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At 5'4" and out of shape, my dreams of anonymously fathering multiple children are crushed.
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At 5'4" and out of shape, my dreams of anonymously fathering multiple children are crushed.
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Not to mention, according to a Cracked article I read written by a sperm donor, you need to have a more than average sperm count.
Cracked article said:
I imagine that his lifetime of unhealthiness probably isn't doing the little swimmers any favors in quality or numbers.
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One question that's come to mind for me -
Assuming for a moment that OPL is in fact trans (which I don't think can be very easily determined with the information available), would he change his name if he got a sex change? Christian to Christine, etc.? Or would the wrath of GodBear be too fearsome?
Assuming for a moment that OPL is in fact trans (which I don't think can be very easily determined with the information available), would he change his name if he got a sex change? Christian to Christine, etc.? Or would the wrath of GodBear be too fearsome?
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If he cant get accepted as a donor some people do have their own sperm frozen for later use especially before operations like vasectomies or gender reassignment. Still though he would need a willing recipient which I don't see happening. I think we can all agree it's for the best that Chris will never procreate.
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Did some research and what I found was that anyone can donate sperm; if it's for personal use. It does have a price for holding though. The age limits you guys are talking about are if Chris wants to SELL his sperm. As far as I've found, there is no requirements that need to be made to store sperm, as Chris has suggested he wants to do, except that the "sample" needs to be paid for every pay period and it needs to be given willingly and not against his/her will.
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I am fairly shocked he doesn't have one already. At least as an addition, if not a replacement. I would have assumed he would have become "Christian Weston Chandler, birth name Christopher, Spanish name Ricardo, female name Mildred", by now.
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moot point considering he's not going to get a sex change unless he does self harm. And then he won't have the time or means to worry about a name change.
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I think as much as he maybe be uncomfortable/hate his male sex, he's still too egotistical to want to change. There's a chance he'll want to be called a female name but I wouldn't be shocked if he's just too stuck on how glorious a moniker Christian is.
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I would love it if Chris started calling himself, out of all the names he could choose, Mildred.
Or Gertrude.
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The Leonard Bearstein orchestra still tours. The first Google result for "Leonard Bearstein" is the CWCki page on Chris's name change. At least one person at that company has to know about Chris. And now they're in a position to do some real damage.
"Hello, pretty lady, who is definitely a lady and nothing else! And what's your name? Prudence, you say?"
"Hello, pretty lady, who is definitely a lady and nothing else! And what's your name? Prudence, you say?"
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My point was that Chris is too old (among other things) to have a stranger want his sperm to get pregnant with, too poor to hire a surrogate to get pregnant with his sperm, and too crazy and annoying to have anyone he knows want to get pregnant with his sperm. Sure, he can freeze his sperm (though he can't afford to) but it's no more use to him that way than it is in a glass of Fanta.
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All this discussion about Chris seeing a psychiatrist reminded me: Wasn't he required to get mandated psychiatric treatment and evaluation after his trial? Did anything come from that? @Thetan did Chris ever bring it up? I mean, he had to have done it, he'd go to jail if he didn't and I have to assume the court isn't gonna be okay with him just going to talk to Rocky.
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Someone said that he actually did see an actual psychiatrist under court orders but only to make sure Chris is not a threat to society. So obviously, he didn't stick to a treatment plan.
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He wasn't ordered to get therapy. He just had to go see a psychiatrist to determine whether he was a danger to himself or others.
He went, they determined he was a harmless retard, he fulfilled his sentence. He was under no obligation to continue therapy.
EDIT: Yeah! What @Haesindang Park said!
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Ah. Well that could have done a lot of good for him. So of course he didn't follow through.
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IMHO, the court should enforce a treatment plan for Chris to make him a productive member of society where he can live as happily and productive as much as possible. Sure it'll cost more taxpayer's money but it would help him in the long run. Instead, Chris is as least productive as much as possible.
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There is no way in hell Fatty should reproduce.
He can't even live his own life, I shudder to think how he would do razing a child.
He can't even live his own life, I shudder to think how he would do razing a child.
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I've obviously missed a lot of discussion in this thread. I haven't finished reading the backlog yet, but I thought I'd throw in my (very long) two cents as someone who is trans.I apologise if I'm bringing up a dead subject.
Dysphoria is... weird. Obviously as an FtM my dysphoria is going to be different to someone who is MtF, and around different things, but generally it's similar. You have the "major" dysphoria over primary sex characteristics, which is what the media and most people who have a vague grasp of transsexualism think of first, but it's not "I'm going to take a knife to my junk". That does happen sometimes, but usually it's more a case of (in my experiences) looking down at my naked body, expecting to see a penis/scrotum and not seeing one because it's not there. That then throws me off and reminds me that I'm not a guy like my brain thinks I am, leading to mild confusion, disappointment and ultimately sadness that I'm not "whole".
Someone once described it as when you get blackout drunk and wake up the next morning. You stagger to the bathroom to do your thing and you catch yourself in the mirror with a black eye. You don't remember it being there, and you weren't expecting it, and it feels weird and wrong. That's kind of what dysphoria is like.
Dysphoria can also happen over secondary sex characteristics, like breasts, fat distribution, body hair, etc. This also includes things like face shape (jaw too strong/not strong enough, brow bone issues for trans women), voice, peach fuzz/facial hair, hand size/shape, menses (or lack of), eyebows, even the hairline itself can cause dysphoria.
The symptoms aren't just hating your body either, depression, social anxiety, emotional disconnect, a sense of just "going through the motions" in your daily life, a sense of pointlessness, knowing that you're "different" and that there's something "wrong" from a young age, and an escalation of these feelings during puberty are all also symptoms of dysphoria.
