macie, how is it impossible to be incel, please?
also, corrections 1. way before 18 2. not a relationship 3. get over the fear, not to have a broken heart 4. the consequences of me not meeting women before i was 18 are well described and disastrous
I've already described it to you, why you no read??? But in all honesty, I'd fucking LOVE to go over it again.
Ok so here we goooooooo!
1) celibacy, as described and defined by men centuries ago, is the VOLUNTARY act of not having sex and/or marriage
2) celibacy is voluntary in it's very definition
3) celibacy DOES NOT MEAN you just aren't having sex.
4) celibacy DOES MEAN you have CHOSEN to not have sex
5) celibacy cannot be involuntary as that goes against the direct definition of it from ancient times.
6) sex is not a right, it is a privilege.
7A) sex is not a necessity to life, it is a desire
7B) human contact is debated as a human necessity even though there are thousands that live comfortably as hermits, with no human contact.
7C) sex is not the only human contact one can have, not even close, this eliminates it (sex) as a necessity

once again, you cannot involuntarily be celibate when celibacy, by definition, is voluntary. It would be like saying "i was voluntarily born" when being born is completely and utterly involuntary. You cannot chose to be born. You choose to be celibate, you cannot be forced into celibacy.
And once a-fucking-gain. The act of being denied sex, the act of not getting sex, and the lack of sex in your life DOES NOT mean celibate. Celibate is a choice, not something people force on you.