Fat Acceptance Movement / Fat Girlcows

"Your thinness took your ability to believe me, and people who look like me. It stole away with your ability to identify and believe the bias we face — the bias that lives in those around you. It took the fullness of the world around you, reduced it only to those who look like you, quietly and passively erasing the rest of us."

I doubt it was her thinness that "took away" anything. My money is on age, experience, and growing maturity enabling her to see that some people really are the creators and sustainers of their own goddamned misery, and that fighting the good SJW fight for somebody who routinely makes poor choices and blames everyone else for the shitty outcomes of those choices is a losing game.

"In that world, we work together for outcomes that serve both of us: more comfortable airline seats. More clothing options for all sizes, more standardized sizing, and more affordable clothing made by fairly compensated workers.
God, it always comes down to "I want more cute, cheap clothes, just like the skinny girls get!" with these bitches. But if she knew a single goddamned thing about the process of designing, manufacturing, and marketing clothes, she'd know that making plus-size clothes that are cute, varied, affordable, and that don't depend upon the most exploitative sweatshop labor practices is pure fantasy.

More accurate, precise health and nutrition information that doesn’t just rely on weight as our lone health indicator. More accessible spaces for people with disabilities, pregnant people, people of all sizes."
But weight is never the "lone health indicator." It is, however, an incredibly significant indicator of and precursor for a host of health problems, and losing weight can help reverse, or at least manage those conditions. Pretending that being obese has no effect on your health is, again, pure fantasy. And I'll bet this sad landwhale already has health conditions she doesn't want to admit are the result of her obesity.
 
I just looked into this woman a couple of weeks ago, because I was considering doing a thread on her. I decided not to because she isn't that noteworthy tbh. She pretty much spouts the same bullshit you hear from anyone else in the movement. She likes to pretend she's some invincible, anonymous martyr for muh fat acceptance, but she isn't very good at it. She's posted about her location several times, and one of the first people she followed on Twitter is a close IRL friend.

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Identity
Name: Aubrey Gavin Harrison
Alias: Your Fat Friend / YrFatFriend
DOB: 11/09/1983
Location: 4017 NE 28th Ave, Portland, OR, 97212
Employment: Director of Oregon Voice
Education: Bachelor in Gender Studies - Brown University (lmfao)

Your Fat Friend / YrFatFriend Activity
https://linktr.ee/yrfatfriend - archive
https://www.yourfatfriend.com - archive
https://twitter.com/yrfatfriend - archive
https://www.patreon.com/yrfatfriend - archive
https://www.facebook.com/yrfatfriend - archive
https://www.instagram.com/yrfatfriend - archive 1 - archive 2
https://medium.com/@thefatshadow - archive

IRL Internet Activity
https://www.facebook.com/aubrey.harrison - archive
https://www.instagram.com/cathect (locked)
https://www.linkedin.com/in/aubreyh - archive
https://statevoices.org/state-tables/oregon/ - archive
http://oregonvoice.org/staff/ - archive
 
^Omg, could this bitch be more predictable?

And imagine paying $200K to major in mendacious speculation, whining, and data fabrication. Also now I see why her "thin friend" is likely more successful and makes more money than she does; does the friend happen to have a degree in something practical and specialized? But let's just accuse everyone of being biased and discriminatory instead. Disingenuous as fuck!

And ugh, her big fat meatball head. It's punchable.

Edit: Here's another picture of her from 2009:

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It's rich when people who choose to work for unnecessary nonprofits lament that they have no money.
 
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I just looked into this woman a couple of weeks ago, because I was considering doing a thread on her. I decided not to because she isn't that noteworthy tbh. She pretty much spouts the same bullshit you hear from anyone else in the movement. She likes to pretend she's some invincible, anonymous martyr for muh fat acceptance, but she isn't very good at it. She's posted about her location several times, and one of the first people she followed on Twitter is a close IRL friend.

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Identity
Name: Aubrey Gavin Harrison
Alias: Your Fat Friend / YrFatFriend
DOB: 11/09/1983
Location: 4017 NE 28th Ave, Portland, OR, 97212
Employment: Director of Oregon Voice
Education: Bachelor in Gender Studies - Brown University (lmfao)

Your Fat Friend / YrFatFriend Activity
https://linktr.ee/yrfatfriend - archive
https://www.yourfatfriend.com - archive
https://twitter.com/yrfatfriend - archive
https://www.patreon.com/yrfatfriend - archive
https://www.facebook.com/yrfatfriend - archive
https://www.instagram.com/yrfatfriend - archive 1 - archive 2
https://medium.com/@thefatshadow - archive

IRL Internet Activity
https://www.facebook.com/aubrey.harrison - archive
https://www.instagram.com/cathect (locked)
https://www.linkedin.com/in/aubreyh - archive
https://statevoices.org/state-tables/oregon/ - archive
http://oregonvoice.org/staff/ - archive
LOL. So she went to Brown (fucking Brown!) for a degree that will only get her hired by nonprofits--and even then, she'll never rise to the best-paying jobs in that sector, which often go to people with degrees and experience in business, finance, or law (because they know how to actually run shit, or at least keep the money flowing in).

