Horrorcow Susan Schofield Cabana, Cory Cabana, & Michael Schofield / Schofield Productions / @bipolarnation - A Tragicomic Tale of Psychiatric Munchausen's by Proxy

California is a dumpster fire infecting this country lol

This is not a "California" problem, but a problem with American social services as a whole. The system is understaffed and underfunded in EVERY state. Family unification is the goal and the desired status quo EVERYWHERE. This could be taking place in Georgia or Ohio or New Mexico or, yes, even Washington and social services would be just as limited in what they could do.

Social workers are overworked and underpaid. I feel a lot of sympathy for them. Usually, these people get into the work for the right reasons (wanting to help kids) and the system prevents them from doing anything meaningful and they get caught up in the red tape. There is SO much legal bullshit social services has go through to do even the most minor of interventions.

There's so much HURR DURR, CALIFORNIA IS DUMB nonsense that derails this thread and demonstrates few people actually know how systems like social services actually run. Easier to blame the boogeyman I guess?

Yes, Michael is deeply concerned about Jani staying alone with Cory. He wanted her to come with but Jani doesn't want to go. What is heartbreaking is that Jani has expressed a desire and excitement to spend time with Cory because "Cory is usually busy with Bodhi." Jani so craves attention that she even wants it from Cory. If Cory cuts and runs, Jani will be devastated.

Ok, this is depressing. I'm glad Michael offered Jani a trip of Minnesota. That's a positive move in my book. But, damn, does it break my heart she'd rather stay with Creepy Cory in The Hovel.

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He already did an episode on Jani, what is there left for him to do? No way he'd eat crow on that unless unless something even more horrible happens to her and someone very publicly goes after him for his failure. Even then he'll just fall back on how he relied on others doctor's diagnosis, Susan fooled everyone for so long, how should I know bullshit. Dr. Phil exists to sell ads to bored mothers and retirees. Any help he provides to people who come on his show is the cost of doing business. Do you think his show would spend $30M on aftercare if it wasn't making a fuckload more than that?
I'm aware of how the show works. I was just asking KeepHopeAlive what, if anything, was said about Jani.
 
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I thought someone mentioned that they would need to have done an MRI sometime previously, then do one now and compare the two to see if brain damage has occurred. Can any helpful medkiwis weigh in? Will one MRI actually show damage in Bohdi?
One MRI can (and probably will) show damage, but the value of repeat imaging is that it can show whether the damage is progressive. If Bodhi had gotten an MRI while he was at UCLA,and I distinctly remember Screechy posting on Facebook that they weren’t able to do this because Bodhi would have to be sedated–which isn’t a reason not to do an MRI, for clarification–that MRI may have shown damage or may not have, and could be compared with an MRI taken now to see whether and where there were structural changes or grey matter loss and how it is different from the earlier MRI.

If @HyggeandHof or any other medical Kiwis want to expand or correct, please feel free! I’m just an EMT and psychology student so I have some knowledge from neuro classes and whatnot.
 
I hope Cory packs a fucking u-haul and leaves while batshit isn't there to stop him. As much as it would hurt Jani, he's not going to suddenly be nice to her. His pride is still very hurt after behaving like an imbecile on Dr. Phil and having his daughter on KF. It seems possible he could snap and take his anger out on Jani.

Hope Jani doesn't "lose" her phone while Susan is away.

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I really wish Michael could do something to get the SZ diagnosis tf off Jani. Google image search for Susan schofield shows tons of images of "jani, the schizo". How unflattering, unfair, and unkind to label her for so long that now even searching her mom's name comes up with nothing but embarrassing labels.
 
Ok, this is depressing. I'm glad Michael offered Jani a trip of Minnesota. That's a positive move in my book. But, damn, does it break my heart she'd rather stay with Creepy Cory in The Hovel.

(:_(

I think part of it is that Susan has scared Jani about the idea of going to Minnesota in 101 ways. Jani lives with Susan, so enraging and “betraying” her by going to Minn is scary because once the visit is over she has to return to angry manic Susan.

Susan has used the kids to force Mike to come to CA by claiming Jani could not possibly travel to visit him. If Jani agreed to go she ruins one of Susan’s tools to try and control Mike. Susan desperately wants to keep Mike in her life and enjoys the drama his visits give her. If all she did was drop Jani off at the airport to meet him she doesn’t get any drama or interaction.

