jfc I'm glad they gave her up, if this is real. Because she's better off without this narcissist being her mother.
Also like what fucking identity? Being smug that you hate kids? And your loose flappy vagoo was made bigger? That you can't be a selfish cunt and drink all day and be the 'cool' hipster? Like damn woman, you sound like you already were a trainwreck.
Maybe I'm trying too hard to empathise with her.
It's surreal to a lot of people that someone might not like kids so much that they've resorted to looking for an outlet for their feelings, for somewhere where they can share with other people that feel that way, even about their own children. Sure, she sounds a bit resentful. The community has built their own terminology. They might even have found a way to feel good about their resentment.
I don't really see anything wrong with this woman's post, she doesn't strike me as a narcissist having lived with one for the better part of my life. I personally would have loved to have had a mother that did not despise me, or a father that did not leave me alone. I'm sure my life would have been significantly un-fucked if it wasn't a complete tornado of hatred for the first 16 years.
I kind of sucks no matter how you slice it. On the bright side the girl is now with someone that really loves her and cares for her. On the down side, she's probably old enough to remember her parents and that they suddenly gave her up, but not understand why.
She may grow up bitter at her biological parents about that, but at least she has a loving home now.
My father left at the age she purportedly put her child into the system, and I don't really remember it. When you grow up, most adults, teens, and preteens do not remember things before the age of 5-7.
I also have friends that live with adopted families, and I have never known any one of them to be bitter. Adopted children are usually brought up in very attentive, loving families. When I was 14 years of age, my best friend(whose younger sister and brother are adopted) mother, at the time, offered for me to live with them and to consider volunteering myself into foster care because of what I was being put through at home.
Of course, I did not, and I deeply regret ever turning the opportunity down.
I actually pity most of these people that feel this resentment, that despise their children. I am glad this couple had the forethought to put their child up for care.
