- Joined
- May 19, 2018
every trans person I have met had an intense obsession with passing (at least at the beginning of their transition). That's my personal theory about why most of the people I've known who troon out, and claim to be "so much happier", actually seem to be having a nervous breakdown. They're all thinking "do I pass? do I pass? are my clothes right? do I sound okay? does that person know?? what surgery do I need to pass? Is my HRT working? Do I walk and move right???" ALL DAY EVERY DAY. A ton of them ended up staying on social media by themselves as much as possible, which is just as bad for mental health. It is hard to know who started out self obsessed and who got driven to it by being told that they are going to get murdered if anyone knows they are trans.
This is why you don't feed the paraphilias, kids.