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I didn't know that Sophia was supposed to be a transbian. That's dumb and pandering. In real life Laverne Cox is pretty standard HSTS--very fem little boy, raised by a single mom in Alabama, tried to commit suicide at 11 for having gay feelings, was an actual drag queen while the first season of OITNB was on, the whole nine yards.

It was such bad writing, it wound up being super cringy. They could have given Sophia a son while having it be an oopsy conception pre-acknowledging being gay. Sophia having a wife made no sense.
 
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All the broccoli in the world can't help a wound that's kept open forever heal well.
 
Can we just ban this type of surgery already? There seems to be more unhappy outcomes than not. It’s purely aesthetic anyway and there’s no point in causing this much discomfort and medical issues over appearing to look more like a woman.
Um wow you freedom hating bigot, the free market has chosen to allow SRS, thank dog that we live in a society where we can become the women we were meant to be :semperfidelis:

You're totally right, it's insane and evil that butchers can operate on the mentally ill with impunity like this

it just further shatters my heart
Literally :heart-empty: lmao

My coworkers think I have breast cancer (I've actually lost my mind), how should I handle this for maximum asspats?

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u/kitterude

14 hours ago


My coworkers think I have breast cancer?
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I'm 25, FTM, no HRT. I present feminine professionally due to being unable to bind. I am not out to my coworkers as trans but am getting top surgery next month.
News spread in the department that I was having surgery so I was asked what I was having done. Not thinking, I said I was having a double mastectomy, which is true. I got a lot of support, a few well-wishes for a speedy recovery. I thought nothing of it.
Then I overheard a few coworkers talking about how it was really tragic, how I was so young to be facing this. I then started being given more direct "support" from people, being told about how they have such and such family member who had breast cancer and that hopefully because I'm so young I'll bounce back okay. I try to be upbeat and friendly and am considered kind of a light in the workplace, which I think kind of fed the "brave/tragic" angle by accident.
I don't know how to handle this. I don't want to imply I have breast cancer, which is a horribly devastating disease, but I also don't feel it's safe to be openly transgender at this office. After my surgery I do plan on spending my recovery time looking for a new job (the company is horrible and I want out) but how should I navigate this? Is it worth letting them believe whatever, or is it important that I out myself because of the seriousness of the illness they think I have?
TLDR: My coworkers think my upcoming top surgery is because of breast cancer, and I'm not sure how or if to correct them without outting myself.

These same coworkers took me from the brink of suicide

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u/kitterude

8 days ago

To my coworkers
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You guys legitimately saved my life yesterday. I've been falling to pieces for a week, terrified of what I'm facing from the doctor, feeling so alone and isolated from my partner that I couldn't cope. I'd taken multiple breaks that day to just sit in the bathroom and cry.
I was on a ledge when I went to go clock out, I genuinely didn't think I was going to make it home.
And you roped me into the conversation before I could walk away. You kept me there for twenty minutes, laughing with me and sharing that moment with me, seeing me. A few of you said you'd see me tomorrow.
You were right.
Thank you.

Definitely the right state of mind to be having life-altering surgery.
 
"ruins it for everyone else" – ruins what? Your ability to impose on a woman during her workout because you feel lonely? Also why is he in the women's section anyway? He doesn't need that stuff so it's just to feed his genderfeels while making women uncomfortable because they're too afraid to ask him to move so they can get their tampons from the shelf that he's blocking with his hulking frame.

"You guys legitimately saved my life yesterday. I've been falling to pieces for a week . I'd taken multiple breaks that day to just sit in the bathroom and cry."
"I try to be upbeat and friendly and am considered kind of a light in the workplace, which I think kind of fed the "brave/tragic" angle by accident."


Yeah sure, it's you being friendly and upbeat and a light in the workplace that made them think you're going through something bad and need support...

Can you imagine how these people are going to feel when they find out the truth, that they spent so much time and energy comforting someone they thought had cancer when they were really just a narcissist trooning out? oh man, I'd like to be in that break room when the news hits.
 
Shouldn't the doctors and the surgeon know this? I think they just don't want to touch him because of liability issues.