Trans women have it lucky in the sense that they can shave and fit into womens clothing, even if they're a little tall or muscular, need padding and don't "pass" so easily, whereas trans men like myself can't fit into mens jeans too easily because of the waist-hip ratio caused by oestrogen induced fat distribution, we have to bind our chests down and even if we do manage to pass, pre-HRT we usually look like 13 year olds - but trans women do have significant issues regarding safety and not passing. In fact, a lot of people don't even realise that trans men exist and just think we're ultra butch lesbians, whilst going on tirades about "gross t*****s" who are "mutilating" themselves. (I also want to point out that "transitioning" doesn't just mean SRS and actually is a catch-all for the medical procedures [HRT, double mastectomy/implants, voicebox shaving/FFS for trans women, lower surgeries, etc], as well as social transition [using the pronouns of your true gender and your chose name in jobs, education and with friends/family].)
If CWC keeps going in this way and more things than her genitals starts causing issues, that does kind of make an argument for her actually being trans, but unfortunately we don't have an insight into her head and mind, we aren't trained professionals, so we can't actually diagnose anything, only speculate. HRT for trans women is (while not safe) possible to do self-medicating if you buy the spiro and oestrogen pills online, or you can find an informed consent clinic, so if things do get really bad, CWC has options if transitioning is the way to go.
I really want to send her a gaff, some sports tape and some breast forms along with a link to the susans place hugbox/forums. I feel kinda bad, even if it's not dysphoria. Hating yourself and your anatomy is a really sad thing to go through.
Dysphoria is... weird. Obviously as an FtM my dysphoria is going to be different to someone who is MtF, and around different things, but generally it's similar. You have the "major" dysphoria over primary sex characteristics, which is what the media and most people who have a vague grasp of transsexualism think of first, but it's not "I'm going to take a knife to my junk". That does happen sometimes, but usually it's more a case of (in my experiences) looking down at my naked body, expecting to see a penis/scrotum and not seeing one because it's not there. That then throws me off and reminds me that I'm not a guy like my brain thinks I am, leading to mild confusion, disappointment and ultimately sadness that I'm not "whole".
Someone once described it as when you get blackout drunk and wake up the next morning. You stagger to the bathroom to do your thing and you catch yourself in the mirror with a black eye. You don't remember it being there, and you weren't expecting it, and it feels weird and wrong. That's kind of what dysphoria is like.
Dysphoria can also happen over secondary sex characteristics, like breasts, fat distribution, body hair, etc. This also includes things like face shape (jaw too strong/not strong enough, brow bone issues for trans women), voice, peach fuzz/facial hair, hand size/shape, menses (or lack of), eyebows, even the hairline itself can cause dysphoria.
The symptoms aren't just hating your body either, depression, social anxiety, emotional disconnect, a sense of just "going through the motions" in your daily life, a sense of pointlessness, knowing that you're "different" and that there's something "wrong" from a young age, and an escalation of these feelings during puberty are all also symptoms of dysphoria.
Trans women have it lucky in the sense that they can shave and fit into womens clothing, even if they're a little tall or muscular, need padding and don't "pass" so easily, whereas trans men like myself can't fit into mens jeans too easily because of the waist-hip ratio caused by oestrogen induced fat distribution, we have to bind our chests down and even if we do manage to pass, pre-HRT we usually look like 13 year olds - but trans women do have significant issues regarding safety and not passing. In fact, a lot of people don't even realise that trans men exist and just think we're ultra butch lesbians, whilst going on tirades about "gross t*****s" who are "mutilating" themselves. (I also want to point out that "transitioning" doesn't just mean SRS and actually is a catch-all for the medical procedures [HRT, double mastectomy/implants, voicebox shaving/FFS for trans women, lower surgeries, etc], as well as social transition [using the pronouns of your true gender and your chose name in jobs, education and with friends/family].)
If CWC keeps going in this way and more things than her genitals starts causing issues, that does kind of make an argument for her actually being trans, but unfortunately we don't have an insight into her head and mind, we aren't trained professionals, so we can't actually diagnose anything, only speculate. HRT for trans women is (while not safe) possible to do self-medicating if you buy the spiro and oestrogen pills online, or you can find an informed consent clinic, so if things do get really bad, CWC has options if transitioning is the way to go.
I really want to send her a gaff, some sports tape and some breast forms along with a link to the susans place hugbox/forums. I feel kinda bad, even if it's not dysphoria. Hating yourself and your anatomy is a really sad thing to go through.
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There's no shame in seeking help from a psychiatrist or psychologist. That's what's ridiculous; he's shared tons of extremely private information before but he doesn't want to talk to a doctor. He comes up with fake conditions, "noviophobia" for example, diagnoses himself, and then does nothing. Self-growth is very difficult for well-adjusted people and Chris needs more help than the average patient. I don't know if he's even looked at the DSM-V or the diagnostic criteria for gender dysphoria. It certainly doesn't contain the phrase "male body with female transgender lesbian soul."
Ultimately, this is just another symptom of the same problem: Chris doesn't want to put up any effort. And there's not terribly much that anyone else can do about that.
Ultimately, this is just another symptom of the same problem: Chris doesn't want to put up any effort. And there's not terribly much that anyone else can do about that.
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Well the best example I can think of is how several people told Chris that it was fine to embrace his feminine side and he somehow interpreted this to mean that he should get his taint pieced. This is the last thing anyone expected him to do.
The impression I get is that Chris only runs to Rocky as a sort of last resort, when things get really bad or out of control. Other than that, I don't think he's in regular contact with her. As far as church attendance goes, I don't believe he's gone in some time (at least he never mentioned it to Rebeckah).
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