I just don't think trying to explain things like Stockholm syndrome or trauma-bonding would get me anywhere in your case. They exist and are well-documented, but again, you're going to shoot down the most reasonable things I might point out here. I will just say this: Perhaps she is crying because she fears the beating she knows she will get when he gets out of jail bent on revenge, possibly within 24 hours.
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This has nothing to do with those things. She is crying if he's taken to prison, not if he comes back. She is crying because she likes the thug. Stop trying to justify it and make her a victim for wrong reasons. She is a victim, but a victim of idiots like those posting here, who made women attracted to such men.
That's no way to build the kind of honesty that is a desirable trait. You want her to be honest? Provide full disclosure in return. It goes both ways. What if YOU needed to file a criminal complaint against HER? As you yourself point out, women can be violent too.
Lol ! If I give full disclosure to any woman I am already in a horrible position, since she will never give any. gee, it's almost as if you want women to abuse me.
i'd never file a criminal complaint against a woman since this is a feminist country and this would just result in me being prosecuted in the end. if i had to deal with a woman i'd deal in a much more efficient way.
I forgot the names of them. You have typed a lot of words in the last 3 days. I apologize for forgetting. Perhaps you would be so good as to provide the names again, and then I can look them up. Because of all the words you typed, I also forgot what you said about your parents.
it's irrelevant who these singers are (but i said so previously) and my parents made several big mistakes. one of the biggest ones was teaching me to treat women like decent beings. this might have worked in 1985 but resulted in a disaster now where all they want is to be beaten to a bloody pulp.
You asked what codependency meant. A person, male or female, who is so scared of losing a partner that they talk big about all the things they would do to stop that person from leaving fits the definition, in that their fear of losing the partner is strong because they don't feel a strong identity of their own. This is what the books were about: how to overcome this problem by feeling more confident.
This has nothing to do with confidence. it is merely biology. a woman can find a male at any time but a male can't.
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As to the rest: People in the US are still very religious. We have never had a president who was an atheist or even agnostic, for example, and in some states it is actually illegal to hold political office without having Christian beliefs. You say all the people you know hate work and glorify rapists. I am telling you all the people I know are very hardworking. My friend whose parents came over from Scotland started out life very poor, but worked his way up to a master's degree and is now a manager in his job; unfortunately, this requires him to spend 16-hour days more than once in his typical workweek, but he doesn't mind because he is supporting his wife and daughter. I somehow manage to meet only hardworking people, although this may have to do with the nature of my own job, which also requires a minimum of a master's degree. Do you see what is called "selection bias" at work? You are conditioned to think people are thugs because you seem to have met many. I can't say why this might be. I am conditioned to think people work hard because those are the people I have met. You believe everyone is a cheater because you helped two girls cheat. I seem to meet faithful people. Maybe you do need a different social circle.
People in US are still formally very religious but this is worthless. It has nothing to do with actual patriarchal, sane values anymore. it's just about licking jesus's cock.
people i know don't hate work nor do they glorify rapists. they hate suckers paying for their own incel and live in a society which glorifies incel. regarding work, don't forget that i said women were disgusted by me working but didn't reject me for not working. they just hated me more for working to pay for slutdom.
i like the example of that friend from scotland - i will never have a wife and child so i'll just support sluts if i work. you think any sane man would?
all of the girls i had sex with were cheaters. ok, one wasn't in a relationship when we did but when we started messing around she was.
ALL. 4/4.
also, i have more female friends than just my lesbian one. i don't know what i should "practice" with them, except my disgust.