Lolcow Andrew Peter Carlson / Anaiah Carlson / Tamarlover / Xtamarlover - Jewish/Christian Wannabe Cult Leader, Stalker, Ugly af, dogfucker, mayor of spitsville

Libel is a serious accusation. Have you contacted a lawyer?

Not worth a legal pursuit for many reasons. Its all good. As for the comment made to me to stick to my own thread, i would do that but i was mentioned in this thread directly. I made a comment and someone asked a question so i politely answered it. Feel free to waste time here with this cow to your content. What i said was not intended as a derailment but a minor interjection responding to the reference made to me.

People who want to fuck animals should be thrown to animals to be eaten by them

People who fuck animals should be executed. People who want to fuck animals should be given mental evaluation for their sanity.

Update about my life. I started really hating my old job. So i quit eight days ago and did not give two weeks notice. I was there for 15 months. I just started my new job last sunday. Its a temp to hire job. Im working now at a warehouse job. Doing the overnight shift. Making 12.25 an hour now.
 
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Not worth a legal pursuit for many reasons. Its all good. As for the comment made to me to stick to my own thread, i would do that but i was mentioned in this thread directly. I made a comment and someone asked a question so i politely answered it. Feel free to waste time here with this cow to your content. What i said was not intended as a derailment but a minor interjection responding to the reference made to me.
So you got nothing and your libel accusation is just bullshit. Got it.
 
So you got nothing and your libel accusation is just bullshit. Got it.
Nada. Some fights arent worth it. Unless lots of money could be won which it cant theres not much point

Well done getting a great job despite leaving your previous employer in such a way that getting a good reference would prove tricky!

Yeah I probably screwed my chances for a good reference. Though at least up till september they would have given me a good reference. Things started getting iffy at the job in october. My responsibilities started being taken away without explanation and they started being more impatient and harsh with me. Not saying i didnt do anything wrong at the job but they left me in the dark as to what they were punishing me for. They also had a terrible work policy like you cant have your phone in your pocket, and when there was traffic and i called to say i was late, they wrote me up.

Anyways plenty of stuff i didnt like about the old job. I am glad i have a new job i dont have to stare at a computer screen the whole day and do physical labor a look little. Definitely feels like work. My legs are still getting used to it. Also the overnight shift works better for me i think.
 
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Yeah I probably screwed my chances for a good reference. Though at least up till september they would have given me a good reference. Things started getting iffy at the job in october. My responsibilities started being taken away without explanation and they started being more impatient and harsh with me. Not saying i didnt do anything wrong at the job but they left me in the dark as to what they were punishing me for. They also had a terrible work policy like you cant have your phone in your pocket, and when there was traffic and i called to say i was late, they wrote me up.

Anyways plenty of stuff i didnt like about the old job. I am glad i have a new job i dont have to stare at a computer screen the whole day and do physical labor a look little. Definitely feels like work. My legs are still getting used to it. Also the overnight shift works better for me i think.

So would you mind making a long post about what you have learned throughout this process? I want to hear the details of you transforming from lolcow to a productive member of society.
 
Are you still with your girlfriend?

Yes thats going well/ok. I would say our relationship is a 6 or 7.

I was working 2nd shift for six months and that was good for our relationship at first but in the last few months its been harming the relationship somewhat. So now i am third shift i can do more things with my girlfriend again finally.

So would you mind making a long post about what you have learned throughout this process? I want to hear the details of you transforming from lolcow to a productive member of society.

When I was more extreme in my religious beliefs as well as my religious way of life, it led me to be interested in more extreme religious people. in a process that started in 2015, I started becoming less extreme religiously, and my religious beliefs started becoming more in line with society. I decided in 2017 around August I wanted to pursue someone nonreligious at my job and that's where I met my current girlfriend. So someone non religious being the object of my pursuit, it has encouraged me to compromise on things or to rethink things I formerly took for granted, and be less extreme. I won't say that I have zero feelings for Melinda/Tamar anymore, but I no longer feel like I need her anymore, and she's doing fine without me it seems, and I am doing fine without her, and we aren't good together, and I found someone who I am happy with, and I see my desperation was weak and pathetic. I also see how my life goals are incompatible with Melinda, and that to meet my societal goals, it makes the most sense to conform with society in ways I am able to do so with my conscience. having a job, saving up money, planning for my future and a possible family some day with my girlfriend has made me rethink my priorities and how I want to live my life. I think the stalking stuff I did was an important part of my growth and journey and experience. Not to justify or excuse it, but it was a definite learning experience of how bad things can get when you go crazy over someone. I also want to be able to get a good paying job and I learned that if I do stupid stuff and talk about it online I'll hurt my chances of success and harm my reputation. Certainly there's parts of me that miss the stalking stuff, and I still keep tabs on her occasionally, but not in a creepy way. Just checking up on her from a distance more out of curiosity. But I am no longer pursuing Melinda, and no longer talking with her. My protective order ends in February and my hope is that she will not renew the protective order since I have been leaving her alone for a year now. There is a hidden desire of if my girlfriend were to break up with me, part of me wants to use Tamar as a crutch, but I am now strong enough to resist that urge and desire and realize that that is a foolish thing to do and not what is good for me. So sometimes we can't get what we want, and we just have to move on. So I am the better off for it for moving on from her. Thats the basic gist of it I think.
 
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Let it be known that despite me having nothing to do with Melinda Scott in the last 12 months, and me leaving her alone 100%, she has once again sued me and Null randomly in November of 2018, out of nowhere. The case was dismissed on the same day it was filed. I only found out about it today because although she initiated the lawsuit in November, it was only filed and dismissed 2 days ago.

She wants $200,000 from me and Null, $100,000 each.

