Your Role As A Girl
Since you, the girl, are not the one wearing diapers, you can optimize your ways of emphasizing and exploiting these differences between yourself and your diaper boy. You might think that being fully in charge of changing your diaper boy’s diapers and ensuring that he stays in them and uses them at all times is enough. You might also think that being able to remain dressed throughout the day and wearing a much, much thinner amount of material around your waist, not to mention being able to use the toilet any time you need to use it, would clearly make the distinction that illustrates your idea of what makes boys and girls different. You might relish the fact that you still enjoy many freedoms and choices that your diaper boy does not have because he wears diapers. That is all true indeed. However, there are ways you can make these differences between you and your diaper boy even more pronounced. It is your duty to constantly remind your diaper boy of what he is and what you are, so you have a role of your own to fulfill in this all-important and ongoing objective.
Pants and Shorts
Since you don’t wear diapers, you have the choice to wear pants and shorts. Your diaper boy is well aware of this. Make it a point to remind him of this. This doesn’t necessarily mean to go around all the time and say “Ha ha! I got pants on and you don’t!” though this works well at the beginning. Wear pants or shorts that accent your absence of diapers. Tight-fitting jeans and shorts will make the contours of your buttocks stand out. Just as your diaper boy’s butt is the most prominent part of his body, he is going to look at yours, too. Let him see that your pants conform to the shape of your derriere and that there is clearly nothing that bulges out from this point. Make him well aware of the fact that you can be trusted to wear so little over your butt and remain clean.
Boys who are approaching sexual maturity or are past this stage are naturally attracted to girls and they find their rear ends to be attractive and will therefore stare at them. Since they are behind you where you can’t see where they are looking, boys will take advantage of this convenience that serves their hormones well. Girls know this and they use it to their advantage as well. They know that their rear ends are not looked at as the part of their bodies from which feces emerge, but rather, as something that will make boys horny. So girls will wear pants and shorts that accentuate this feature of their bodies.
What does this have to do with diapers and boys? It further differentiates the thoughts that he gets from looking at your butt from the thoughts that you get from looking at his butt. Also, by making yourself look more sexually attractive, this teases the boys and it may tempt them to deviate from their thoughts about diapers and instead think about sex. Once a boy comes to the realization that he can never get his diapers off in order to fulfill these thoughts, he will revert to thinking about the diapers to which his sexual feelings are far more attuned and he will channel his feelings that originated with thoughts about you back into his diapers.
When to Wear Pants or Shorts
Your choice of wearing pants or shorts will likely depend on the weather. Both serve to remind your diaper boy of the fact that he cannot wear them. Each has its advantages. Pants (that is, long pants) make a greater contrast against your diaper boy in that your legs are covered and his legs are not. Most pants, especially jeans, are either blue or black, which of course contrasts starkly against the screaming white of his diapers. Shorts, of course, expose your legs just like his are exposed. The fact that you are wearing less may increase his sexual temptation, which will ultimately be channeled back into his diapers. When wearing shorts his eyes will more likely be drawn to the parts of your body that are not covered in diapers, but on his body are.
Your Fashion Conscience
Girls are fashion conscious by nature. Use this to your advantage. Let your diaper boy know about all the latest fashions that you are wearing, especially where your pants are concerned. Let him know that you have a choice of what to wear when you get dressed in the morning. To him, the concept of “getting dressed” should become foreign to him, since he is pretty much fully dressed by being in his diapers and nothing but his diapers, morning to night.
Swimsuits and Bikinis
If you really want to make your diaper boy think a lot about himself as a boy and his inability to remain clean, wear a swimsuit or a bikini around him. Swimsuits especially accentuate the butt. Your diaper boy will look at you here and think about how you can keep this area so clean and be able to nearly show it off bare. He knows that he would never be able to do this himself if he wanted to. Swimsuits are also a good way to increase the tension in sexually mature boys only for them to fall back on their tried-and-true feelings about diapers.
Your Sleepwear
Just as you get dressed in the morning, at night you get ready for bed. To your diaper boy, this activity is no longer applicable to his life. Your diaper boy’s “sleepwear” is the same as his daywear, diapers! In theory, he’s “ready for bed” at any time of the day. You, however, have a choice here as well. You can wear pajamas or a nightshirt. If you wear a nightshirt you should probably use discretion towards letting him see your panties. If you are comfortable with it, let him catch a glimpse or two just so he can see that your underwear is much more modest and not nearly as massive as his is. You could also simply remain fully dressed until it is time for you to get ready for bed, especially if you sleep in your panties or sleep nude. (You’d NEVER let a boy sleep naked, now would you?!)
Pictures
Just as you can use pictures of diapered boys from the Internet to remind your diaper boy of his existence as a boy, there is also an abundance of pictures of girls on the Internet, modeling everything from swimwear to jeans. These pictures are perfectly legal and are not in any way pornographic. Many of these pictures can be found on modeling sites. Encourage your diaper boy to look at these pictures, too, as they will also serve as a strong reminder to him how little clothing girls can wear, something that they could never do if they had to wear diapers.
Modesty and Privacy
Modesty is a one-way street when it comes to how open you are about letting your diaper boy see you in compromising states of dress, versus how you see him in his diapers. Your diaper boy’s sense of modesty should be completely eradicated once he has become accustomed to you seeing him in his diapers. As suggested earlier, he doesn’t even need the door to his bedroom. It’s not like he should be afraid of you barging in on him while he’s in his underwear. When you think about it, he’s ALWAYS IN HIS UNDERWEAR! You see him naked when you change his diapers, so there is no such thing as modesty as far as he is concerned. Your diaper boy may have some other privacy concerns, however, which will be addressed further down.
As for you, the girl, modesty should be irreciprocal, that is, he should still respect your privacy, but you need not respect his, at least as far as seeing him in his diapers is concerned. Even though you see him in his “underwear” all the time, you shouldn’t let him see you in yours. Don’t let him see you naked, either. To do this only moves you closer to being on an equal plane with him. By only letting him see you in decent clothing, this further differentiates you from your diaper boy and the fact that he has to wear nothing but diapers all the time.