That's easy and explain many times over and over. You made them chase seducers instead of providers. But all seducers are genetic scum incapable of relationships and able to only fertilize and leave,.
Ah, I get it! It makes sense now. You're completely incorrect!
You're so incredibly wrong, from your very first assumption, that there's nothing for you to do but continue
being wrong. Otherwise, you'd have to start over and erase an entire decade of misconceptions, and you just don't have time to do that when there's people to insult on the internet.
Well, if you ever want to dial back the past ten years of your life and start figuring out what reality is really like, a good first step is to learn that most people can't fit into neat little compartments. Their desires and motivations are frequently very complex. Sometimes they're confused, sometimes they understand, sometimes they think they want something they turn out to hate or not realize they like something until much later in life. Like brussel sprouts. They're delicious.
Trying to cram everyone into categories shows a very limited mind. You can't handle the idea of something having a layer of abstraction, because you're too simple minded yourself to think of other people as real thinking creatures. You're trapped in your own head because figuring yourself out takes all of your brain's processing power (and frankly, you can't seem to really figure that out either).
People aren't background programs in a simulation, Holden. No one is walking around with a floating tag that says "Liberal Seducer" or "Benevolent Provider". Seduction is something you do when you're attracted to someone and want them attracted to you. Providing for someone is what you do when you want them to have a better life than they'll have without you. Gender doesn't even really enter into it. I know plenty of stay-at-home fathers for happy families because the mom's office job paid higher than the dad's warehouse job.
And quit saying rape ape. Yes, it rhymes. You're very clever.
