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View attachment 677079r/MtF - “If we didn’t love you, we would have left you in Colorado!”
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Seems to me that mother was trying to reinforce that they did love him using the fact that they cared for him for the last ~20 years of his life, but predictably they morph it into a woe is me pity party on the basis of could'ves and might'ves.
I love the coming out stories where they expect everyone is just gonna fall to the floor on their knees praising how courageous they are! Humans are creatures of habit and notoriously resistant to change??? You don't just drop this on someone and expect all of them to brush it off like no big deal. It's not just 'oh I date the same sex here' it's freakin' I'm going to try to alter myself through chemicals and surgery to be the illusion of a different gender and if you don't like it you're the monster.
I knew a FTM online that I used to chat with and it really kicked off how much transgender people irritate me because this person whenever they talked about their transition they would without fail bring up how their father 'wasn't accepting'. It got to the point where I was just so fed up with these petty ass complaints they had and told them off about it. Their father was a good guy, but everything he did was always wrong because 'transphobia' like gd. This man has changed your diapers, played tea party with you, watched you grow up, supported you in sporting events, and everything a good parent supporting their child can do of course he's struggling to deal with it! It's basically like he's watching the child he raised die and be replaced with a stranger! He's one of the closest people to you, give him time and understanding because he's gotta deal with just as complicated emotions as you do for this!
None of them have any consideration for how much this impacts the other people in their lives, they just want absolute tyrannical acceptance while giving no time period of adjustment or consideration of how the people who love them have to work through their feeling on the issue. They're so busy suffering that they have blinders on as to how what they're doing also causes emotional distress to their loved ones. It's all me me me! all the time.