- Joined
- Oct 5, 2018
Agree 100%. However, that's assuming she does try to become a domme.
Regardless on one's opinion on BDSM, the "ideal domme/dom" has to do A LOT of work to make sure the scene's enjoyable for all parties involved. They have to make sure the sub's comfortable and 100% on board with whatever the domme's doing; they have to be capable of self-reflection and be aware of boundaries. Toys and equipment? Not only do they have make sure everything's clean and works well, they have to learn how to USE said equipment--you can't just grab a flogger, for example, and start slapping your sub around, because there's a VERY good chance you can hurt them that way (and not the fun kind of hurt, either). That's not even getting into aftercare, where a domme has to ground the sub and take care of their basic needs (giving them water, food, etc)--and god HELP you if you don't know what subspace is.
There's no WAY Stephanie would work on something that doesn't make her the top priority, let alone something that involves so much patience and self-reflection. She'd go to a club, see all the contracts they expect her to sign and all the equipment they expect her to learn how to use, and she'll suddenly find that she doesn't have enough spoons to go through with it.
Steph would most likely be like:
"WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU MEAN I HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF A SUB AND I CAN'T JUST MINDLESSLY PUMMEL THEM TO HALF-CONSCIOUSNESS?! WHAT DO YOU MEAN THAT MOST SUBS AREN'T ALSO ZOOPHILES AND WILLING TO GET BEATEN BY A PIG-WHALE-ORC-HUMAN HYBRID SCIENCE EXPERIMENT?!?!"