Unless she has very wealthy parents who footed the bill for her college indoctrination (and I don't sense she does--they're probably typical ultra-liberal Boomers who have all kinds of principles, but who suck at making and investing money), her fat ass is absolutely swamped by student loan debt, and the steadily compounding interest thereof. But she's never going to get out of nonprofits with a BA in Gender Studies, which means she's never going to have any money, ever. She's never going to get advantageous financing on a new car--not because she's fat, but because she's deeply-indebted and modestly paid.

Yeah, I can see why she's so bitter about her "sellout" skinnybitch former friend who got a useful (or at least not actively toxic) degree, and is now making $200K/year, and who got tired of her self-pitying shit.
 
"Your thinness took your ability to believe me, and people who look like me. It stole away with your ability to identify and believe the bias we face — the bias that lives in those around you. It took the fullness of the world around you, reduced it only to those who look like you, quietly and passively erasing the rest of us."

I doubt it was her thinness that "took away" anything. My money is on age, experience, and growing maturity enabling her to see that some people really are the creators and sustainers of their own goddamned misery, and that fighting the good SJW fight for somebody who routinely makes poor choices and blames everyone else for the shitty outcomes of those choices is a losing game.

God, it always comes down to "I want more cute, cheap clothes, just like the skinny girls get!" with these bitches. But if she knew a single goddamned thing about the process of designing, manufacturing, and marketing clothes, she'd know that making plus-size clothes that are cute, varied, affordable, and that don't depend upon the most exploitative sweatshop labor practices is pure fantasy.

But weight is never the "lone health indicator." It is, however, an incredibly significant indicator of and precursor for a host of health problems, and losing weight can help reverse, or at least manage those conditions. Pretending that being obese has no effect on your health is, again, pure fantasy. And I'll bet this sad landwhale already has health conditions she doesn't want to admit are the result of her obesity.

I’m amazed by people who tell me that MY size is creating their problems with being fat. My thinness has taken away their ability to find clothes that fit and comfortable airline seats. It wasn’t caused by them eating 3500 calories a day, it was caused by me NOT doing that. Incredible.
 
No one official (to my knowledge). In her hauls she always talks about being sexy and insinuate that she's getting some, but in her vlog-type videos she comes across as very insecure and kinda lost in regards to dating.
On her old weightloss blog I remember her talking about a date that ended with a mutual agreement to stay friends. Generally a lot about online dating. She also talks about her interactions with a feeder (2013).

But I can just recommend these vlogs where she talks about having an actual relationship with an actual human being who doesn't just like her for her online persona:

I'm getting super legbeard vibes from this one..

tldw: no sex happens, just a lot of feels

Although timestamped to the dating part, the rest is also very interesting: "I don't like taking selfies at events"

On her old blog she also has those fanfiction-esque write ups about being a liberated strong woman soo make of that what you will. also, this one.

Interesting. Glitter is just a blonde version of our cow Chantal with the crucial difference of having a rich daddy. I’ve thought this before but reading these old blogs confirms it.

Glitter thinks she’s hot shit (comments on how pretty she is) and you get the impression that she believe the only thing standing between her and model status is just that pesky 350 lbs - just like Chantal.

I think if Glitter didn’t have Daddy paying for a NYC apt she’d be staring in some little crappy flat with a African dude trying to get a visa and binging on Arby’s. She basically lives Chantal’s life only dad pays for her to live it in NYC in her own flat.

Wonder if Chantal follows Glitter on IG? She probably hates Glitter because she’s a envious bitch who’s even jealous of Al ffs.
 
New video by Anna. She goes on a rant about sizing. She looks and sounds horrible. The fact that she is still sick, should be a wake up call to lose weight and get her life together.

I live for how angry she gets when clothes don’t fit her. Anna is still claiming to be a size 22/24 even though she’s gained a massive amount of weight. When she measured the size ‘26’ skirt with the measuring tape, the measurements were that of the 22/24 which were nowhere near to fitting her. Whatever she was trying to prove with that whole segment, she ended up admitting that sizes 22/24 no longer fit her.
 