Last time she sued me was more than a year ago. Just seems odd she would sue me and Null randomly. Apparently though some of her neighbors recently read about her legal issues online so that may be the reason. At any rate just thought id keep the fam updated.

Honestly i just want this Melinda drama shit to be over. I am so over her. Apparently she doesnt want this to be over. To her i say Damn it, bitch, you won your fight to get me out of your life. I'm out of your life. Stop trying to bring me back into it. Move on and let me live my life free of you. Unless you want me back in your life, be careful what you wish for.
 
Let it be known that despite me having nothing to do with Melinda Scott in the last 12 months, and me leaving her alone 100%, she has once again sued me and Null randomly in November of 2018, out of nowhere. The case was dismissed on the same day it was filed. I only found out about it today because although she initiated the lawsuit in November, it was only filed and dismissed 2 days ago.

She wants $200,000 from me and Null, $100,000 each.

Last time she sued me was more than a year ago. Just seems odd she would sue me and Null randomly. Apparently though some of her neighbors recently read about her legal issues online so that may be the reason. At any rate just thought id keep the fam updated.

Honestly i just want this Melinda drama shit to be over. I am so over her. Apparently she doesnt want this to be over. To her i say Damn it, bitch, you won your fight to get me out of your life. I'm out of your life. Stop trying to bring me back into it. Move on and let me live my life free of you. Unless you want me back in your life, be careful what you wish for.
The saddest thing is that we've seen you be the victim of this malignant narcissist. I never thought I'd see that happen. Chill, though, as @A Name But Backwards is saying, she wants your attention. She's a typical frivolous litigant as far as I can tell.
 
I'd chill out on the threatening language but you make a good point. I wonder why she now seems to want attention from you and @Null?

I have a feeling it has less to do with attention and everything to do with money. She might be deluded enough to think she can win in court, or she's hoping someone will get spooked and agree to an out of court settlement.
 
I can't reply on the other thread. But I just wanted to say that although I am not a legal expert, to me it doesn't make sense to say that a judge cannot dismiss a case unless the defendant files a motion to dismiss. A judge does not need the defense to file a motion to dismiss when the facts are overwhelmingly clear. The main reason the judge seeks to have the defendant file a motion for his own defense is because it is overwhelming and time consuming to try to fully argue both sides, and the Judge is not fully informed of all the facts, so gives time for the defendant to defend themselves in case the plaintiff has misrepresented facts, or the defendant brings key things of relevance to his attention that was previously unknown. If the judge already has enough evidence from the outset that overwhelmingly proves that the lawsuit is not valid, he does not have to wait for the defense. It is the judge's decision whether a case has merit or not. Typically, a judge doesn't want to rush to judgment for fear of being wrong or too quick to presume. But in this case, he has already ruled with her on similar cases with similar rulings, so being familiar with the facts, he can easily assess the legitimacy or lack thereof of her lawsuits.

Also it should be noted, in her previous lawsuit to this one, she was told that because she has done lawsuits so often, he will no longer treat her as being inexperienced with legal proceedings, since he has instructed her what to do on many occasions. http://www.vawd.uscourts.gov/OPINIONS/JONES/2-18cv00045.pdf

Key excerpts from the previous opinion issued by James Jones in the previous lawsuit:
"Melinda Scott, a frequent pro se litigant in this court, has submitted an application to file a civil action without prepaying fees or costs."

and

"While I will permit the filing of the action without prepayment of fees and costs, I will dismiss it, both because Ms. Scott cannot represent her minor child and because the allegations fail to support a cause of action. While a pro se litigant is not held to the standard of an attorney in pleading, Ms. Scott has considerable experience in her prior court filings to understand the necessity of pleading facts. While she asserts some details of various alleged instances of harassment by other tenants, she alleges no facts that would impose responsibility on the housing authority for such harassment. I will also direct the Clerk to file the Complaint and related documents under seal, since Ms. Scott has stated her minor child’s full name in those pleadings, rather than the child’s initials, in violation of Federal Rule of Civil Procedure 5.2(a)"

Also to correct false things stated: first of all, Melinda is not my ex wife. She is an ex friend, and we were very close almost best friends, though she feels differently with hindsight. She expressed great romantic interest in me at one point, including strong possibility of marriage according to her. However, we were never in an actual relationship beyond unofficial courting (we were never boyfriend and girlfriend). Another thing is that to be clear, she doesn't have to pay any money for all these lawsuits, that's the problem. By allowing her to file without paying, he enables her to do all these many lawsuits for free. If it actually cost her money to do the lawsuits she probably would stop doing them. But he doesn't want to break the law by violating her rights to file just because she's annoying. So he is trying to be very careful and he'd rather just allow her to not pay and just dismiss than to deal with a lawsuit for not allowing her to not pay lol.

Here's a vid response I did to the most recent lawsuit from Melinda. If its too long for you but you want to watch it still, try watching at 1.5x or even 2x; should still be easy to understand since I generally talk slow anyways, so speeding it up 2x will be understandable.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FkjchzIYCWI
 
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I noticed my thread posts were combined into one post. I would do that myself but i am unable to edit my posts here and I am blocked from commenting on many threads.

I did want to reply to something else being discussed in the melinda thread. I know for a fact she has been involved in over 30 court cases. 9 in the federal court, and over 20 in general and circuit courts, in at least 8 different virginia state districts. Also she made a comment in 2017 that i had tracked all her court cases in the state of virginia. Note she said in state of virginia. So that leads me to think she has done other court cases in other places. And she has lived in other states like Georgia in the past. So it could be well over 40. But definitely at least 30 different court cases.
 
I just found out that the lawsuit she did against me back in 2017 got cited by another judge, Judge Moon, back in October 2017 lol. Funny. The exact citation is on the third page i screenshot below.
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