hi ive spoken with people who knew rina and their ex, semi
rina made like an 80 page comic (very obviously inspired by glip and then confirmed that glip was involved) that tried to victimize themself and make out semi as the abuser, even though its the other way around. sound familiar?
heres the comic rina made:
https://twitter.com/pinnapop/status/1135991311125946368
(archive:
http://archive.li/p6N2g)
here is semi's twitter thread that explains what rina did to them:
https://twitter.com/fremfus/status/1138990663603773441
(archive:
http://archive.li/ft5X2 - looks like someone else archive it already!)
Frankly everyone wins a loser reward on this one.
Semi's at fault for ending the relationship *and* thinking they could just maintain a friendship right after. People don't work like that, as someone who has exes as friends - you can really only quickly transition from relationship to friendship if you were more best friends than intimate partners. Anything else, and it takes time for people to adjust how they see you, and it's often a bumpy road to get back to friendship (and very often it's just not going to happen because the breakup strain was too much, or outside looking in you realise it was all midas gold anyway.
He has several chat logs where Rina is clearly initiating relationship talk, but it's equally bad on his part that he keeps going "no no talking about this is okay but I'm sorry I can't return your feelings" - You really can't just go "please stop" because those feelings don't just go away. It takes time, and frankly you have to put you foot down and go "no" and make clear there is no second chance coming.
Also this is why "breaks" are some wishy-washy nonsense as proven by "Friends". It doesn't actually free you like a proper break-up does, and only keeps the other person hanging on for when the other person "feels better/feels ready" delaying the inevitable mess when they find out it was actually over at that point. Also if anyone ever tells you *seriously* "if you leave me, I would kill myself" - that's more the reason to leave than anything else, because that's not healthy at all.
Not saying Rina isn't justified in their feelings, they believed the relationship was on a temp break. The guy refused to properly put the foot down at first. Then trying another friendly wishy-washy solution with "uwu we can still ship our sonas and maybe be FWB" and then realising that actually no - you don't even want to think of them in that capacity even in a fictional way.
Vagueposting is a thing that happens, but it is a selfish and immature reaction to private issues most of the time. But also why was Semi following their private twitter? if you don't want to see someones private thoughts anymore - just...unfollow the not-public account.
The ones on the public? Yeah those are less understandable, but at the same time, you can't just break up with someone and expect them to not be upset about it or express their feelings. But at the same time that doesn't give you the freedom to go running around telling all his friends that he is a very bad person.
That said, Semi is 19 - I dunno how old Rina is - but that's the sort of age where people make dating mistakes and have to learn that ending relationships is both painful and awkward for all involved. Semi's main fault is trying to be too nice about ending the relationship vs his ex who called up Glip and friends to engage in the sort of actions they've spent almost 2 years boo-hooing about. I also like his response to Glip trying to be the alpha bitch
http://archive.is/SWaoG
Newsflash: telling someone you don't love them anymore and being a bit of a pussy about it isn't anywhere near the same level of letting your ex-husband fuck dogs and bring minors around for some predatory grooming.
I dunno about the other stuff with this dude, but it sounds like he's been going to therapy and trying to work on his stuff. So hopefully he just keeps up with that and leaves his ex and glip reeeing away in the distance regardless.
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