another thing is with streams and chat is- some people miss what happened even a second ago sometimes as they just joined the stream that very moment, and some have such pisspore internet that they can't rewind streams or look to far back into chat because of the hundreds of constant messages...
if your so pissed off lily, just make a QaA tab on your tumblr sidebar with commonly asked questions, and then people can just read through that like
'Qwhy are you female but with a deep voice
'A; i am trans and don't feel comfortable with my real feminine voice atm, so i'm still in training'
'why do you hate x
'because fuck you thats why (i just see that as a typical lily response though)