It's cruel that brands even make clothes for death fatties out of such thin material like that gray jumpsuit. Anna looks like an industrial-sized sack of cement. Ffs I can see the cellulite on her gunt through it.

And I feel bad about her friend with cancer. That's just fucking sad.

I don't think the manufacturers anticipated someone trying to wear it as tight as a sausage casing. They expected a 250 pound woman to wear it, so the fabrics would not have been stretched to fuck all in order for her to squeeze into it and it therefore wouldn't display every dimple, lump, roll and wave present on the body. That fucking jumpsuit is in danger of exploding off of her.

On a somewhat related note since we are talking about "fatshion" but are you the one who mentioned that Marianne Kirby is all but disabled now to a bad knee that has osteoarthritis? If so can you point me to places where she's spoken about it? I haven't got the magic search combo figured out or it's been deleted or behind a privacy wall.
 
^Omg, could this bitch be more predictable?

And imagine paying $200K to major in mendacious speculation, whining, and data fabrication. Also now I see why her "thin friend" is likely more successful and makes more money than she does; does the friend happen to have a degree in something practical and specialized? But let's just accuse everyone of being biased and discriminatory instead. Disingenuous as fuck!

And ugh, her big fat meatball head. It's punchable.

Edit: Here's another picture of her from 2009:

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It's rich when people who choose to work for unnecessary nonprofits lament that they have no money.
I love her sign, though. “I’m changing the world by letting other people do it. I do that by giving them my personal blessing as a white woman.”
 
Read this article if you want to rip your hair out: What your thinness takes from you: What a culture of anti-fatness takes from people who don’t wear plus sizes

"Suddenly, my hot mouth overflowed. I told you that I wouldn’t get the same deal — fat people rarely do. I told you that the last time we’d gone to the buffet near our old office, I’d eaten half as much as you, but been charged double. I told you that when you were surprised with a major raise during your last review, I’d been denied even a cost of living adjustment. I told you that even if you didn’t want special treatment, your size and your looks invited you into a different world — one that mine wouldn’t allow me to enter."

Why would a person be charged double for a buffet with a fixed price?

"In that world, we work together for outcomes that serve both of us: more comfortable airline seats. More clothing options for all sizes, more standardized sizing, and more affordable clothing made by fairly compensated workers. More accurate, precise health and nutrition information that doesn’t just rely on weight as our lone health indicator. More accessible spaces for people with disabilities, pregnant people, people of all sizes."

So you want quality clothing in sizes ranging from 00 to infinity made by well-compensated workers...but you don't want to pay more, lol. And people like you typically scoff at other true measures of health like blood pressure, cholesterol, blood glucose, waist circumference, cardiovascular fitness, etc. anyway since "health is not a moral imperative"--unless, of course, you have "perfect blood work," which you then brag about as if you're an exemplary fit fatty.
:spudking:>More accurate, precise health and nutrition information
As if she really gives a damn about nutrition, or as if any doctor can upend the entire concept and declare that a box of Dunkin Donuts and a Starbucks coffeeshake contain the same body-repairing nutrients as a balanced meal.

I know somebody morbidly obese IRL who got some kind of severe nutritional deficiency due to going months without eating a fresh fruit or vegetable, but at least she never pretended to have a healthy diet. I don't understand how that is even possible. Don't believe the >300lbers when they act like they have the healthiest diet ever, because they probably are the same way.
 
Wait back the fuck up, she got charged double at a buffet for being FAT? How does that work, does the restaurant have a scale installed at the door? Seriously, at least try harder with your Stdh.txt stories. That’s just absurd.

(Edit: sorry didn’t see you wrote about the fixed price too)

The most telling part of that article is at the bottom. “The author has chosen not to show responses to this article.” Yeah, disable those comments like a brave warrior!
I've seen this firsthand with a deathfat coworker. Our group went to a chinese buffet owned by chinese immigrants, and he proceeded to not only bring 6 plates staked dangerously high with food back to the table, he also went up to the sushi bar, took an entire pan of fresh crab, and put the ENTIRE thing on his plate. He got charged double, and when he contested the bill, the chinese owner stared at him and screamed "YOU FAT MAN, EAT ALL SUSHI, YOU PAY DOUBLE FAT MAN NO COME BACK".

It was fucking hilarious.
 
I've seen this firsthand with a deathfat coworker. Our group went to a chinese buffet owned by chinese immigrants, and he proceeded to not only bring 6 plates staked dangerously high with food back to the table, he also went up to the sushi bar, took an entire pan of fresh crab, and put the ENTIRE thing on his plate. He got charged double, and when he contested the bill, the chinese owner stared at him and screamed "YOU FAT MAN, EAT ALL SUSHI, YOU PAY DOUBLE FAT MAN NO COME BACK".

