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Plagued Nice Guys
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For the sake of clarity, typing the Youtube url and pushing return leads to a dead end since the video was taken down many ages ago...but I've a hunch that it was about Sonic the Hedgehog and Sally Acorn. Give yourselves a moment to let that sink in. The girl's rejection came as such a devastating blow to this dude, he devoted his life to obsessing over a cartoon squirrel instead.
Umm...as long as he's happy, I guess?
Umm...as long as he's happy, I guess?
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A lot of women I know will openly refuse gifts and favors from guys they are only causally acquainted with because they don't the guy thinking she owes him for his "kindness", or if they do accept something, they pay them back. It's sad it's come to this, but we all know a Nice Guy's sense of entitlement can be seen from the ISS, so it's really not an unreasonable reaction.
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RumblyTumbly
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The thing I hate most about "Nice Guys" is that I often get grouped in with them.
Women always think I'm being super nice because I'm trying to get in their pants, when really, I'm just a generally polite and good natured guy who isn't really trying to do anything but spread a little positivity and politeness around.
I've had women tell me they were afraid of me because of how nice I am because of guys like what is being described in this thread...but then they see me being nice to dudes too and their like "Oh...you're just like that".
Guys, is it really that hard to be nice for real without being a creepy weirdo, self absorbed, and entitled little monster?
Women always think I'm being super nice because I'm trying to get in their pants, when really, I'm just a generally polite and good natured guy who isn't really trying to do anything but spread a little positivity and politeness around.
I've had women tell me they were afraid of me because of how nice I am because of guys like what is being described in this thread...but then they see me being nice to dudes too and their like "Oh...you're just like that".
Guys, is it really that hard to be nice for real without being a creepy weirdo, self absorbed, and entitled little monster?
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Shit. The purification squad missed one.
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RumblyTumbly
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LOL! Okay that just made my day.
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I don't think you're nice. I think you've got human remains in your freezer in the garage.
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Lol coming into a nice guy thread and going on a rant about how you're a real nice guy who respects women is some real "let me preface this by saying I like the idea of fucking dogs" caliber shit.
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We get one of those every now and then. You're making the correct response which is to mock them without mercy.
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But how are we supposed to know that he's a nice guy if he doesn't spell it out for us immediately?
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I'm an asshole and I hate nice guys.
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Women don't like guys who talk about being nice. They like men who are nice without advertising. Saying you're a nice guy is as valid as @Cowlick saying he's smart.
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Saying you’re nice is like bragging about being able to piss in the toilet without missing. It’s a baseline expectation.
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You know, if I say about somebody that he's a nice guy/gal it means usually I have literally nothing else to say about the person and I'm being polite. A lot of people here have a touch of the 'tism so I felt it might be worth it to point it out. They might not like you as much as you think they do. When you think somebody is being kinda creepy to the point you wouldn't wanna spend too much time with them but they haven't really wronged you and they are nowhere near Lucas Werner/Russel Greer level creepy/horrifying in polite company you might just say that he's an ok/nice dude and leave it at that. HTH
You can certainly come across as too friendly and that certainly is creepy too if there's no real reason for somebody being overtly friendly. People will get suspicious. It all comes down to that there's no "this one weird trick" to make people like you or to get along with them. Be open to what they say when you meet them, treat them on their merits and all that. You can be polite (to a degree) but you don't need to like everyone and not everyone needs to like you. Basically it always comes down to be yourself - and if yourself is somebody nobody can stand ask yourself why that is, don't blame all of them. I swear to god if people would follow these simple rules, this forum wouldn't exist.
You can certainly come across as too friendly and that certainly is creepy too if there's no real reason for somebody being overtly friendly. People will get suspicious. It all comes down to that there's no "this one weird trick" to make people like you or to get along with them. Be open to what they say when you meet them, treat them on their merits and all that. You can be polite (to a degree) but you don't need to like everyone and not everyone needs to like you. Basically it always comes down to be yourself - and if yourself is somebody nobody can stand ask yourself why that is, don't blame all of them. I swear to god if people would follow these simple rules, this forum wouldn't exist.
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I don't trust anyone who's more than baseline polite to me when meeting me. I suspect an ulterior motive. Maybe I'm just a jaded, friendless misanthrope, but if you're super nice right when meeting someone for the first time, you're either such a loser that you're desperate for friends, or like I said, you're trying to schmooze something out of me.
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