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- Jan 24, 2018
The main emotion victims of domestic abuse experience is confusion, they are disoriented all the time by the abusive person. There is a cycle to it where tension builds for awhile, something arbitrary makes the abuser chimp out, and then for awhile the abuser is convincingly sorry & is an excellent partner, then the tension builds, and so on forever. Abusers do it on purpose so that their victims can't identify the abuse. Once abuse victims very plainly see that the abuser is doing selfish shit for selfish reasons its pretty much game over and victims move out, but there has been years of gaslighting intended to keep them from figuring it out. For you and me it is easy to see that zach contributes nothing and fucks other people all day, but to Heather it's been explained over and over again that it is really transgressive and he is fighting transphobia with his twitter account and his pornography is actually activism and blah blah blah. She would be a bad person to object to what zach does, surely! I'm fairly convinced that zach planned to cheat on her on the honeymoon as a test to see if heather was truly someone he wanted to stay married to (a doormat with a pay check). Maybe he resented being asked to legally marry her and did that as a win/win situation for himself.I have personally always been curious about the Heather side of the equation. Is she just gullible? Stupid? Did she really shrug and went oh well I guess they are my partners for life because she did not get sympathetic responses?
Fuck her, she's a cuck, and she has a responsibility to her kids whose lives she's fucking up with this disgusting troon bullshit.
She can be a victim and a shitty person at the same time. She is absolutely shitty for what she has done to her children's lives by keeping this unstable man around her kids, and forcing everyone to pretend that penny and zach are women, too. The dynamic in these households is always exactly the same, everyone has to fret about making the crazy person happy, the kids learn they don't matter, that they can't control anything about their own lives, and they learn how to live a lie for other people. I hope the summers they spend with their dad are a source of solace for them.