Nationalism is a healthy thing for any nation when it promotes pride in the dignity of the nation-state's internal morale, but it turns ugly when you assume your nation is any better than any other..
But mine is better than any other..
..because of said feelings.
..oh, okay. Well, confusing objectivity with sentiment is a recipe for disaster, so I'll give you that one.
..USA! USA! USA! USA!
Nationalism is dumb. It's the belief that your country is great just because you were born in it.
Well, if you define it that way then it certainly is quite dumb, yes. Moving forward, let it be known I'm using my own take on nationalism unless dictated otherwise.
I'm from the UK, but I have no sense of patriotism or pride towards it.
I'm sorry to hear that. Have you considered being more actively involved in making it a place you can be proud of?
I'm not proud to be British because Britain fucking sucks. It's incompetently governed, too expensive to live in and full of absolute cunts. Those things could change, then the UK would be a better place to live. If that happened I'd be happier about the place where I live, but I don't feel any obligation to be "proud" of it.
I see that you have not, in fact, considered being more actively involved in making it better..or at bare minimum, lifted a finger to try. Bitching into the aether is easy but it really won't fix anything.
You sound young, as this sort of paradoxical thinking tends to be corrected as you get older and realize how naive it is.
In fact being "proud" of the country of your birth (or your ethnic ancestry for that matter) is a really fucking weird idea.
Do you really think so? Humans don't really live too terribly long, even in modern times. You don't think there's anything to be said for acknowledging the efforts of your ancestors and coming to terms with the fact that
it takes many generations NOT fucking everything up to really get much done? Do you think those older or long dead Brits worked as hard as they did to get your society to where it is today just so you could sit around (kicking and screaming and whining) about how things are just the worst?
Again, this strikes me as incredibly naive and even borderline infantile. I really think you should consider the whole picture.
"Pride" is something you would normally reserve for something you personally achieved, or at least had some part in.
The trend continues. Again, try being part of your goddamn country. Don't automatically assume that someone displaying patriotism doesn't have any reason to feel that way. When you're personally invested into things, you tend to start caring about them more.
Do you own a business?
(no)
Do you have a family? Any kids?
(no)
Have any friends in the armed forces?
What about any shiny toys you're terribly fond of that are a product of your country?
Yeah that last one is reaching, but you'd have to have some pretty impressive circumstances to not have
any reason at all to be invested in your country's past, present, and future.
I'm not "proud" of being British, and I wouldn't even if the UK was the best place on Earth, because I can't claim credit for that. Any more than I should feel "ashamed" for the various awful things the British Empire did. I wasn't responsible for anything "Britain" or the "Anglo Saxons" did because I had no hand in any of it. I just popped into existence on this patch of Earth one day.
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I got the point the first two times. I'd imagine most others did as well.
I'm certainly interested in the history of my country and my people, those people and what they did created the place I live in and its place in the world. But there's no moral connection there, I cannot take credit for their achievements or blame for their mistakes.
Do you think there would be any history of your country and your people if the ones who came before you acted like you are right now? I'm trying really hard to not just bitchslap you for being an arrogant child in a manner very much "
for your own good," but this is getting difficult.
Remember, if you think you can take credit for the achievements of your country
Apples.
Oranges. Ignoring oranges for the sake of staying on topic.
that means you are personally responsible for their mistakes too.
I don't think taking pride in one's country, unless you're fucked in the head, means you're taking past accomplishments as though you had a personal hand in them. Likewise for past atrocities/mistakes. You should learn from both just like anything else in life. Repeat or further build on the good, learn how to avoid repeating the bad.
Funny how "patriots" are suddenly "it's nothing to do with me, it was all in the past" when slavery reparations are mentioned.
You should always own the good with the bad, but you should also understand what you're talking about. Reparations are another (very stupid) topic entirely.
Thus are the dangers of identity politics.
I don't even know where you're going with that one. If you mean to say that being dishonest and shying away from an uncomfortable topic is stupid, then yes - it's stupid.
The fact I was born here was a statistical accident. I think I may be in a minority by not feeling any attachment to my home country (if I could speak the language better I'd move to Germany, which had always struck me as being very much like Britain culturally but with less misery), but I could never understand it on any rational level.
Oi..you fancy yourself a nihilist, mate? I ask because this strikes me more and more as being the case.
It's also a barrier to progress. Places like Portugal, Singapore and Australia have much better health systems, by any metric, than the UK. But this weird "the NHS is the envy of the world" bullshit prevents it being reformed,
I thought this was off topic until:
and as someone with significant health problems that the NHS has failed to fix
Okay, so you've got a chip on your shoulder. Motherfucker, you're not thinking it through. PMing you for this one cause this shit's too powerlevely for conversation.
Rather than insisting your country, or your ancestry, is the best or being "proud" of it, do something to make it better. Be a part of positive change, and be proud of that instead.
HOW THE FUCK DO YOU SAY THIS ALL THE WAY AT THE END AND YET PROCEED TO
NOT GET IT AT ALL FOR THE LENGTH OF A SHORT STORY?
I take it back, you
do need a bitchslap and I mean that with all the sincerity of someone trying to help your naive ass. Sweet tap-dancing Christ on a pogo stick.