I can’t even fathom the BS Susan has fed to Jani to ensure she is to terrified or worried to ever go visit him. She is a horrible bitch so there is no limit to what lies she would tell Jani to ensure she never wants to visit. But besides all that Jani knows Susan would make her life miserable and resent her if she ever went to visit Mike at his home.

(As for the California stuff, the one bad thing specific to CA is that somehow Susan has managed to get paid to (badly) care for her own kids in addition to staff to bathe, babysit and provide therapy. These services are for kids with actual disabilities, not because Susan can’t arsed to act like a mother. The most they should have provided is parenting classes for Susan and some therapy hours. I’d love to know how she got approved for all those services and wages simply for being a terrible mother who drugs her kids. I promise the mothers in poor neighborhoods with tarded kids aren’t getting 40 hours of state paid babysitting, someone to give their kids bath and a paycheck. )

I hope Cory packs a fucking u-haul and leaves while batshit isn't there to stop him. As much as it would hurt Jani, he's not going to suddenly be nice to her. His pride is still very hurt after behaving like an imbecile on Dr. Phil and having his daughter on KF. It seems possible he could snap and take his anger out on Jani.

Hope Jani doesn't "lose" her phone while Susan is away.

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I really wish Michael could do something to get the SZ diagnosis tf off Jani. Google image search for Susan schofield shows tons of images of "jani, the schizo". How unflattering, unfair, and unkind to label her for so long that now even searching her mom's name comes up with nothing but embarrassing labels.

Susan, and Mike for awhile, never considered how much harm they were doing by publicly promoting their daughter as Anerica’s Littlest Schizo or the craziest little girl in California. All they thought about was themselves, the trouble and inconvenience she caused them and using her to get on TV and sell books. It was easy to use the excuse as being “advocates” and they even tried to turn that into a money maker.

I do wonder how much living with a non-manic, non-fame whore wife and mother has changed Mike’s perceptions. The new baby will provide even more revelations as Mike sees a thousand and one normal baby behaviors that Susan claimed were proof of mental illness when it was only evidence of Susan’s mental illness.

Sadly, Susan’s totally inept mothering, manic behavior and lack of boundaries probably did lead to bad and “out of control” behavior in a young Jani. The strong encouragement of her talking about a fantasy world was looney. The general chaos, constant stimulation and inability to soothe baby Jani was bound to cause disturbed behavior.
 
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So, if I understand this correctly, they didn't receive money from the state while Mike was living with Susan nor did they receive respite works, correct? What/how did Susan manage to get this approved?
 
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(As for the California stuff, the one bad thing specific to CA is that somehow Susan has managed to get paid to (badly) care for her own kids in addition to staff to bathe, babysit and provide therapy. These services are for kids with actual disabilities, not because Susan can’t arsed to act like a mother. The most they should have provided is parenting classes for Susan and some therapy hours. I’d love to know how she got approved for all those services and wages simply for being a terrible mother who drugs her kids. I promise the mothers in poor neighborhoods with tarded kids aren’t getting 40 hours of state paid babysitting, someone to give their kids bath and a paycheck. )

I think Susan did a Munchausen number on her County Worker. Susan probably provoked Bodhi in all the ways she usually does and deprived him of sleep before his county evaluation so he would try to bite everyone and act out the entire time. Not only that, she probably told them he was so violent, tried to throw himself off the balcony, etc., her usual bullshit. They basically go on parent report when a child is mostly nonverbal.

Bodhi probably has a DD waiver, which could be used for things like food therapy, sensory furniture, I even know someone whose DD waiver paid for a safety fence around their yard. Susan could basically get the things Bodhi needs for free.
 
So, if I understand this correctly, they didn't receive money from the state while Mike was living with Susan nor did they receive respite works, correct? What/how did Susan manage to get this approved?

Lying while being a single, jobless mother and getting two kids diagnosed with a laundry list of disabilities/mental illnesses.

50 doctors? Can you imagine all the various Dx resulted from that? I’m sure quite a few fit the criteria for getting free services. Bodhi getting Dx with autism opened up eligibility for all kinds of programs. Susan obviously made his case seem as severe as possible to get maximum services out of it.
 
Seems like the only time she liked getting anything for free for the kids was when it was to exploit the good nature of local businesses and such. She got the swing, lots of stuff from zen bakery, and plenty of other folks tried to help. It was only of use when Susan could get the spotlight on herself, or use the name of the business to get attention.

