get them access into his inner circle or his pants - much like how Jake Alley whiteknights for Jessica Price in hopes that she'll use her (now rescinded) connections to snag a sweet gaming job, or how he stans for Zoe Quinn so that senpai will slobber on his knob.
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Like...literally, when asked about it, he basically said "Pup has less ugly baggage than slave."
They're slaves. He just uses a different word for it that's more palateable.