Secret Gamer Girl / SecretGamerGrrl / Googleshng / "Violet Hargrave" / Jacob Lawrence (Jake) Alley / Violet Cassandra Ocean - Delusional Zoe Quinn Stalker, Libelous Tweeter, Thirsty Gnome, Faux-Tranny Neckbeard Incel, Micropenis, "Known Troubled Person", Creator of "Massive vs the Masses", Self-Described "Noise Making Thing"; Lives in Niantic, CT

I know solipsism is par for course around these parts but he's claiming trans women, as a group, are more concerned about internet bullies than their male-sexed bodies. even the loudest, most clueless feminist activists don't say things like "women care more about internet harassment than their self-image, just ask my twitter friends", and if they did they'd be rightfully savaged as idiotic, bougie, out of touch, etc.

if he didn't take take 10 tweets to make a simple point, I think he'd be better known on twitter if only as a laughingstock, because he comes up with such boneheaded shit and none of his allies want to deal with the blow back of mildly criticizing him. his circuitousness is a form of protection in that way, consciously or not.
 
Jake and Wu can form the “deplatform William Shatner for making fun of us on the online” coalition.
Wu claims to be an expert in everything including as an investigative journalist. Jake is just as full of shit as Wu but his puddle is less wide at least.
Jake is way more of a putz than Wu. Jake got his threads on talking time listed as “opinion as fact” because of his baseless sperging. At least Wu can link an article before misinterpreting it.
if he didn't take take 10 tweets to make a simple point, I think he'd be better known on twitter if only as a laughingstock, because he comes up with such boneheaded shit and none of his allies want to deal with the blow back of mildly criticizing him. his circuitousness is a form of protection in that way, consciously or not.
Nobody can criticize your writing if they can’t understand it.
 
I'd go with Jake. Wu sometimes reads a Wikipedia article about whatever tech she's bullshitting about. Jake relies entirely on his feelings and his friends to do reporting. They both claim several areas of expertise that they don't back up with any actual skill, but Jake manages to not only get everything wrong, but also often contradict the narrative he's meant to be defending.

You need at least a little knowledge to know that Wu is bullshitting. Anyone with a brain can tell Jake is a fraud - and even some people with only half a brain know enough to ignore 99% of what he says.
Wu claims to be expert in subjects that the layman probably doesn't know an awful lot about, but someone who knows the subject can shoot her down. Jake is ignorant about everything, right down to the basics of adult life. Jake can't even keep his own lies straight.

The trans thing is what I find most baffling of all. It's his entire selling point, the only thing he has to make himself stand out from the legions of would-be game devs and writers. With a five-second Google search, he could come up with reams of information on being trans, people's experiences of being trans, living as a trans woman, medical issues, the psychology of the condition and everything else he could need in order to construct a convincing narrative. But he doesn't. He just pulls a massive Googleshng out of his capacious arse that manages to get everything so incredibly, spectacularly wrong that even the most obsessive TERF would be blown away by how badly this man misrepresents trans women.

I mean, dysphoria is absolutely essential to the status of trans people as a protected minority. The reason there are rules and policies regarding transphobia is because the official story is that trans people cannot help it, they were born that way, and to live as their birth sex is distressing and debilitating to them. And here's Jake basically saying, "Nah, it's fine." Jake is placing being trans on a par with being a punk or a goth, a fashion statement that can be dropped when necessary.
 
Who “hatched” Jake? How did he decide he was trans? It’s like he never grew up because he didn’t have a male role model, and doesn’t know how to be trans because he doesn’t have a AMAB role model. It’s like the only influence he’s ever had on the topic is ranma and kamen rider which aren’t trans characters at all
 
Who “hatched” Jake? How did he decide he was trans?
I was wondering about this when browsing the thread earlier. My theory is that Jake was just always and outcast, someone who clearly didn't fit in. First he latched onto the geek-RPG thing because that crowd probably is slightly more welcoming to weirdo outcasts than other groups and that didn't really work out. One day he found troondom and it offered a simple answer to all his questions/failures: why no job/career, why no friends/partner/hookups? And it provided easy asspats via the safety of creepy-girl-avatar twitter and even some buddies from the CON crowd and a few pity-bucks!!

And he can't let go of things: he can't get over Chelsea eventhough it's been years at this point, he can't get over the whole Soha thing - so he definitely isn't going to give up the only thing that made people talk to him for more than 10 minutes...
 
And it provided easy asspats via the safety of creepy-girl-avatar twitter and even some buddies from the CON crowd and a few pity-bucks!!

And he can't let go of things: he can't get over Chelsea eventhough it's been years at this point,

I think it also got him an "in" with girls, probably for the first time in his life so it's likely not something he would voluntarily give up and as with many trans people they discover that they treated differently than when they were just dudes on the internet. Being approached and treated a women awoke something in them, that what they wanted to be all the time: pampered, special and protected.

Plus. Jake would probably agree that it's supremely rapey if a random Twitter neckbeard who lived with his mom in his 30's constantly tried to slide into some vaguely successful gamer girls DMs or even just contact them out of the blue - but Violet can do things like that, Violet is also hoping to get some gal pals to follow into the bathroom or whatever else it was that he showed interest in.

