The movie "The Animal" starring Rob Schneider is, obviously, not a good movie. However, there is one funny recurring joke, which is that EVERYONE is super duper ultra nice to the black dude because they don't want to get seen as racist. He gets increasingly frustrated with this throughout the movie, and it keeps getting more ridiculous.
That particular character reminds me of what you're talking about. It makes me wonder if what some of these guys want is to be slapped down just like a white person saying such dumb fucking shit would be. Like, the real racism they face is everyone handling them with kid gloves and treated them as a prop to prove how virtuous they are, rather than treating them like a person.