A lot of times, troons are limited to getting correction surgery from the same dude who fucked it up in the first place, because nobody wants a troon surgeon's sloppy seconds.
 
How can I make a happy moment for my sister all about myself?

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u/Deadnameproblems

4 hours ago


My sister has named my nephew my deadname. How do I deal with this?
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Throwaway because I feel this is a fairly uncommon scenario.
I am mtf transgender, been on hormones for about a year and a half. Living full time female for about 4 years nearly.
When I came out my whole family was VERY supportive about it. My parents ferrying me to my appointments about 2 hours drive away as I can't drive yet. While my sisters were supportive, there was definitely some misunderstanding and it took them a little longer to just understand the idea of being trans.
I have a sister who has mothered 3 kids so far before I came out and we have varied relationships. I explained to them what transition was and they accepted it immediately. About 8 months ago, another of my sister's had a baby boy and he is my world. I adore him and we have a great relationship so far.
About a week ago, another of my sister's had a baby boy also. The day of the birth, she posted a picture of the baby to our family chat group with the name.
It was my deadname. First and middle name. I was speechless. I had no idea to react to this.
A few months back my mother had told me that her and her partner were considering the first name and it really wrecked my head and I cried heavily in front of my mum. She told me this behind my sister's back. Realistically my sister had no intentions of asking me whether this would be okay or whether it would affect me in general. I assumed that my mother had relayed back my feelings
Now the name itself has been explained to me as her partner's grandfather's name he was close to. The middle name is our fathers name.
This doesn't change how the name makes me feel obviously and every time someone mentions the name, it brings me a lot of emotions that I'm not really sure how to deal with.
It's been a week and I've yet to see the baby. I am worried about going round too soon as my sister will likely ask me how I'm feeling about it and I will almost definitely get emotional and have an argument about it.
The problem really is that I haven't been considered in the naming process of a name that makes me feel horrible and reminds me of depression and suicidal thoughts.
My family has been fairly quiet on the subject to the point where it feels like they don't wanna talk about it. The few times my mum or dad has spoken about it I have basically been told that I just need to "get over it"
Has anyone had anything similar and could offer any advice as I'm just very confused on how to feel or deal with the situation?
NO ONE ASKED ME IF THEY COULD USE MY DEADNAME :story:

To be serious a moment, this is kind of messed up, but obviously not because it makes a troon MAF. I'd guess the sister had a good relationship with her brother, and on some level naming her son the same name is a sign of that. I've no doubt siblings have a lot of the same feelings parents have, as their troon sibling tries to retroactively negate the childhood they shared. Perhaps this is her way of honoring/coping with the loss of someone who's, in many ways, died (or killed themself)? Or maybe I'm thinking too much into it, and it really is just as was explained to him after his hissy fit ?

lumia_

26 points·4 hours ago

Maybe eventually you'll get used to calling your nephew his name and you'll un-associate the name with yourself.
Perhaps he'll recover from his narcissism? Hella :optimistic: , joining the 40% is the only cure

BananaSquid_

9 points·3 hours ago

kid's parents don't seem to want to budge, so this is probably the most realistic answer while still being helpful. hopefully that works out for OP
No shit they're not budging, it's not his decision to make jackass

AngelusLilium

MtF trying to gather GRS funds12 points·3 hours ago

There are a few scenarios.
  1. you can hold a grudge for them not considering your feelings when naming their child.
  2. you can cut them out of your life.
  3. you can demand them change the name of a child, who has done no wrong, who's parents have a legitimate reason for using this name and probably you didn't even come into play in any way when choosing this name.
  4. accept it and move on
There's only so far people can go to be considerate for you, your feelings and your journey. From what I gather, you have been blessed. Far moreso than others in this subreddit.
The dead name is indeed an anchor to your past. It's time to cut the anchor and move on. Accept yourself. Accept your past. Accept your nephew.
This episode has shown that his family made the wrong decision by supporting him, and should have gone no contact