I've linked the octopus article before, the one where smaller (beta) males impersonated females to sneak past the alphas and hopefully stealth-impregnate the ladies. Not that it applies to this hot mess but it's fun to see that sometimes natures imitates the internet.
 
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Jake wrote an approximately 3,000 tweet long googleshng and it may very well be his most stupid and strained yet. My personal favorite bit is when Jake paints us an image of a "social worker" demanding everyone in the room call Jake a "she."

I'm not American so I'm sorry if this is a stupid question, but why would Jake have a social worker? I thought adults only had them if they had been diagnosed with fairly serious learning disabilities or mental health problems or something similar. Or been in prison, but that's not relevant to him (presumably).
 
I swear I remember something from earlier in this thread about someone in his old gaming hangouts drawing an anime girl based on his posts, and that being a major catalyst for him trooning out. Not sure if I'm mixing him up with another cow or not, though; half of them have nearly identical "anime/games made me trans" stories.
 
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I'm not American so I'm sorry if this is a stupid question, but why would Jake have a social worker? I thought adults only had them if they had been diagnosed with fairly serious learning disabilities or mental health problems or something similar. Or been in prison, but that's not relevant to him (presumably).

He appears to be half-heartedly trying to get on some kind of tard bucks for being a complete loser, with limited success, maybe at the encouragement of his mom who would like him to contribute more to the household than ear-piercing wailing at all hours of the night.
 
Wu claims to be expert in subjects that the layman probably doesn't know an awful lot about, but someone who knows the subject can shoot her down. Jake is ignorant about everything, right down to the basics of adult life. Jake can't even keep his own lies straight.

The trans thing is what I find most baffling of all. It's his entire selling point, the only thing he has to make himself stand out from the legions of would-be game devs and writers. With a five-second Google search, he could come up with reams of information on being trans, people's experiences of being trans, living as a trans woman, medical issues, the psychology of the condition and everything else he could need in order to construct a convincing narrative. But he doesn't. He just pulls a massive Googleshng out of his capacious arse that manages to get everything so incredibly, spectacularly wrong that even the most obsessive TERF would be blown away by how badly this man misrepresents trans women.

I mean, dysphoria is absolutely essential to the status of trans people as a protected minority. The reason there are rules and policies regarding transphobia is because the official story is that trans people cannot help it, they were born that way, and to live as their birth sex is distressing and debilitating to them. And here's Jake basically saying, "Nah, it's fine." Jake is placing being trans on a par with being a punk or a goth, a fashion statement that can be dropped when necessary.

This goes to the heart of why "self-identification" is never going to be a viable plan for trans people.

If you want to say being trans is about being dysphoric, wanting consistently from childhood to be the opposite sex, feeling wrong in your body, all of that stuff, then there's going to have to be some gatekeeping.

You can't have self-ID and say that being trans is about dysphoria or anything else, because it's not, then. If anyone can ID into it for any reason, with no one to check whether you have a specific set of symptoms that validates your condition, then you lose the ability to say "trans people need government-paid cosmetic surgery," or anything else about trans people in general. You also have to accept things like half of trans prisoners being sex offenders.

Is it fun to have to jump through hoops to get your condition acknowledged? Nope. Ask someone with multiple sclerosis or leukemia how fun their diagnostic process was before they could begin treatment. And yet, even though the diagnosis sucks, you can't just obtain treatment for it based on your say-so, or even based on external observation of some basic symptoms that could be those diseases. Mental illnesses and learning disabilities require months of waiting for diagnosis, interviews with teachers and friends (imagine the shitshow if that were a requirement for trans gatekeeping), assessment questionnaires, and so on.

And that gatekeeping is good for people with those conditions, because if all you needed for an ADHD diagnosis was a consent form, every speed freak asshole would give themselves a diagnosis, and before long, everyone would just assume ADHD was code for "amphetamine addict without the social skills for a dealer." Who would this hurt most? The people with "classical" ADHD, whose condition would now be a joke and a much bigger impediment to getting a responsible job. This is already happening in Silicon Valley, because of unscrupulous doctors happy to give Adderall to anyone who talks about feeling spaced-out and distracted after working a 70+ hour week and getting 4 hours of sleep a night.

The people hurt most by self ID are classically-presenting transsexuals. At least when women say our language is being taken away, we have the protection of the fact that most people really are just being polite, and know that "woman" means something about someone's sex. The transsexuals, though, are genuinely going to be lumped in with gnomebeard incels, stocking fetishists, multiple personality freaks, and tampon voyeurs. Very few people will give enough of a rat's ass to think there's a difference. Since I started TERFin' a long time ago, the people I've had my sympathy increase the most for are the transsexuals, who mostly know they're kind of fucked in the head but would just like to be left in peace to be fucked in the head, like most of the rest of us.
 
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I'm not American so I'm sorry if this is a stupid question, but why would Jake have a social worker? I thought adults only had them if they had been diagnosed with fairly serious learning disabilities or mental health problems or something similar. Or been in prison, but that's not relevant to him (presumably).

Nah, pretty much anyone can see a social worker. You don’t have to have a major developmental disability or be a schizophrenic; people go for minor things like family counseling or a kid dealing with ADHD. As @AnOminous points out, Jakey is probably aiming for a tugboat which would require at least seeing a counselor/SW, if not their sign-off- not sure on what Connecticut requires.
 
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