It was fucking hilarious.
That sounds incredible

But yeah I don’t see how she would be charged double for taking “half as much” as her skinny friend. Probably she got the buffet and also ordered some other thing off the menu and then whined that she should only have to pay what her friend paid, because she “didn’t eat as much.”

If she was emptying a pan of crab into her purse as well, then good on them for charging double.
 
That sounds incredible

But yeah I don’t see how she would be charged double for taking “half as much” as her skinny friend. Probably she got the buffet and also ordered some other thing off the menu and then whined that she should only have to pay what her friend paid, because she “didn’t eat as much.”

If she was emptying a pan of crab into her purse as well, then good on them for charging double.
Keep in mind, this is a fatty fat saying "I only ate half as much". Fattys will claim they became 600lbs on a 2000 calorie diet, that they eat healthy while stuffing pizza down their throat, and have no concept of modesty. When she claims she ate half as much, the rest of the world likely saw a fat person that was stuffing her face for over an hour straight.
 
I've seen this firsthand with a deathfat coworker. Our group went to a chinese buffet owned by chinese immigrants, and he proceeded to not only bring 6 plates staked dangerously high with food back to the table, he also went up to the sushi bar, took an entire pan of fresh crab, and put the ENTIRE thing on his plate. He got charged double, and when he contested the bill, the chinese owner stared at him and screamed "YOU FAT MAN, EAT ALL SUSHI, YOU PAY DOUBLE FAT MAN NO COME BACK".

It was fucking hilarious.
I love Chinese buffets they don't play around, Chinese people are used to people trying to get over them when they lived in China. They are born into a culture of grifters, they have been molded to sniff out bullshit. You eat a whole pan of crab legs, you're paying for it. You stay for 4 hours, they'll charge for lunch and dinner buffet. Chinese people are great. You're story reminds me of this classic, as well.

 
:spudking:>More accurate, precise health and nutrition information
As if she really gives a damn about nutrition, or as if any doctor can upend the entire concept and declare that a box of Dunkin Donuts and a Starbucks coffeeshake contain the same body-repairing nutrients as a balanced meal.

I know somebody morbidly obese IRL who got some kind of severe nutritional deficiency due to going months without eating a fresh fruit or vegetable, but at least she never pretended to have a healthy diet. I don't understand how that is even possible. Don't believe the >300lbers when they act like they have the healthiest diet ever, because they probably are the same way.
They usually have impeccable logic like saying they ate an apple so it offsets the fact that the rest of their diet during the day is absolute trash. How about those that eat a very basic "salad" consisting of mostly iceberg lettuce drowning in half a bottle of ranch?

They are usually clueless about nutrition, in denial or simply secret eaters.
 
Read this article if you want to rip your hair out: What your thinness takes from you: What a culture of anti-fatness takes from people who don’t wear plus sizes

"Suddenly, my hot mouth overflowed. I told you that I wouldn’t get the same deal — fat people rarely do. I told you that the last time we’d gone to the buffet near our old office, I’d eaten half as much as you, but been charged double. I told you that when you were surprised with a major raise during your last review, I’d been denied even a cost of living adjustment. I told you that even if you didn’t want special treatment, your size and your looks invited you into a different world — one that mine wouldn’t allow me to enter."

Why would a person be charged double for a buffet with a fixed price?

"In that world, we work together for outcomes that serve both of us: more comfortable airline seats. More clothing options for all sizes, more standardized sizing, and more affordable clothing made by fairly compensated workers. More accurate, precise health and nutrition information that doesn’t just rely on weight as our lone health indicator. More accessible spaces for people with disabilities, pregnant people, people of all sizes."

So you want quality clothing in sizes ranging from 00 to infinity made by well-compensated workers...but you don't want to pay more, lol. And people like you typically scoff at other true measures of health like blood pressure, cholesterol, blood glucose, waist circumference, cardiovascular fitness, etc. anyway since "health is not a moral imperative"--unless, of course, you have "perfect blood work," which you then brag about as if you're an exemplary fit fatty.
The defeatism is REAL! Whoever wrote this talks like they were born to be fa t and there's no possible way they could ever change so why bother and when they blame society for keeping them down they never try not because "society" wont let them but because they're so afraid of failure that they'd rather blame society for their shortcomings than face the personal demons in the mirror and put up a fucking FIGHT! Why should society accommodate this behavior? To spare feeling so fragile they shatter with the slightest pressure applied? What does that do for the people who make the best of themselves like the friend this writer is bitter at for being the champion of her life? What does it do for the fat fucks who wont get their shit together because nothing is their fault? That kind of world is worse for everyone involved.
 
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