It’s such a red flag to hear parents talking about how their kids that age ‘want to have a vagina.’ Or somesuch. Kids at 4yo really are at the stage where the bathtime conversation goes:
Mum! You don’t have a willy!
No, girls don’t.
Oh. I have a willy.
Yes, you’re a boy. Boys have willies
Oh, ok. Today I saw a dinosaur but just a pretend one and can we have ice cream later? Trucks are LOUD...
I have never met a child even a few years older than that who had any grasp of gender like parents like this say . It is ALL grooming, putting words in their mouths and when coupled with certain behaviours and things they say, it’s indicative of either outright abuse or being exposed to sexual situations far too young.
Desmond’s BMI is shockingly low - it’s far beyond healthy skinny kid level. Hearing the girl talk about how she was starved...
One day this will be on the news with serious voices, lessons being learned and CPS trying to justify it. When it’s all too late. That poor kid, he needs jeans, a sweater and a trip to the train museum. I am officially mad on the internet, but it’s just awful.