Free through the state, truly beneficial and therapeutic assistance, is useless for susan because the professionals involved see right through her shit and she can't use to to get attention.
She's been denying actual help for the children since the very beginning with Jani.

eta: recalling how she constantly refers to the helpers as MY ABA, MY THERAPIST, MY RESPITE... it's all for her. SUSAN can't use a swing or a fence or safe furniture, those things are for the children. The people employed by the state are there for susan, so she can get relief. If it doesn't benefit her somehow directly, it's useless.
 
So, if I understand this correctly, they didn't receive money from the state while Mike was living with Susan nor did they receive respite works, correct? What/how did Susan manage to get this approved?

She must be getting State Disability payments, which from what I understand are layer-able: two dependants, both severly disabled requiring 24hr care = the highest disability payout x2. I'm sure she also listed herself and Cory as their main caretakers, meaning she has one, maybe even two more layers to her payout as she definitely told them that Bohdi and Jani's conditions make her (and Cory) unable to work, so disability has to pay for her living expenses as well so the kids don't lose their dedicated main caretakers. She def calculated this.
 
She must be getting State Disability payments, which from what I understand are layer-able: two dependants, both severly disabled requiring 24hr care = the highest disability payout x2. I'm sure she also listed herself and Cory as their main caretakers, meaning she has one, maybe even two more layers to her payout as she definitely told them that Bohdi and Jani's conditions make her (and Cory) unable to work, so disability has to pay for her living expenses as well so the kids don't lose their dedicated main caretakers. She def calculated this.

She could also be a paid caretaker through Medi-cal because it can be a family member. If that's the case then she has to keep any outside income low and wouldn't report things like her youtube money. Then she could use waivers for all the PCA and then private insurance for the "shower people" as she so kindly calls them because they are probably home health aides.
 
A couple of things this morning.

Did anyone catch Screechy's FB post where she asked "Is anyone located near Dallas, TX?" It seems pretty obvious she is looking for a hookup - drugs for Bodhi and/or dick, for Susan. I need to learn how to screenshot things, because it looks like she has taken the post down.

Second, is Susan in fact in Texas now? I want to keep track of her visit and watch the shit show implode. Did Michael also get flown to PNP? He has a much of a right to be there as Screechy.
 
A couple of things this morning.

Did anyone catch Screechy's FB post where she asked "Is anyone located near Dallas, TX?" It seems pretty obvious she is looking for a hookup - drugs for Bodhi and/or dick, for Susan. I need to learn how to screenshot things, because it looks like she has taken the post down.

Second, is Susan in fact in Texas now? I want to keep track of her visit and watch the shit show implode. Did Michael also get flown to PNP? He has a much of a right to be there as Screechy.

I don’t think it’s obvious at all that a post like that indicates she’s looking for drugs or dick, in fact I don’t know why you would assume that.

Susan will be in Texas for two days or so and will have to care for Bodhi by herself when not at PNP. I’d think she’s looking for someone to entertain her and pawn Bodhi off on if nothing else. Susan would not be able to handle 12 hours in a hotel room with Bodhi by herself if she cant drug him into a stupor.
 
I think part of it is that Susan has scared Jani about the idea of going to Minnesota in 101 ways. Jani lives with Susan, so enraging and “betraying” her by going to Minn is scary because once the visit is over she has to return to angry manic Susan.

Susan has used the kids to force Mike to come to CA by claiming Jani could not possibly travel to visit him. If Jani agreed to go she ruins one of Susan’s tools to try and control Mike. Susan desperately wants to keep Mike in her life and enjoys the drama his visits give her. If all she did was drop Jani off at the airport to meet him she doesn’t get any drama or interaction.
You know, I think you're right. I don't think Jani truly cares about "getting attention from Cory" while her mom and Bodhi are gone. I think that she correctly intuits that her mother will be mad at her if she expresses that she wants to visit her dad or, god forbid, acts upon that want. Avoiding the future consequences when she returns to Susan is Jani's priority over any desire she has to spend time with her dad. Such is the reality of the life of a kid with a parent as manipulative as Susan.
 
You know, I think you're right. I don't think Jani truly cares about "getting attention from Cory" while her mom and Bodhi are gone. I think that she correctly intuits that her mother will be mad at her if she expresses that she wants to visit her dad or, god forbid, acts upon that want. Avoiding the future consequences when she returns to Susan is Jani's priority over any desire she has to spend time with her dad. Such is the reality of the life of a kid with a parent as manipulative as Susan.

Kids that live with abusive parents main concern in life is not angering the abusive parent. An abusive parent to a kid is pretty much an angry god who has total control of almost every aspect of their life. Keeping “the god” happy or at least not angry at them is always the number one priority, everything else a distant second.
 
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