So... the marriage was about revenge against some rapist? But she doesn't say how the dude she married is like the rapist, or how that constitutes revenge, or how that's not an obviously insanely unhealthy way to start a relationship.
But then she married some other dude for 14 years and had a kid with him in the meantime. Then that relationship ended... somehow... and she stalked... er found this dude on bookeyface, he wanted to get married, she secretly didn't but said she did (I'm pretty sure that's rape, that dude should go to jail forever).
Then... the guy continued being who he was, probably getting more and more fed up with this idiot. But he stayed with her bitter ass until she dumped him. Why?