Ildrid88

1 point·2 hours ago

All of my co workers use my deadname every day. It's the name of a client. It's very disturbing, but none of them knew me by that name. I'm slowly getting over the name, and when I hear it I'm starting to associate it with someone else and not -me-.
I think your sister was inconsiderate, but maybe in the long run it will help your entire family get over it? being hopeful
He probably had a really common name like "John Smith". Wow, different people can have the same name, novel concept :story:

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genjo17

1 point·3 hours ago

As hard as it is to do this, you may have to find away to let this one go. This type of argument could start a divide between you and your sister that has long lasting affects. She doesn’t understand the pain this causes you, Almost in ignorance is bliss type situation
B-b-but what about the pain she's causing abloo abloo

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Papageist

-2 points·3 hours ago

That was very wrong of your sister and I get your pain. Your parents are showing a lack of empathy if they expect you to just ‘get over it.’ I always start panicking when I hear my deadname.
However, you can’t ask your sister to change it now that it’s chosen. And to be honest most cis people just don’t get these things and I wouldn’t hold out much hope of her apologising. I think the best thing would be to speak to a therapist or someone to try and find a way to deal with it emotionally so you can hear and use the name without being affected. It might become easier naturally with time. In the meantime you could find coping strategies
unironically neck yourself
 
How can I make a happy moment for my sister all about myself?


NO ONE ASKED ME IF THEY COULD USE MY DEADNAME :story:

To be serious a moment, this is kind of messed up, but obviously not because it makes a troon MAF. I'd guess the sister had a good relationship with her brother, and on some level naming her son the same name is a sign of that. I've no doubt siblings have a lot of the same feelings parents have, as their troon sibling tries to retroactively negate the childhood they shared. Perhaps this is her way of honoring/coping with the loss of someone who's, in many ways, died (or killed themself)? Or maybe I'm thinking too much into it, and it really is just as was explained to him after his hissy fit ?


Perhaps he'll recover from his narcissism? Hella :optimistic: , joining the 40% is the only cure


No shit they're not budging, it's not his decision to make jackass


This episode has shown that his family made the wrong decision by supporting him, and should have gone no contact


He probably had a really common name like "John Smith". Wow, different people can have the same name, novel concept :story:


B-b-but what about the pain she's causing abloo abloo


unironically neck yourself
What an ass. Having a child named after you is typically a show of honor and love. I bet that thing about the grandpa and dad's names was just a convenient excuse and the poor sister was trying to show her sibling that she wants a part of them to live on in another way, only to have it blow up in her face. I hope the new parents cut this guy off instead of the other way around. I can't imagine that the nephew would be treated kindly at all by such a vindictive aunt".
 
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A lot of times, troons are limited to getting correction surgery from the same dude who fucked it up in the first place, because nobody wants a troon surgeon's sloppy seconds.

Yep. Well it's partly because of professional courtesy and partly because you don't want to assume the liability of telling a patient that their previous surgeon fucked up, because that might draw you into a malpractice suit led by a screaming troon with a weeping, necrotic stink hole.

Vaginal wall (aka inverted penile tissue) necrosis due to poor vascularization is pretty rare, I think maybe <5% of SRS surgeries. But it does happen. Hope he's enjoying his excellent life choice.
 
Perhaps this is her way of honoring/coping with the loss of someone who's, in many ways, died (or killed themself)?

Remember, only troons are allowed to have feelings, and you have to bow down and fucking worship them. Nobody else is allowed to have any emotional issues or deal with them in ways that troons don't like.
 
Yep. Well it's partly because of professional courtesy and partly because you don't want to assume the liability of telling a patient that their previous surgeon fucked up, because that might draw you into a malpractice suit led by a screaming troon with a weeping, necrotic stink hole.

Vaginal wall (aka inverted penile tissue) necrosis due to poor vascularization is pretty rare, I think maybe <5% of SRS surgeries. But it does happen. Hope he's enjoying his excellent life choice.

He won't for long. I wouldn't be entirely surprised if the doctor ends up having to cut off a big portion of this dude's "vagina" so the infection doesn't spread and kill him. He'll be pretty pissed when he finds that out since he's deluded enough to think that it's just a normal vagina problem and not a major one.
 
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