she spent a week with me, but 1. not at my formal address
This just in! Apparently if you are on Welfare in Croatia you can afford to rent/buy a second place to live for a week...
Unless you're saying that you get enough by defrauding the Gov to do that, you're a lying shit. (and if you are telling the truth, I'm sure your Gov would like to have words with you... given that your name and age is all that is needed for them to find you, you should think very carefully before saying you could do anything like that...)
2. she's too dimwitted to care or know. for example, once some guy came to pick her up by car after we had sex. some friend. she had no idea in which neighborhood she is. nor does she now.
Well done... now you have a friend of hers who knows where it was, and who you are, and the chances they don't know why she was with you are pretty slim to say the least...
Oh, and since you said she was coming to stay with you, why would she need someone to come and pick her up...? It's almost like you're making shit up to cover the fact your story has a fuck-ton of holes in it...
You're just showing how brainwashed and pathetic you are but I'll explain. Female virginity, before the advent of modern science and medicine, meant a greater chance of you being the father of your wife's kids.
Given that for quite some time it was believed that a baby was made from semen... and the woman just incubated it for 9 months... virginity wasn't as important as you might think. Now, not being pregnant... that's a whole 'nother thing...
Oh, and the whole virginity thing? Again, that was only important to a very select few... which you already know since you're an historian...
What about the multitude of cultures where virginity wasn't as highly valued? Like in most east asian countries if you hadn't done it at least once before marriage it was considered kind of odd.
The Japanese even made a 'game' out of boyfriends sneaking into their girlfriend's houses at night to have sex. It seems like if it was a biological compulsion to value virginity the men in these cultures wouldn't have been okay with marrying 'deflowered' women.
Don't forget there were some cultures (I think some Slavic cultures were among them) where being a virgin made you unmarriable... which makes that whole virginity thing even more of a stupid claim by Fuckbot.
Are we sure he's really an historian?